Newbie here - in both senses. My wife and I had a CB 3000 (or some other antique model) for a couple of years but never really used it - then somehow we decided to give this another try and I put the old thing back on - it was pretty useless and uncomfortable so we bought a CB 6000 - this is all in the space of about two weeks - with maybe four days of proper chastity in there.
Well - it's been about two months now. I love it, she loves it. You all the know the reasons why - but to try and do this on the honour system....would simply never work for me. If I get horny it leads to rubbing myself and the eventual orgasm, however stifled. is inevitable.
I travel a lot also, but the CB 6000 fitted with zip ties (that I can honourably say, I do not cheat on) goes through security without a problem. The only time I am out of the cage is when I go mountain or road biking - generally on weekends. It's out for the ride and back in right after. Yes....I could wank in the forest, but I don't....I just ride...with a hard on
I admire those who can do this without a device but also have to admit that the device itself speaks to my submissive side. Bottom line....my wife has never been happier and I'm just perpetually horny.