ROTFLMAO. I have to pay ours... I suspect ours needs less direct supervision!Celtic Queen wrote:I do have loads of cleaning to do and if all I had to do was to beat my cleaner once a day in exchange for getting it done, I can't imagine I'd have a problem if it was some hairy arsed bloke dressed like a French maid.
I'd tend to agree with Jimi here. People have different brain development based on events early in development and hormones, but it is a spectrum. Someone toward the middle, or even the opposite side of where they'd expect to be from their physical gender can get to be distressed, and not all of them go to the lengths of surgery.Celtic Queen wrote: Now, push that out a little more until the separation between a man and his sexuality develops into a form of misandry - a hatred and resentment of that control. It then extends not just to the immediately obvious sexual organs but to everything male - the clothes, the beard growth, the flat male chest. The obsessive interest in silky knickers and other stereotypical symbols of the feminine makes sense when a man is trying to escape everything that shows that he is male. Push that out a tad further and you get a community that is discussing some pretty extreme stuff such as hormone control and enforced impotence.
I don't know that they're the far end of the chastity continuum. I think there's roughly 3 groups -
People who are just into chastity for its own sake, which seems to be the sort of people who hang out here.
People who use chasity as one aspect of an overall D&S lifestyle.
People who use chastity as an aspect of a feminization fetish.
There's clearly overlap between all of these - we're primarily in the first group, but dabble in the 2nd.