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New To Chastity

Post by michaelnmelissa » Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:10 am

Hello all,

i just wanted to introduce myself. My name is Michael and my wife is Melissa. I am 40 and she is 31. We live in the southern region of the United States. We just started to live out male chastity on October 15th. It was my idea, but I am amazed at how quickly she took to it.

There has been much teasing and denial and one ruined orgasm so far. I have had one genuine orgasm to her four. It's been 14 days since my last orgasm.

Currently we are using the honor system. My hope is to one day be in a Jailbird device. Melissa thinks the devices "look strange," so I am not pushing for it right now. Maybe further down the road, when we are more comfortable with the whole idea, she will be willing to try locking me up physically as well as mentally.

We have had two bumps in the road so far, mainly due to my pushing for attention, but we are still determined to try this. We both still want to see where this goes. Overall, it's been wonderful.

Michael
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Re: New To Chastity

Post by Dev » Wed Nov 03, 2010 7:28 am

Hi Michael and Melissa,

Welcome! Glad to have you here. We're a fun and friendly bunch. Please dive in with questions and so on--lots of helpful people here with advice and experience ranging from a few weeks (like you) to several years. We also have lots of folks who are using Mature Metal devices (my husband has a Jailbird and is wearing a Watchful Mistress right now) so we can give advice in that department, too. Trust me, if you are anything like the rest of us, you'll be clamoring to be locked up in something sooner rather than later. The honor system is good, up to a point, but an actual device makes the game so much hotter. I get turned on just thinking about my husband in his WM. Tell Melissa they're not strange, they're sexy. LOL. Bill from MM is a member here and has posted a few times, too.

Tell me, what got you started with chastity?

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Post by jnuts » Wed Nov 03, 2010 8:28 am

Welcome! The wife and I are brand new to this as well. Honor system with a jailbird ordered. It is crazy how fast they adapt isn't it? Male Chastity = best thing ever.
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Re: New To Chastity

Post by Sally » Wed Nov 03, 2010 8:31 am

Hi Michael and Melissa

Welcome I have only recently joined my husband Bez has been locked in a CB6000 for about 18 months it was his idea I had not really come across it before. I would advise you to ask Melissa to loook at the site it is really friendly and if she has any questions I sure that she will get answers.It may also make her comfortable with Male Chastity. Look forward to reading your contribution Sally
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Re: New To Chastity

Post by thumper » Wed Nov 03, 2010 8:42 am

michaelnmelissa wrote:We have had two bumps in the road so far, mainly due to my pushing for attention, but we are still determined to try this.
Oh yeah. It's hard to adjust from always getting attention when you want it (mostly from yourself) to only getting it when she's willing to give it to you. Try to breathe, be patient, and not be too overbearing. But yeah, that's hard. Really hard at first and then differently hard later on.

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Re: New To Chastity

Post by michaelnmelissa » Wed Nov 03, 2010 9:27 am

Thanks for the welcome everyone!

Michael
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Re: New To Chastity

Post by Sarah » Thu Nov 04, 2010 3:40 pm

michaelnmelissa wrote:Currently we are using the honor system. My hope is to one day be in a Jailbird device. Melissa thinks the devices "look strange," so I am not pushing for it right now. Maybe further down the road, when we are more comfortable with the whole idea, she will be willing to try locking me up physically as well as mentally.
They do indeed. In fact, they can look ridiculous, and the only sensible thing to do is laugh. So be sure not to take it all too seriously ;-).
We have had two bumps in the road so far, mainly due to my pushing for attention, but we are still determined to try this. We both still want to see where this goes. Overall, it's been wonderful.
Michael
Well, it does take too, and it behooves women to be a little more understanding about things, regardless of whose idea chastity is. By analogy, if her man started at the gym to improve his appearance and looks for her, and found himself sore from lifting one day, one hopes she wouldn't be pissy with him because of it. It's for her benefit as much as his.

On the other hand, the time to remind him this was all his idea is not when he's pissed off and grumpy, lol.

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