Tease and denial techniques

[butlover3]

Hi


My other half wants to learn more about tease and denial techniques and has asked me to find a good instructional video on line as she like to watch rather than read. Does anyone know of any good resources or links?

Thanks

[Tom Allen]

I don't have the link handy, but I think Mistress Ivey's blog Becoming A Mistress has a nice combination of text and short videos. The link should be on Keyheld.blogspot.com.

[butlover3]

Thanks Tom. Ive seen her page but not read her new book yet.
I did see some "instructional" clips on line a few years back showing how to ruin/stifle orgasms etc but cant find it now.

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[Subinmemphis]

Watching this thread.

[Locked by LRC]

Mistress Ivey links;
Explanations of different techniques and instructions;
http://mistressivey.blogspot.com/2010/1 ... lking.html

More instructions with a link to a video;
http://mistressivey.blogspot.com/2011/0 ... lking.html


A 21 minute T&D by Brittany O'Neil,one of my favorites;
http://www.xvideos.com/video1082963/bri ... and_denial

[Michele]

Are you saying I need to create some technique videos? ~ I just wrote a post on some of my techniques but don't have pics or vid... is that something people prefer?

[cagedmonkey]

Are you saying I need to create some technique videos? ~

Considering I'd probably end up being the demo model, I think this is a fantastic idea.

[butlover3]

Mistress M
I wouldn't dare to be so presumptuous to ask but it would be great

[LockedUp24]

Its difficult to find sources of this kind other than written words.
There is a few videos in the usual adult tube sites etc and not many are actually good or good quality or they are just too extreme.
My Kh has seen a few videos on edging and she enjoys doing that sometimes.

The trick to finding the videos on the sites is the keywords you use and also spelling them right and wrong.

[Locked by LRC]

Are you saying I need to create some technique videos? ~ I just wrote a post on some of my techniques but don't have pics or vid... is that something people prefer?

When we first started LRC wanted to watch videos to give a visual aid to the written copy she had read. The problem then, as now, a vast majority of them are basically porn. By this I mean they must have a "happy ending".

LRC would have me find videos with different techniques. As she was watching them she would try to emulate their tease. It was fantastic while she was learning except for one thing, it always ended with an orgasm. Trying to not top-from-the-bottom, I didn't say anything for a while. When I finally brought it up she said that she thought I wanted an orgasm when she wanted to stop for the night. This is what she was seeing in the videos.

We had another discussion that it was tease and no orgasm, then stop and repeat until she wanted me to orgasm. The next week was very long.

Personally, I think a technique video with a reminder at the end that a teasing session doesn't have to result in an orgasm would be good. Being someone in the chastity lifestyle I would find a video from the cage teasingly being removed, then a hot tease session, then begging for an orgasm while the cage is reinstalled, very hot!

Considering I'd probably end up being the demo model, I think this is a fantastic idea.

Careful cagedmonkey, I think Mistress M should make ten or fifteen of these videos before your next orgasm, just to make them real you know!