Is there any denying that MC is increasing in popularity?

[inneedofchange]

I sometimes wonder how many women would truly enjoy being in charge of their man's orgasms. One day I grew the balls to hopefully satisfy my curiosity. I personally approached and asked 10 women in public about this concept. I was 100% honest with all of them about what I was doing. I wanted to know the truth. Turns out 10 out of 10 of these women were supposedly not interested in the idea of MC. Not a single damn one of them. I still believe that many of the so called women online who claim to love MC are in fact men. Maybe I'm no fun to some, but what it should always come down to in the end is respect for the truth.

[Belle]

*Looks down*

Nope, pretty sure I am woman. If the vagina isn't enough proof then the stretch marks from childbirth convinced me.

[Linus]

I wanted to know the truth. Turns out 10 out of 10 of these women were supposedly not interested in the idea of MC. Not a single damn one of them.

I am sure most of our key holders who were introduced the MC by us must have initially turned down the idea to keep us locked. It's natural because it's uncommon. I suppose it takes time for women to get & understand the concept, surf through forums to read others' experiences etc. Having done all this, I think most women will want to control their husbands / fiancees. After the kind of pleasure my wife KH is deriving by keeping me locked, I think 'I should have known the MC much earlier' must a typical comment of most KH.

[Whizbang]

Maybe I'm no fun to some, but what it should always come down to in the end is respect for the truth.

I think what's happening is that readily available access to Internet porn is making a younger generation of people much more open to... or maybe just open about... kink.

Despite MC being a "lightweight kink," though, I wouldn't suffer delusions that it's got a huge following or even huge awareness among the general populace.

If kink in general eventually becomes a "live and let live" thing among the general populace, though, that's a huge win, IMO. If MC is for you, that sort of atmosphere means that you are going to be better placed to find a compatible life partner.

[Whizbang]

'I should have known the MC much earlier' must a typical comment of most KH.

And, alas, more than a few of us locked guys.

[BethK]

I am sure most of our key holders who were introduced the MC by us must have initially turned down the idea to keep us locked.

Count me among such women! I was initially aghast at the idea of MC, as I had been in a marriage where I was refused sex continually over 14 years - like we had coitus without foreplay for 3-5 minutes, 4 times per year most years. It's clinically called a "sexless marriage", and boarders on the asurd to cruel to neglectful to crazy-making. He later divorced me, and I got a "real" husband then.

When I had a husband who (seemed to) like sex bring up the notion of chastity, my initial reaction went from "H*** No!" to "Do ANY men actually like sex, or do you just use it to entice us?" WTF?

It's natural because it's uncommon. I suppose it takes time for women to get & understand the concept, surf through forums to read others' experiences etc. Having done all this, I think most women will want to control their husbands / fiancees. After the kind of pleasure my wife KH is deriving by keeping me locked, I think 'I should have known the MC much earlier' must a typical comment of most KH.

We've played with MC a few times for over a year. It never lasted longer than a week or so, until when we got serious about it on June 18th.

I'm continually amazed at how much BETTER it has made our sex life, and our general intimacy and closeness as a couple. There is certainly a lot more frequent sex, and with every encounter lasting much much longer.

It's almost the opposite of what I expected when "chastity" was first brought up to me.

Beth

[Celtic Queen]

So basically you have taken the feedback of ten women who have probably never come across male chastity / orgasm control before with all its attendant nuances and extrapolated their puzzlement to extend to a view of half the population?

You are taking the concept far too literally. I dont think you could say "Women don't love MC" per se. My view, based on the feedback from women on here - who I personally don't believe to be masquerading men- is that they enjoy the changes in their relationship, the renewed focus on them by their husbands and the stability that this lifestyle brings. Perhaps rather than just dismissing the views of women reflecting this as being men parading as women because it doesnt fit within your views of the world, you might want to join a supportive forum where real life discussions about real world chaste relationships take place and read the threads. Like Chastity forums perhaps. Oh wait a minute....

[BethK]

There is certainly no denying that there is a lot of pure-fantasy stuff out there regarding MC. Some of it goes from the bizarre to the ludicrous - and some violates the laws of physics. There's someone's nearly-always male fantasies about the whole subject.

Then, combine the rumors of medieval chastity belts on women, and how horrible those (supposedly) were to wear. The women were alegedly put in these things, and their husband/keyholder took off on a crusade or the like, without giving her a chance to break into the belt and adjust to it. Combine that with the fact that little was available in hygeine in those days - baths and showers virtually did not exist, let alone things like bidets, and it probably would be a horrible experience for a woman in such a chastity belt.

That's not how chastity belts are done today.

There are a lot of people who are experiencing the real thing, with real-life issues, and problems, and surprises, and challenges, and joys, and pleasures. People are not doing it all the same way, or with precisely the same results, but most people who seem to find our way here are enjoying it. If we weren't enjoying it, we'd stop.

Many women would be in shock and horror that such a thing exists, or initially confusing MC with the man denying or refusing the woman sex, because he is "chaste". When put into practice, nearly the reverse is true, with the man paying a lot more attention to the woman than he has since they had a brand-new relationship, and him expressing more interest than he has since he has since he was in his teens.

There are numerous ways to have the relationship dynamics in chastity - and some men do it by themselves. There are femdoms/dominatrices, and there are people who are pretty vanilla in their sex lives. You've got to get past and beyond all of that pure-fantasy crap that's out there, to get to ways this really works.

[poor]

When I discovered my minority kink 15ish years ago it was a choice of a handmade or homemade device that you read about on Altairboys website.

Whatever your opinion of the CBxx series, it did for MC what Henry Ford did for the automotive industry. We've since crossed over into Femdom, sissy & cuckold porn. I'm waiting for the first mainstream comedy film to feature a CD central to the plot (40 days, 40 nights; so close but no cigar).

I reckon that we are an invisible army. I also reckon that if you randomly approach 10 ladies and ask them If they would like anything; the answer is going to be 'No.'

[Tom Allen]

Am I not understanding this correctly?

Re: Is there any denying that MC is increasing in popularity

Doesn't seem to jibe with:

Turns out 10 out of 10 of these women were supposedly not interested in the idea of MC. Not a single damn one of them.

Anyway, there's no way in hell that what you did could be a statistically significant poll. Rather, it sounds as if you're frustrated about something.