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Post by Tom Allen » Mon Nov 08, 2010 2:55 pm

A few weeks ago I posted a link to a blog in which Mormon (!) women wwere discussing the use of a chastity device, and in general, taking it well.

Here are a couple of discussions in which most of the respondents freaked just a little bit. "Need to wash my eyes" and "Dirty burdies" are a couple of reactions that stuck with me.

I'm not direct linking, you'll have to copy & paste.

http://www.salongeek.com/skin-geek/1239 ... quest.html
http://www.salongeek.com/skin-geek/1130 ... axing.html

Normally you'd have to look to the idiots in yahoo answers to get responses of this nature.
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Post by Belle » Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:09 pm

Made my afternoon. All I can think of is these women handle various cocks and balls all day, yet are afraid of a plastic tube? I would love to send some 600 LB smelly guy in the get his nuts waxed, hey he isn't in a device 8-)
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Post by Tom Allen » Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:11 pm

Aw nutz, the formatting automagically turned it into a link. I just didn't want them freaking out even more, if anybody bothered to check their hits.
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Post by Belle » Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:13 pm

Aw, let think the perverted chastity wearing community is coming to get them.
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Post by Dev » Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:45 pm

If I get tired of nursing, it looks like I could have a future career as a kink-friendly esthetician. :D

Some of the comments..."I just googled it! My eyes! My eyes!" Give me a break. LOL.

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Post by thumper » Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:50 pm

That depresses me. We're such a sexually screwed up society...
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Post by Dev » Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:14 pm

thumper wrote:That depresses me. We're such a sexually screwed up society...
This is true. And you'd think that people who do intimate waxings and other personal services for a living would be a little more open minded about things. I am sure that plenty of these waxers would never want a Brazilian for his/herself but I am sure they do dozens of them without blinking an eye. Is having someone ask about a chastity device really that out there? I don't think so.

On the other hand, as we discussed before, I think it behooves us as adults to set boundaries and know what is appropriate. It's one thing to say a person lives a life 24/7 but at the same time, we need to know when to say when. Sending a man to his annual physical exam wearing his pink ruffled panties, "because the rule in our house is that he wears them 24/7, no exceptions," is just inappropriate, IMHO. Thumper, you found a way to make your chaste life manageable on your recent trip; respecting your need to be locked but at the same time, not freaking out the TSA agents (and potentially making your trip miserable).

I am becoming more aware of my role as keyholder to set rules and boundaries. If I were to send my husband off to the doctor or waxer, I'd let him out of the device but he'd know the limits of what he could (or could not) do while unlocked and would also have a clear expectation of when he was to be locked again--and I would hold him to that.

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Post by Tom Allen » Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:18 pm

Belle wrote:Made my afternoon. All I can think of is these women handle various cocks and balls all day, yet are afraid of a plastic tube?
Belle, context is everything here.

Now, I totally agree that you shouldn't surprise your waxer, doctor, postman, etc., by dropping your pants to show off your device, and that the clients who called first showed proper etiquette. No matter how benign we happen to think it is, chastity *is* a kink, and people in the course of their daily jobs have a right not to have it shoved in their faces. This is part of my own ethical guideline of "reasonable expectations." IOW, the woman that waxes my junk expects to see my junk; she would *not* expect to see my Fort.

I was more amused (and saddened) by the overwhelmingly negative view that the responders had regarding the concept. Only a couple of people bothered to look further into it, which, I guess, is okay. I mean, just because I happen to look into new kinks when I stumble across them doesn't mean that everybody else should do likewise.

Really, I just posted this because I thought it made some interesting contrast to the discussions on the Mormon blog.
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Post by hammyma » Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:22 pm

After years of lurking in various places, the (thumper) comment on society moved me to poke my head above the parapet. So true. So appallingly true. But what can one expect when 60% don't believe in evolution. Or (can't remember this number) the Moon landings. Unreason rules. :cry:
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Post by Dev » Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:23 pm

Really, I just posted this because I thought it made some interesting contrast to the discussions on the Mormon blog.
I agree and it is good for conversation. Everyday I sort things out a little bit more in my mind. The peeling back the layers of the onion phenomenon...

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