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Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 7:43 am
by Atone
Unremarkable Jamie wrote:
But my anatomy doesn't seem conducive to "trapped ball" devices.

The honor system works well enough for me. As others commented, my beloved has said "no stimulation."

But as this orgasm control has been the foundation of our play, the downside to me (breaking our dynamic) would be far far costly to me than the momentary pleasure.

Jamie
Welcome to the forum Jamie,

I am curious what makes your anatomy not conducive to trapped ball devices. I have heard of guys that had a testicle removed for some reason and that would make sense. Kind of need balls in order to trap them. You said the rings don't fit, not sure what that means. Too small maybe?

I am glad the system you found is working for you. I think at some level there is always an element of trust (and obedience). None of these devices would be that hard to break out of or otherwise circumvent if one really wanted to.

-A

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 5:30 pm
by Mayhew
Have been using honor system on and off for about five years.

Just started using a device.

Well placed to comment on this issue.

Prone to writing sentences without pronouns.

Ahem.

Yeah, the device seems to work better to us.

No temptation to edge
Less insomnia
More concentration and focus to do things
Incredible feelings when device is first taken off
Moment of powerlessness when it is first put back on
More playful feeling in the dynamic generally

Then again it's been like, a week, and she already let me out once. But I'd have to say things look pretty promising so far.

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 5:49 pm
by thumper
STEVE! You're back! Dude!!

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 6:24 pm
by Mayhew
Yeah, I's in da club fo' shizzle.

:roll:

Hey, good work with the whole forum thing. I'm in.

Seems like a bit of a mast-fest so far.

Any thoughts on that? I know Michelle won't post, she won't contribute to my own blog either.

Anyway, see you on here.

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 6:45 pm
by Dev
I persuaded Thumper (today) of the wisdom of having a woman on the mod team for precisely that reason. Mast fest, indeed.

Tell Michelle she is welcome and we'd love to have her join the party.

When I have my wits more about me I'll think of a sassier answer. Right now I'm just being welcoming and friendly, what I do best.

Nice to meet you, Steve, btw. I'm Dev.

D

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 9:12 pm
by Mayhew
Hi. Nice to meet you too.

You know when I first saw your screen name I assumed you were devastatingyet. Took me a while to catch on.

I'll see what Michelle says but I think the answer will be no. She has work, study, and drunken girls nights to attend. She does read my blog but has never once written or commented. C'est le vie.

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 9:10 am
by EDAS
I am newly registered and this is my first post. By the way, I am male. I have one question to those who have posted so far: "You, as a locked up male, do not have orgasms: that I have understood... The question is: do you continue to give your wives or girl friends orgasms? And does she continue to tease you? Bev seems to suggest that she continues to tease her husband, but how is it for the others?"

Thank you.

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 9:16 am
by thumper
Belle gets as many orgasms as she wants. After a while, I think we all develop a kind of release from sharing their orgasms with them. I know I sleep better after she comes, even if I don't.

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 9:21 am
by warwick
i have been wearing the cb6000s for about 3 weeks now. i can honestly say that if she leaves me unlocked after having sex, the next day i will end up masturbating. so for us rite now me wearing the device helps.

Re: Honor system vs. wearing a device

Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 9:23 am
by Dev
EDAS wrote:I am newly registered and this is my first post. By the way, I am male. I have one question to those who have posted so far: "You, as a locked up male, do not have orgasms: that I have understood... The question is: do you continue to give your wives or girl friends orgasms? And does she continue to tease you? Bev seems to suggest that she continues to tease her husband, but how is it for the others?"

Thank you.
My husband tells me that it gives him great pleasure to give me an orgasm. He tells me that he's felt this way for years but I am not sure I totally believed it. I always thought he needed to have an orgasm to be satisfied. Now that he has been locked up and orgasm free for 6 weeks, I realize I was wrong. He does like giving me orgasms. On top of that, because he has all that pent-up energy, he's doing an even better job of giving them to me, plus doing it more frequently. It's a win-win situation.

D