First denial fetish?

[Finn]

For me, I've probably been into edging from the beginning, before I knew what that even was. The first real denial fetish started when I saw my first porn films, back in the 80's. The guy would go at it, the woman obviously enjoying it, and then, he'd pull out and orgasm, cue cumshot or facial...end of sex. Somehow, I thought that would be amazing with the roles reversed. Years later, I was married, and my wife didn't really enjoy sex as much after her own orgasm. She would get a bit sore, and I'd be having to go double speed to reach orgasm. One day, I got to talking about how I liked the idea of reversing the porn roles. She liked the idea too, we tried it, and that's what we did for years after. The excitement of being close, but knowing that she was going to come first, then her orgasm, then she would slooowly slide me out. I'd often masturbate, sometimes just edge, as she doesn't like the mess of semen. Years after that, I discovered Tantric, and the idea of sharing the womans orgasm. I realized that for many years, since I wasn't going to come, I was focusing on her orgasm as the goal for both of us, and I was actually finding that my erection was acting like I had orgasmed as well. I had been doing some of the Tantric/Karezza stuff all along. That became our focus, with me going longer and longer between orgasms, and that...is what led us to chastity play in the end. Moral of the story....Avoid 80's porn.