Re: "Hello world" thread
Posted: Thu Sep 24, 2020 1:08 pm
My spelling was atrocious
My apologies
My apologies
Living the real life under lock and key
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Welcome to the Forums. I don't often respond in here, but thought maybe a few words from a keyholder who began this journey as vanilla might be helpful ..... or not. When I was first approached about male chastity my thought was "not no, but HELL NO". I was happy that he approached the subject the way he did because it gave me time to read, investigate, and decide on my own. After I decided to go along with it I helped decide which cage to purchase. Had he already bought a cage the outcome would probably have been very different.MikeInMass wrote: ↑Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:50 amI've been struggling to find the right device (aren't we all) but it's been difficult. I'm trying to find something that is inescapable before approaching my mostly vanilla wife about it. That's a challenge I'm putting off until I've found a good cage.
I appreciate what you’re saying. If I thought there was no hope, I’d not have made it this far. My problems finding a good cage revolve around my lack of endowment and weight issues. Two topics in don’t want to become a point of frustration that would make her give up on the whole idea. I know my wife and how easily she can get frustrated and abandon something that isn’t working.Kitten wrote: ↑Fri Sep 25, 2020 2:15 pm... After I decided to go along with it I helped decide which cage to purchase. Had he already bought a cage the outcome would probably have been very different.
All I'm trying to say is that how she is approached could be the difference between a yes or no response. I'm by no means an expert, just sharing what was true for me.
I apologize. I obviously misunderstood what you were saying. I want to wish you both a happy journey in the world of male chastity.MikeInMass wrote: ↑Fri Sep 25, 2020 8:24 pm I appreciate what you’re saying. If I thought there was no hope, I’d not have made it this far. My problems finding a good cage revolve around my lack of endowment and weight issues. Two topics in don’t want to become a point of frustration that would make her give up on the whole idea. I know my wife and how easily she can get frustrated and abandon something that isn’t working.