Can Chastity lead to cuckolding?

[Locked by LRC]

I think what brings a lot of these unexplored sexual things to the surface when chastity starts is communication. Before we started chastity play I always knew what LRC wanted and she always knew what I wanted. To start the chastity voyage we had to actually talk about each other’s expectations with this. We seemed to be actually interested in the fantasies of the other and didn't feel intimidated by discussing what it was.

LRC was surprised by me not wanting an orgasm everytime we had sex. I had tried to bring this up numerous times before chastity. In hindsight she said she never thought I was serious. That's why it took her months after starting chastity that she felt comfortable totally denying me.

My big surprise with LRC is that she likes porn with two guys and two bisexual men with a woman involved. She has told me that it's something she has always had as a fantasy but, has no desire to participate in or see me involved in. She just likes to watch this type of porn.

If I had known about these fantasies I may have been reluctant to start chastity. With all of the sites out there about femdom and forced bisexual activities, I think I would have worried that chastity would lead to this. I was, and still am, thankful I found this site to understand what vanilla chastity could be like.

[celticqueens_sub]

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[Tom Allen]

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:throws hands up in the air:

I give up.

[celticqueens_sub]

don't be so hard on yourself! I thought your irony meter might have pinged!

[Allmylife4her]

Well it looks like my chastity is leading to cuckolding. She's figured out she wants to explore that area of sexual play and I'm not going to object as I'm very inqusitive too. She's out of town just now but when she returns she has a plan to get us together with another male. We're an experienced swinging couple so I guess it's not too hard to get my mind into the cuckold mindset, I think the swinging scene is more likely to lead to willing cuckolding than chastity though.

[fuzzydunlop]

I rest my case.

[hotrob99]

Hi there allmylife4her:

You already got some great answers, but chalk us up as a happy couple who enjoy the chastity lifestyle AND cuckoldry. We actually got to cuckolding first, but it's a good fit with male chastity for us at least. I totally agree that it is really up to the individuals involved..fantasies, desires, etc. But it can be very fulfilling when it is practiced with open and sincere communication.

Check out my blog if you want to read some positive and true stories about our cuckold experiences...http://happysharingcouple.blogspot.com/.

Let me know if you want any more information about what to expect or what it feels like...though again, everyone is so different that I don't claim to have any magic answers for you.

Good luck.
Rob.

[Allmylife4her]

Hi Rob,

Thank you for sharing your blog.

[bitsy0]

Wearing a device will not:

Make your wife take a lover
Make you want her to cuckold you
Make you to wear frilly clothes
Make your penis smaller
Make you more submissive
Make her more dominant
Make you to do more housework

Sorry, but I should say it DOES.
My gf knows that, deep in my passions, lies the soul of the cuckold, and she would like to live this way, but.. when I'm not excited, I'm terribly gelous and want to do ordinary things. That's exactly why she has convinced me to buy an expensive but custom cb, cause when I fit into it, I become 100% slave and she can do dominant like she want. And i feel ultimately more submissive if I wear the cb, instead of living free.

[Tom Allen]

Wearing a device will not:

Make your wife take a lover
Make you want her to cuckold you
Make you to wear frilly clothes
Make your penis smaller
Make you more submissive
Make her more dominant
Make you to do more housework

Sorry, but I should say it DOES.
My gf knows that, deep in my passions, lies the soul of the cuckold, and she would like to live this way, but.. when I'm not excited, I'm terribly gelous and want to do ordinary things. That's exactly why she has convinced me to buy an expensive but custom cb, cause when I fit into it, I become 100% slave and she can do dominant like she want. And i feel ultimately more submissive if I wear the cb, instead of living free.

Did you miss this part?

Every couple that plays with this will be different according to their own desires and fantasies. The chastity device is just a sex toy. It may help you to communicate more, and it may help to give your own fantasies more focus, but all of that other stuff is what you make of it.

Like the old disclaimer in the astrology section: The stars impel, they do not compel. What you make of your life is largely up to you.

You and your gf made a decision to act out your fantasies. That's great that the both of you can share them this way. But you already had the desires before you started; your chastity device just helps you get into the mood.