Hey guys - you got a new device, and it makes you all happyhorny, and you want to show it off. That's great!
However. we have some rules that we'd like you to follow.
Chastity Forums is not
a pickup site.
We understand that you may have questions for other members of a more personal nature. That's cool. What's not
cool, however, is sending a PM to somebody asking for or suggesting sexual services. Unsolicited sexual PMs to other members (especially to other KeyHolders) will result in either a suspension or an outright ban.
And please note that new users (i.e., members who still have their posts moderated) can not send PMs. We disabled the PM feature because there were a number of people who registered for either spamming or for harassing other members.
Pictures - Avatars & Attachments
Yes, we have to spell this out: your forum profile picture - your avatar - can not be anything that shows explicit or implied genitalia, sexual acts, or publicly identifying features
We know you want to show off your new stainless steel underwear, but please do not take an explicit picture of yourself (locked up or otherwise) and use it as your avatar. Pictures of sheer, lacey panties barely concealing your device are also off limits.
We want this forum to be as friendly to newbs as we possibly can. And since many newbs are women
, and since women tend to approach this a little nervously, we don't want them to open a thread and have your happyhorny show-off pictures smack them in the face.
So, please post explicit photographs (or other such artwork) in the Members Lounge
, and include the (pic)
tag in your subject title. That way, only forum members will see them - and not random strangers from the internet - and anybody who opens that thread will have ample warning.
Please use some common sense. If you have any question as to your choice being appropriate, please message the mods.
First, this is not a group in which to advertise your Keyholding services, or your professional domination services. If you are a professional in those areas, you are welcome to mention it in passing. If you're not sure how much is too much, then drop the mods a PM to ask.
It should go without saying, but this forum is not the appropriate place to be posting personal ads, or for soliciting or offering other sexual services. Buy, sell, trade chastity devices? That's fine; we have a forum for that. Looking for a Domme, Keyholder, slave, master, etc.? Please go to one of the many other websites that specialize in such things.
Please, please, please
do not post requests that the members click the link to some outside Keyholding service that will lengthen the time you spend locked up. Seriously. Do. Not. Ask. That is not what this group is about. Instead, go post those requests in other groups, and come back here to discuss your experiences, ask questions, and have adult conversations.
This group was formed because a lot of us in the community wanted a place where we could go to talk about "enforced" chastity, OD, and T&D without the side distractions of dealing with online personae that is so common in the kink community. The discussions here will not play to your desire to be a slave/submissive/sissy (or whatever), we don't call the women "Mistress," and we will not indulge your fantasies. Instead, we encourage people to ask questions and offer advice in a manner that would be more appropriate to just chatting over coffee in person. It's not as kinky, but we think that it's probably more helpful. See the next section on this.
The Keyholders Forum
We have a small forum set up specifically for Keyholders. We understand that many women are hesitant to post in the general forums, but who still would like to discuss some of the issues with chastity, T&D, FLR, etc. Please post an intro note in the Hello World thread and identify yourself as a Keyholder. If you would like, you may also ID your partner if he is also a member.
One of the moderators will spot your post and give you access to the Keyholder's Forum.