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[michaelnmelissa]

Just curious...

Do you ever find yourself relieved that your man is locked up and you don't have to worry about him pressuring you when sex is the last thing on your mind?

Is that one of the benefits of MC for you? Even though he may be frustrated to no end? (That may even be a bonus for you).

Michael

[Dev]

To be honest, sex is on my mind more than ever. Here I am at work and guess what I am thinking about? Probably time to go send a sexy text message...

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[Belle]

Yes and no. I think about sex more often now, but it doesn't bring about the stressful feelings that it did in the past.

[Celtic Queen]

That's not an easy question for me to answer really as we have been in a chaste relationship from very early on in our marriage and I think the sex drive disparity generally kicks in a few years on - so it's never really happened to us. I've never felt pressured for sex really, or that I've ever "obliged" him.

What MC has done though is to alter my view on what "sex" actually is, interestingly. Some of the the things we do could have previously been classed as foreplay rather than the main event - ie penetrative sex resulting in male orgasm. The impact of this change has been to make us spend more time, be more creative and get to know each others bodies better without rushing forward to sex. Here's an interesting analogy - I adore dim sum food and a favourite restaurant of mine when I lived in South Wales specialised just in this with less emphasis on the main course. God I loved that place (I moved away sadly) - each dish was exquisite in is own right, not a culinary fluffer for the main course. I often didn't bother with the main course to be honest - I was too full and sated!

Suddenly I feel quite hungry ;-D

[Dev]

What MC has done though is to alter my view on what "sex" actually is, interestingly. Some of the the things we do could have previously been classed as foreplay rather than the main event - ie penetrative sex resulting in male orgasm. The impact of this change has been to make us spend more time, be more creative and get to know each others bodies better without rushing forward to sex.

Yes, this is what I was trying to say in another thread. Ab's quote that he has become a "tit-loving, pussy-worshipping man" reflects this. Also, I've noticed that he responds much more to me playing with his nipples, which is a plus for me, because I love playing with them. He used to complain that it hurt--even what I considered to be a pretty minor tweak. Now, I think he is focusing on the sensation because--well, he's not going to get intercourse sensations and he knows it, so he is learning how to enjoy the other stuff.

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[Belle]

Also, I've noticed that he responds much more to me playing with his nipples, which is a plus for me, because I love playing with them. He used to complain that it hurt--even what I considered to be a pretty minor tweak. Now, I think he is focusing on the sensation because--well, he's not going to get intercourse sensations and he knows it, so he is learning how to enjoy the other stuff.

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Same issues here. Jnuts is begging for a pair of nipple clamps

[jnuts]

I'm begging for a lot of things.

[Atone]

I'm begging for a lot of things.

you two are so cute.

-A

[likes2blocked]

Same issues here. Jnuts is begging for a pair of nipple clamps

He should be careful about what he wishes for. I had some left on for quite a while the other night, and it gave intense a new meaning...

[Celtic Queen]

I think "Nipple evolution" may well be a thread in its own right. My hub was never really very sensitive there when we started out but now, a simple touch immediately gets his attention and more severe play has him whimpering.

Belle, nipple clamps are fun and shiny but break Jnuts in with spring loaded wooden pegs.

JNuts, I know you won't thank me yet but you will when Belle attaches your nipples to your device, lol.