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I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 10:26 am
by Aarkey
I'm tired of reading how many people assume that if you're interested in chastity you are:
Interested in cuckolding
Want to be a sissy maid
Are seeking forced-bi
Don't get to have sex
I'm sure there are a dozen other ones, but those are the ones that just grate on me. I'm very grateful for those outspoken men in chastity (and the women who enjoy locking us) who stand up time and time again and say "nope" to these assumptions.
And to be clear, I'm not judging anyone interested in any of those things, or the M2M chastity folks either. There's room enough for all of us, but I just find it so tedious that people assume X because of Y.
/rantmodeoff
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 10:29 am
by Tom Allen
I wish we had a little emoticon for "banging head against a wall."
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 10:59 am
by TheDude
Yes I've found it frustrating trying to find some resources to introduce my partner. I just enjoy bondage!
Tom Allen wrote:I wish we had a little emoticon for "banging head against a wall."
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 11:22 am
by locked4her55
Aarkey wrote:I'm tired of reading how many people assume that if you're interested in chastity you are:
Interested in cuckolding
Want to be a sissy maid
Are seeking forced-bi
Don't get to have sex
No, No, No & No!
TheDude: Nice Head banger
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 11:31 am
by Finn
Guy shows up at a mob party dressed as a maid. Another guy starts teasing him, but his buddies pull him away. "What are you doing? That guy's a maid man!"
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 2:39 pm
by Michele
Aarkey wrote:I'm tired of reading how many people assume that if you're interested in chastity you are:
Interested in cuckolding
Want to be a sissy maid
Are seeking forced-bi
Don't get to have sex
I'm sure there are a dozen other ones, but those are the ones that just grate on me. I'm very grateful for those outspoken men in chastity (and the women who enjoy locking us) who stand up time and time again and say "nope" to these assumptions.
And to be clear, I'm not judging anyone interested in any of those things, or the M2M chastity folks either. There's room enough for all of us, but I just find it so tedious that people assume X because of Y.
/rantmodeoff
Agreed!
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 3:35 pm
by Dixon A Cage
Tom Allen wrote:I wish we had a little emoticon for "banging head against a wall."
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 7:40 pm
by Oldtimer
You can add married to your list. Everyone says that once you get married the sex becomes infrequent.
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 3:56 am
by aliceinbondageland
Aw, but I like most of the things on that list.
Might be the first time I proved a stereotype.
Re: I just gotta say... the "assumptions" get really old
Posted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 8:42 am
by Aarkey
aliceinbondageland wrote:Aw, but I like most of the things on that list.
Might be the first time I proved a stereotype.
I don't have any problem with folks liking those things, my problem is when people assume that we ALL do.