Wife has agreed to buying device!

[danj]

I'm pretty excited right now. After a fair amount of discussion (and a few months of up and down orgasm control on the honor system), my wife has finally agreed to let me buy a device. As are many, we're on a pretty tight budget these days, so I went for the CB-6000s on Kept for Her. It was less expensive than what I've seen on other sites, and it's flexibilty in terms of sizing seemed to make a good choice for a couple that has never owned a device. I think it will be a huge help for me. I'm very good on the honor system when my wife is home (we both do a lot of our work from home), but when she is not a home, I've had a great deal of difficulty keeping my hands off, even if I avoid orgasm. This will be a big relief for me, as I really do believe in her having total control, and she seems to feel the same more and more. We are not in a D/s relationship, but the orgasm control and getting a grip on my habitual masturbation has been great for me and our relationship. Anway, just wanted to share this news!

P.S. Everyone's blogs and this forum have been a huge help for me finding may way on all this....thanks!

[Dev]

Congratulations, Dan. I think the CB-6000s is a good device to start with. When you get the itch for metal (and you will, trust me...LOL) your experience with the CB will be helpful for sizing--rings, length and so on.

As for habitual masturbation, I hear about that a lot. I think you are taking the right step to address that issue and will be very happy with the outcome. I have heard from a number of women in similar situations and they are very happy with their new chaste lives and husbands.

Keep us posted on your progress!

D

[thumper]

Good for you, Dan. The CB6K is a terrific choice for newbies. Also, as I can attest, having something between you and your cock can be a very good thing!

[Belle]

That is great news. Glad to see she is seeing the benefits, and understands the importance of what you need.

[Orko]

hurray for your first step. Only a few month before, it was my first step too. Please let us know, when you wear the CB6000 for the first time... enjoy!

[poinciana]

Congratulations!

I think the CB6000 is a good first step.

Welcome aboard, you're gonna love the trip...

[danj]

Everyone,

Thanks, glad to hear you all think I made a good choice. I'll definitely update on how things go once it arrives. I'm a little nervous about how it will look under my clothing in public, but I'd imagine anyone would be the first time they wear a device outside their home. But, I'll cross that bridge when we get there! I'm actually already relieved to know I'll be able to maintain chastity when my wife is out of the house all day...that has been very tough on some days.

Dan

[thumper]

Since you got the S, I think you'll be in good shape, hiding-wise. Better than those of use who didn't have that option!

[Dev]

I stare at men's crotches (yes, I'm a perv) and I truly believe that a CB of any type would be un-noticeable. I can't tell even on my husband, even when he is wearing his form-fitting stretchy pants.

D

[Atone]

I'm a little nervous about how it will look under my clothing in public,

yes, that is a normal feeling. Practice at home until you feel comfortable. Then start taking 'safe' trips out of the house. Try going to the grocery store or something. You will start to get comfortable with what situations might cause something to possibly show so you can avoid them. There are certain ways that I sit that will cause a slight unnatural bulge when wearing my CB-3000. The 6000s would be even less noticeable and like Dev says probably not at all to anyone but yourself. You will eventually get comfortable enough to wear it anywhere. It took me about a week to get comfortable wearing it out and a couple of weeks to get the confidence to wear it to work. The first couple of weeks wearing it to work I thought about it all the time when someone was around. I have since moved on to a jailbird that is much smaller and now I don't think about it all. Between the confidence of wearing it all the time and the fact that it has been long enough that this is now the new normal I can do almost anything that I did without it on.

And again, good choice on the CB6000S, I wish I had started with that instead of the CB3000.

-A