2016... A orgasm-free year !?

[Caged55]

Although I have now nearly been in permanent enforced chastity 24/7 for nearly a year, my wife and KH has put down a challenge regarding orgasm control...

She will allow me to orgasm on old-years eve, before the New Year, and she has challenged me to work with her, to make 2016 a orgasm-free year for me. We will continue to enjoy PIV sex and in addition she will regularly "milk" me, but really wants to do away with the down-side of post-orgasm "blues". I will remain in chastity, allowed "play" with her, and weekly shaving etc (under her supervision), and even travel in the CB3000, and the Jailbird all other times....

In a way I love the challenge, but it's somehow daunting not to be allowed to orgasm for an entire year. Has anybody else had a year-long orgasm free challenge?

[Tom Allen]

We did. 2012 to 2013, although it wasn't bounded by the calendar year. 15 or 16 months. It actually got easier as time went on.

[grubber]

Lived it for a couple of years! It was absolutely amazing. Only took a break from it for a few months because of family issues on her side which resulted in frequent flying and her emotional stress.

Recently got back into it now that things with her family have settled down and I can see we are on our way back to permanent orgasm denial again.

You're going to experience the best year of your life. Congrats!

[VinnyDee]

We are doing 2016 with no orgasms. I had 3 orgasms already this year and was supposed to get my year end one today but my wife just made herself cum and gave me a ruined orgasm. She said that she did not want to start the New Year with my post orgasm grouchiness.

I think I can do a full year. She would like it to be permanent for various reasons so 2016 will be a test year to see how well I tolerate no orgasms. If I cannot take it, my option will be to masturbate without my wife taking part. I will not have an orgasm by her doing for 2016. Since I think that most of us can figure out how to make ourselves cum when locked up, but do not do so, I will not want to take her up on that offer and just wait it out. Should be fun. Hope it works out for you too.

[Caged55]

Thanks for the feedback, it's day one, but with enforcing zero orgasms this year, I'm a bit indecisive about this, but your comments make it possible.
Being the 1st Jan, she said, look you only have 364 days left before I may consider letting you ejaculate again, and maybe you'll want to make it a 2 year challenge!

I must admit I don't enjoy the post-orgasm Blues either, and as you say, maybe it will be one of the best years of my life.. Another 364 days will tell.... ?!

[grubber]

Being the 1st Jan, she said, look you only have 364 days left before I may consider letting you ejaculate again, and maybe you'll want to make it a 2 year challenge!

A girl after my own heart. Such a good girl!

[DLsKnight]

For us, it works very well. I am past 18 months without a regular orgasm and it has become easy. In fact, I don't want one unless I'm in the moment. The feeling of being charged up and knowing this is her kink makes it pretty awesome. This is just the show of control she likes and part of what gets her going. Combined with the fact she loves piv, that is enough to make me like it.

[Afrinadian]

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but 2016's a leap year.

[Caged55]

I'm actually ok with it, and it makes sense from her perspective of not having to deal with my post-orgasm blues and behavior, control, and the challenge put out there - 2016 will be a Orgasm-free year!

Thanks for the input and encouragement, not that I was used to orgasm weekly anyway and 2015 barely made 5 in total, so 5 down to 0 should be possible and yes, I am looking forward to the challenge and a great year dedicated to my wife's pleasure... Leap year or not!!!

[carolina cyclist]

During the 51 days of orgasm denial this last time I was at the point where I thought I could go longer; however, a couple of nights before the eventual orgasm I was having second thoughts. I will wait and see if MrsL ever suggest such a challenge...and...being the good chaste husband...will probably accept the challenge!