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When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 4:55 pm
by Risca
Which is best? For a wife to say when the next ejaculation will be allowed, no matter how distant that is, or to keep her husband guessing, so he never knows when each teasing session begins whether this will be the one when he's allowed relief?
Re: When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:59 pm
by Atone
Which one satisfies the needs of both parties involved? There are too many variables to say that one is better than another. In my relationship I know a 'not before' date but that changes from time to time (through mutual agreement) as we get closer to that date.
-A
Re: When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 9:05 pm
by poinciana
We just don't discuss it, so I guess being kept guessing is our option.
I don't think I would happy looking towards a date. This way, it could happen anytime. Or not.
Re: When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 9:55 pm
by Belle
When ever I say so!
Honestly, I hate having a set date. Doesn't work well for us. We have tried the not before X date, and that works well, as does just when the mood strikes me.
Re: When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Sun Dec 19, 2010 6:42 am
by poinciana
Go Belle! My wife's with you on this one! So am I.
Re: When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Sun Dec 19, 2010 5:57 pm
by MelsBitch
We have set a date for the next one I am allowed, which is a first for us. It's the day we are getting married, in 11 and a half months from now. After that she says it wont be more then once a year, and that's all I know. So very few orgasms for me ever again in my life time. It works well for us, everyone is different though.
Re: When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 9:54 am
by danj
My wife hasn't used set dates at all, and I love the suspense of not knowing when she will allow an orgasm...though she does drop hints at times as we get close.
Re: When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 11:24 am
by Tom Allen
At first, we set dates - nothing explicit, more like "about 3 weeks" or "about two months."
Later, we discovered that it was more exciting for both of us if she had complete decision making, and didn't let me know beforehand.
Re: When is the next ejaculation allowed?
Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 11:44 am
by Bez
Hi Unless I am locked up for a set period which isn't very often these days Sally unlocks me when she wants me to pleasure her,I must admit this is regular and I do not have a problem,what I can't do is play with myself which was the whole reason I wanted to go into a chastity device. I know Sally likes me to use my tongue and I enjoy it but the device causes me terrible frustration which she also enjoys.bez