We live in a very small town and she's concerned that if it were discovered, it would affect our children & their families. We are in our upper 50's(oh no, more geezers )and she worries that if I had an emergency that required immmediate medical attention, the device may be discovered.
I think I am going to write a blog post on
Kinky Parents and Their Adult Vanilla Children. Seriously, I have read so many blogs lately where the parents are worried about their adult children finding out about their kink and being totally appalled. In one case, the guy and his wife had their two adult children move back home (financial difficulties). His kink is spanking and apparently he's very noisy so he's annoyed that when the kids are in the house, he can't have his grown-up playtime. In another blog, the woman decided to get rid of all their gear that was distinctly sexual (ie, handcuffs) and now only has what she calls "pervertibles" (I call them found objects) in the house, ie, scarves for tying up and blindfolding, feathers for tickling, wooden stirrers for paddling, just so there is no chance the kids will find out what they enjoy in bed on those rare occasions when the kids drop by. This begs the question, of course, of why the kids are rummaging through the parents private stuff but whatever...
Why are we all so worried about our kids and why do we all assume they are vanilla? My son has a very sweet girlfriend and frankly, I hope they have a little kink going on. Makes it a lot more fun, don't you think? If you read Dan Savage, I'd guess that 85% of his letter writers are kinky people and I'd also guess that 85% of them are between the ages of 18-34 -- in other words, OUR kids! Well, maybe not OUR kids, they are someone else's kids because OUR kids are all vanilla, right? LOL.
Over at his blog, Mikecb is posting a fun story about an 18 year old who is wearing a chastity belt because he discovered his dad had one and he was fascinated. The mom said, "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree..." when she found out what the son wanted. Even though you might say this is TMI in terms of what the parents/kid know about each others' sex lives, the premise is sort of fun...we pass our kink on in our genes. You can read the story here:
http://mikecbwearer.blogspot.com/
He has 2 chapters up and tells me there are many more to come.
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