I know that we have a small cadre of women who post on this group. My friend DIshevelled Domina at Tales of a Domme would like to discuss orgasm control/denial from a woman's perspective. Ideally she would like to email you some questions in an interview format, but she's flexible.
Last year she did a series of interviews with "sub" guys, and it worked out well.
You can visit her site to leave a comment, or PM me and I'll give you her email addy.
Thanks