Dev,Dev wrote:James, is she willing to read anything about MC? Or has she, eg, Sarah's book, various blogs? Just curious...
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I started off by introducing my wife to Sarah's Chastity Guide. She skimmed over it, but didn't really read through it. Then I bought Sarah's excellent book and it has also gone unread. I have a whole folder of related web sites and blogs in "favorites", but still no interest.
I make attempts at discussing various aspects of MC when the time seems appropriate, but again mostly in vane. Although I do get discouraged from time to time, I remain optimistic. If I take an objective look at how far we've come in the last year (its really hard to look at this objectively you know), we have made some progress. Recently there have been a couple of attempts at T/D. She is becoming slightly more interested in keeping me locked up. She has mentioned my possible release date more than once this week.
So, all is not lost. At this rate we may have a really exciting life in chastity by the time I'm 70. See, that's my problem. I introduced this so late in our relationship that we just don't have the luxury of letting it take its course over the next 10 or 20 years. This is pretty much the last opportunity for this to work out. That leaves me impatient and perhaps with unrealistic expectations.
I should try to do as Thumper suggests and work at bringing my fantasies more in line with Karen's reality. None of this is easy, but I would never want to go back. And then, I'm always the optimist.
J