keyhldr wrote:Yes, he will be going 3 months after this, then who knows?
That is pretty intense, I don't think I am ready for the potential of a full year.
I'm not sure I'm ready for 3 months! We're at 1 month now, and it is getting really intense. I'd thought the intensity would start to plateau by now, but no. Depending on various things, I have a couple more weeks to go, then the 3 months. Not sure what she'll do after that, but we did agree to the _she decides_ approach.
LockedLaura wrote:
Up to 18 and she's talking about her birthday, and she's a Sagittarius. And to hit the final nail, I've known her 16 days. (the intensity is amazing, but I feel like emotional glass).
-L
I am not quite following what you are saying here. You've had the device on for 18 days and she is talking about her birthday, which is Nov/Dec. But you've only known this woman for 16 days?
thumper wrote:Well, maybe he had it on when he met her. Kinda like "original equipment" or something. Like buying a furnished apartment.
Or something.
It is actually a dealer option.
I was already in chastity on my own when I met her. We spoke for an hour and realized we could finish each others' sentences. At the end of the first date she asked for my key and I gave it up. Since then I moved from the mostly plastic CB6K to the entirely metal CB310 and the feeling of helplessness to her whims is better than any emotional charge I have felt since about 7th grade (which for anyone actually counting would have been around 1972.)
The level of focus on her has been quite eye opening even though I sort of expected it.
LockedLaura wrote:
I was already in chastity on my own when I met her. We spoke for an hour and realized we could finish each others' sentences. At the end of the first date she asked for my key and I gave it up.
OK, so do tell. Just how did you manage to find a woman that open to something this kinky?
I went for years with wife #1 where she just didn't get it, and then it has taken keyhldr several years to get used to it to the point she's really having fun.
I'd imagine that most women would just completely freak out, unless you met her on fetlife or something.
well weve been at this since april---fairly short lived conpared to many of you but were working on it.
i have been kept or forgotten im my device 3 different periods of 12 days with no time out for anything and certainly no "o".
at the moment due to some family issues and my Wife having to travel have combined for me to not have had an orgasm at the moment for 25 days and counting which is a record for me on all kinds of levels. i cant think of a time going all the way back to when i first learned what masturbating was that i havent had an orgasm for this long......im feeeeeeling it too!!! i think before this i might could have thought of some times when ive been ill or injured and feel like doing anything that i might have reached a period of 7-10 days...maybe...probably 7 max.
this period is not going to end soon either as she is out of town for at least 2 more and maybe 3 more days...which gets us back to Her work week in town and She wont want sex at the moment then until at least next weekend!!! so realistically im afraid im gonna make a month at least here....and then you never know!!
grenore wrote:well weve been at this since april--
Welcome to the forum, glad you are here.
It doesn't matter how long you have been doing this or how long you go each time. The real question is, are you having fun? Is it working out for you? How about your partner?
I like being 'kept' but don't think I would like to be 'forgotten'. How does that feel?
that feeling is tough as one might imagine. my Wife has a very low sex drive while mine is super ramped up at this point in our lives. i sometimes feel that She could go without sex forever and that we have sex just to humor me. so i am in a delicate balance with Her to keep Her interested and me horny and happy while being made to feel She cares while not wanting to have much sex....if that makes much sense.
New record here. 14 days. Wanted to see if I could last. She suddenly likes the idea of me being locked from the 1st to the 14th and 16th to the 29th of each month with freedom on the 15th and 30th. On longer months I would get an extra day. February will be the challenge.
Until now my lock up schedule has been random. Not sure if i like knowing when I'll get out or not.
