Need help deciding if I should wear my CB6000 at work.

[Edgewood]

I think you pretty much answered the question yourself. Your situation is not ideal to be locked up for long periods of time but you can make the best out of it with a little discipline. I'm unlocked quite often because I ride a bike about 200 days of the year but I as soon as I'm home and out of the shower I'm back in my CB as soon as possible. I don't give it a second thought until the lock snaps shut and then it's too late and I'm back at the mercy of my keyholder.

[Dev]

Hi Newbie,

First off, thanks for your service as a firefighter. You do a great job and I appreciate it. Second, welcome to the world of male chastity.

Now, to answer your question, at least from my POV...I agree with what you mostly deduced and the others here. There is a potential for danger to you to be wearing your device at work so I think it is best to just not go there. My opinion is there is a line between adult sexual fun and real world responsibility. Sometimes you can blur the line a little bit but you really need to know where the hard and fast line is. It sounds like, given your line of work and potential dangers, the hard line is to not wear your CB.

But what about the blurry line? Consider that when you are out of the device you are on the honor system. That means no touching, no wanking. Maybe you never did that but now, could your gf push the edge of the envelope a bit? I assume, since it's 2011, you have smartphone. Maybe she could send you a sexy text message: "Thinking of my cock. Keep your hands off--no touching!" You might have to suggest this to her (or even teach her) but one of the things I have come to really enjoy with MC is driving my husband nuts long distance. Sending a text message in the middle of the day when he doesn't expect it is really hot. And from what I know about firemen, you are not fighting fires 24/7. There is some downtime, even when you are on duty, where you can get a sexy message (even one in code). Of course, when you are busy, you ignore it--other more important things require your attention. But I think there are ways to play the game even when you are not locked up.

And, as someone else said, the minute you are off duty, put on your CB, hand over the key, and give your gf a great big smile.

Have fun. Keep in mind, it's all a game.

D

[NewbieJohn]

Thanks for the warm welcome folks. And I'm glad everyone pretty much agreed with me on not wearing it at work. I'm still trying to get my girl friend to really enjoy the device and to have fun with it. I dont want her to tease me 24/7 but I just want her to tease me here and there just to show she knows im wearing it. I often ask her when I will be free to jerk off again and she gets mad and upset. And says if your going to complain about wearing it Just take it off.... But anyways. I think we both agreed that during work it wont be worn. I told her if I had another job profession that wasnt dangerous like this I dont have any problem at all wearing it 24/7 365. Just taking it off for showers, and sex. But anyways, since she lives about 10 mins from me, We have agreed for me to wear the device over night, and the morning before I go into work, I must drive to her house so she can take it off. I DO NOT have any key what so ever. Even for emergencies, she has the ONLY keys. But traveling to her house before work is good because one, i get to see her before work, and two I dont do anything I shouldnt over night. One of the biggest reasons I bought this Is i'm addicted to watch porn. And Im hoping wearing this device will make it that I cant watch porn, because whats the point if you cant jerk off? But anyways, we hopefully should be living with each other soon so the traveling to her house in the morning wont be that bad. Like I said, its only 10 mins so its no big deal.

But yes, as soon as I get off of work, I must report to her house so she can put it on. And I will wear it for the 2 days off.

And you guys are correct. The term firefighter isnt much of a "firefighter" anymore. We have fires here and there, but mostly medicals calls. But still, you dont want to chance it. We do have alot of down time. We work (test hydrants, trucks, ect) from 8 to 5. Then down time until 8 in the morning when we get off. So I often talk to her, and text her through out the day. Shes not the biggest one to talk dirty to me. She gets embarrassed. Which I dont know because I love it even when shes just kidding around. Dirty talk turns me on!!!

Its been rough trying to get my girl friend to enjoy the things I love. I love bondage, I love to be tied up. I must have been born with it because Ive always loved handcuffs since Ive been a little kid. So, Ive been trying to have her accept that I LOVE bondage and for her to try things. And this device is probably more for my pleasure, But Im trying for her to enjoy it and tease me with it. Its been a rough few years trying to get her to accept and do bondage stuff. She doesnt care so much to be tied up. But I LOVE it. The tighter the better. Gagged and tied! Yes, Im weird.

Well thanks for the welcome folks and I will keep in touch. So far the device has been on for about 30+ hours now. And I love it. Still getting used to peeing. And still trying to deal with the pain from getting an erection. But Im sure I will get it..

Thanks guys
John

[kpb57]

NewbieJohn,

thank you for your service, your dedication, your will to sacrifice, wherever you are. Also tell that all your fellow firemen.

As the others said, don't endanger yourself or others by bringing the game to your special "workplace".
uniform - device is off
no uniform - device is on

But "dress uniform" on special occasions where your gf may see you and know that you're locked up underneath, that will be hot.

Hot messages are a good method to bring the game to the workplace unobtrusively. We do that all the time, using IM.

If your girlfriend still feels reluctant about the device, consider trying out something more "open" like the Birdcage. That way she still has access to your manhood even when you are locked up. Women may feel a little "excluded" if they cannot touch their man "there", and I've never met one that did not like to tease and see/feel the effects of her teasing.

K

[Atone]

Just taking it off for showers, and sex.

Not really necessary for either. Sex can be really good with it on. The extra attention you give your girlfriend may just convince her that she does like having you locked up.

I think you have made the right decision.

-A

[poor]

I'd suggest to the OP that bringing her a coffee when he reports for the morning unlock and occasionally a bunch of flowers for lock up will help sell MC to his girlfriend.

For us, this (wearing to work) is a soft limit. Chatelaine has stated that she doesn't want me to wear to work and it sits outside my comfort zone. I've been threatened with it once when I was testing her and it brought me straight back into line. Work socials on the other hand are pretty much mandatory.

[celticqueens_sub]

Even for emergencies, she has the ONLY keys.

Dude, please don't take this the wrong way... but what if anything happened to her/between you two? I would suggest that you have a key in a sealed box or package that she can verify from time to time... Just in case. Like Dev said it is a game and whilst many of us here, myself included take this very seriously you gotta do real world stuff too...

When I am away on business which is pretty frequent I have a key in a sealed jewellery box that CQ checks now and again to see if it has been opened.

[Belle]

Jnuts carrys a key on him at all times. It is on his keyring, but taped completely over. I then "signed" it, so it can be known if it is opened. Not only does this provide an emergency exit, but also a constant (and discrete) reminder every time he picks up his keys.

[poor]

Take it from me Ma'am, he's well provided for when it comes to 'constant and discreet reminders' of you.

[normalgurl23t]

I think you should realize that you have a gf and you need to respect her say so as well and porn is something ive seen girls break up with their bf over and its sad because the guy is such a dick and just doesn't care that it hurts their gf. She may not be into everything you are but it sounds like she is doing the best by accepting the way you are and doing most of the stuff you like. You maybe getting her very uncomfortable and pushing her to far. Sounds like she does like some bondage but not extreme stuff like anal hooks ball gags leather suits etc. I kinda like bondage but not all of it and my bf accepts that and is happy that i at least do some of what he likes and he does some of what i like and sometimes we mix it up. We buy things that we agree on if he doesn't like what i wanna buy then i dont same with me but yea. I hope you two can just enjoy it and accept each other and not keep pushing each other because there is always a breaking point and a lot of fights. Wish you two the best!!