how long until you really go crazy in chastity?

[chastityslave18]

So, I'm in chastity but I don't have a device, the longest I went was 14 days until I was aloud to masturbate again. I'm only allowed to rub up against objects but without cumming, obviously. I'm just wondering how long it usually takes for you to start to feel the effects of chastity at an extreme level? I've been horny in chastity, obviously but I haven't made it to the point of where it becomes a constant struggle to get by each day.

If you understand my question.

Thanks!

[Grizzly228]

For me it depends on the amount of teasing and the method. When using a device the frustration increases faster because I'm always thinking about it and feeling the device. And actually tend to look at porn more often. And it comes in waves. Yesterday was day 6 into 7 and was extremely difficult. Then I took off the device and went out with friends. Despite working on day 8 now I feel ok.

Sometimes it starts on day 3 or 4 for me as I used to orgasm everyday or multiple times a day. So day 4 is when my body realizes something is different and makes me feel different.

Anyway I'm rambling. But the longest I've went is 14 days and i would say I get hit with a super frustrating wave every three or four days. More so if I'm recently teased; so much so i can get depressed and want to cry. Don't know if this is normal. But I know enough now to realize it will pass and I can continue the streak essentially as long as I want as long as I don't give in. Which has been difficult without a keyholder or gf.

[Michele]

I grilled cagedmonkey on this subject, and here's what he had to say:

To be honest, you probably won't end up "going crazy" unless you decide to start wearing a device. The most maddening thing about being locked in a device is the fact that you are locked in and you can't do anything about it even if you wanted to!

With that said, you certainly can get a little "stir crazy" as your horny builds. For me personally, the time frame depends on how my chastity is being applied. If the cage comes off here and there for teasing and/or maintenance, I usually start to get a little desperate after about two weeks or so. If I'm locked in 24/7, it happens a little bit quicker; I start to lose my mind after around 7-10 days. It also depends how much teasing My Lady is giving me. That is usually a very reliable constant source or frustration.

[Aarkey]

Like Grizzly, it usually depends on how much teasing and excitement is going on. I remember when my ex went on a trip for 7 days and locked me before she left. It was pretty easy to go that far, but after a few days of her being home I was a mess.

On other occasions it can be just 4 or 5 days if there's a lot of teasing or interaction that is going on and I'm all full of pent up excitement.

I have found that the excitement tends to plateau somewhere around day 14 for me. It doesn't go away at all, but it just doesn't continue to amp up. At least not on its own

[Elizabeth]

My slave starts to get really frustrated around a week. Sometimes he gets out of line & badgers me about letting him out. We like to play with punishments, so when he acts out I make sure to put him back into place with a good spanking session. That usually makes him quiet real fast

[Cagedrosie]

My slave starts to get really frustrated around a week. Sometimes he gets out of line & badgers me about letting him out. We like to play with punishments, so when he acts out I make sure to put him back into place with a good spanking session. That usually makes him quiet real fast

[chastehub]

i've just completed my longest time without an O, 23 days (more on that in my "journey" post), and for me it wasn't just about time, but the amount of teasing during that time. At the beginning MyBride's and my schedules were out of sync so there was very little teasing, and i wasn't going too crazy. Toward the end though, around day 18, MyBride amp'd up the teasing, which left me clawing at the cage. So while time is certainly a factor in how horny a chaste male gets, teasing is the bigger contributor to how crazy he gets.

[chastityslave18]

Thanks for the posts guys!

[newtochast57]

I must be a little crazy (opps!!! I forgot where I was).

I had the talk with my wife about chastity and orgasm denial about two months ago. I had started wearing a CBk6s just after Valentine’s Day during the day just to see if I could do it. On March 2nd I approached my wife with the chastity talk by giving her a 14 page letter along with a sample contract.

To my delight she agreed to give this a try however she was not comfortable keeping the key however said I could wear the CB if I wanted to. She also was not comfortable denying me orgasms. Although we did not go ahead with the contract at this time she said that she would try to both tease and deny me. I in turn said I would not bug her about the key or the chastity, except that once a week we would have a discussion on how things were going and at that time I could talk about chastity.

It is like someone turned on a switch that day and to this point our sex life and relationship both in and out of the bedroom have been on fire (that’s a good thing). I did get an orgasm on March 14th while we were making love, however prior to my orgasm she had 4 of her own and one with me.

When reading posts on this forum it appears that most of the men, particularly those new to chastity are climbing the walls if they go 3, 5 or even 7 days without an orgasm.

It is now May and I still have not had an orgasm since March 14th. I was wearing the CB6ks during most of this time however I could not wear it at night. The longest time at night I was able to go was 4 hours however when I got hard (cage was too big) it pushed the cage tight against my balls and the pain was unbearable.

I got my a JB from MM a week ago and I have worn it 24/7 since that time with the exception of 2 nights that my wife asked me to take it off for PIV, however both nights when inside my wife she told me “don’t you dare cum” or “tell me if you are getting close”. Those are probably the most erotic words I have ever heard and yes I did not get to cum (got close several time though), however to me if felt even better than having an orgasm. During that same time she also had several nights were I have given her pleasure while still wearing the cage and other than cuddling afterwards with her caressing my locked up penis and my balls asking how I felt, there was no pleasure for me, and I loved it.

Since we started this at the beginning of March she has increase the teasing both in and out of the bedroom and at the same time our frequency of making love has increased dramatically. She continues to enjoy PIV however with the exception of one time when we were both tired PIV only happens after she has had at least 2 or 3 orgasms. On occasion she gotten on top of me with instructions for me not to move or thrust and with just the head of my penis at her opening and instructions again of “tell me if you are getting close” and “don’t you dare cum” she has been able to have an orgasm while denying mine.

Our anniversary is coming up in a few weeks and she has dropped some hints that she might be willing to take the key for my JB then. If so we will have to go over our contract to allow her input. We did agree that when she took the key that it would be a three month trial at which time would discuss whether we both wanted to continue this. One thing I had put in the original contract was that I would not be allowed more than one release per week and the longest that she could deny me would be 3 weeks. The one week was so that she would not feel bad about denying me and the three weeks was so that I didn’t go crazy. That will be changed prior to giving the key to her so that she will have the option of giving me releases when she wants but she also has the option of denying me for the entire 3 month period.

I have asked her that up until our anniversary that she continue to deny me release and I also told her I would have no problem if she denied me release on our anniversary and through our entire 3 month trial period.

I know they say “be careful what you ask for” but at this point I think I am hoping that she denies me right through the end of our 3 month trial period but continues with the tease and denial including the PIV.
Like I said at the beginning “I might be a little crazy” but if our relationship and sex life remain the same as it has been for the past two months, I would not want it to change. I am so lucky to have a wife who loves me and is willing to try new things, even though when we first started they were outside her comfort zone.

[budgie]

I think this is also affected by how many orgasms you were allowed before starting back into chastity. Recently after 6 weeks I had a single orgasm which was rather unsatisfactory. Shortly after I got very intense feelings of desperately needing to come but by then I was locked again. That definitely makes the denial much more intense.