In some ways it is a very long time. In others it doesn't seem like much at all. When I was used to having an orgasm at least every other day it seemed like two weeks was a long time, seven missed orgasms is a lot. Then we kept extending it. I went two weeks and I am fine, why not go two more weeks? Wow, that was a month, let's go another. It didn't happen exactly like that but next thing we knew it had been 45 days and I was released for an orgasm. And boy was it a great orgasm. So was the one the next day. (I wrote about this a bit on the old forum).danj wrote:Wow, that seems like a very long time for someone so new to chastity.
Now I am a little over 100 days in. That is only 2 missed orgasms on a 45 day schedule that is easier than going two weeks when I started. Ok, maybe it doesn't quite work like that but we do take it in smaller increments most of the time. One time we added 53 days at once and that did seem a little out there but mostly we just extend a couple of weeks at a time so it is manageable. It is actually rather rewarding to meet so many milestones. I wouldn't want to do what David is where he committed to a year up front. That is too long (for me). But I could see where we could keep extending until we got to that point. I don't think that will happen during this cycle but it could in the future.
-A