Kiki wrote:Not that I am any sort of expert, but I would think every couple is different, with different levels of desire etc. There is already so much that doesn't apply to me in this stuff (mostly being that I am a woman who does not want less sex) so it just seems dubious on the face of it. 12 orgasms a year? Ain't gonna happen around here, I don't think. Or am I just a noob?
Sure, everyone is different, but there's a couple of factors that lead to longer-term periods being more fun for everyone. The first is that one of the things I really crave is her being in control. When I'm really begging, and she just keep teasing, that really reinforces exactly who is in control. I agree that Sarah has gone over the top in terms of marketing, but she's really right about a good bit of this, and there's a lot of good information in her book.
The next is that as you get to longer periods, it does get seriously more intense. My last 2 lockups were for roughly 2 months each, and at the end of this last one, I was out of my mind horny, which she had a lot of fun with. She was going for 3 months, and I still think that might be too long, and I was so aroused that she caused an orgasm without any direct stimulation of my cock at all. So we've got a reset.
I think it is a matter of just trying it and see what works. When I first started at this, I thought 4 days was a long time. We then found that a couple of weeks was really a lot hotter, and now a couple of weeks seems like I'm just getting started.
