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Re: Spreading this wonderful movement

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Shepherdsflock wrote:I think it's growing in popularity because traditional PIV intercourse is usually unpleasant for most wives. .
REALLY? Most wives :shock:
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locked4her55 wrote:
Shepherdsflock wrote:I think it's growing in popularity because traditional PIV intercourse is usually unpleasant for most wives. .
REALLY? Most wives :shock:
Most of the wives of the guys I have worked with or been friends with. I guess I can't quote a Barna or Pew survey, but my experience is that the guys I know have always complained about how their wives hate sex (intercourse). Most of them say that their wife just complains that it's 5 minutes of ouch followed by snoring.

Maybe I just hang out with the wrong crowd.

All I know is my wife was just like theirs, but is much more enthusiastic now.
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Shepherdsflock wrote: It's also great for wives who don't enjoy intercourse. My wife has always found intercourse unpleasant, .....

I think that kind of sums up why it is growing in popularity. It gives couples (especially the wife) the freedom to explore things other than intercourse.
That's only part of the sum. Another aspect is how it benefits some men that have performance problems like myself that has always been a 2 pump chump and it's over or other guys not being able to ejaculate at times or staying erect. The relief from performance pressure also allows men the freedom to explore things other than intercourse.
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grubber wrote:
Shepherdsflock wrote: It's also great for wives who don't enjoy intercourse. My wife has always found intercourse unpleasant, .....

I think that kind of sums up why it is growing in popularity. It gives couples (especially the wife) the freedom to explore things other than intercourse.
That's only part of the sum. Another aspect is how it benefits some men that have performance problems like myself that has always been a 2 pump chump and it's over or other guys not being able to ejaculate at times or staying erect. The relief from performance pressure also allows men the freedom to explore things other than intercourse.
Yep. I didn't really focus on that, but I think the 5 minutes part of the comment was aiming in that direction. You hit the nail on the head for a lot of couples out there. When regular intercourse just isn't getting her there, chastity offers fun alternatives that both can enjoy.
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Re: Spreading this wonderful movement

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Shepherdsflock wrote:I think it's growing in popularity because traditional PIV intercourse is usually unpleasant for most wives.

Most of the wives of the guys I have worked with or been friends with. I guess I can't quote a Barna or Pew survey, but my experience is that the guys I know have always complained about how their wives hate sex (intercourse). Most of them say that their wife just complains that it's 5 minutes of ouch followed by snoring.

Maybe I just hang out with the wrong crowd.

All I know is my wife was just like theirs, but is much more enthusiastic now.

Not sure I would say "most" wives. Some, I'm sure. Mine would be completely unhappy without regular PIV. I do agree that alot of husbands don't make sure their wives desires are taken care of.
That is one of the best things for us about orgasm denial, me being denied orgasm allows sex to really be about her pleasure. I learned self control to last however long she wants, it is just about putting her first.
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Chastity is all about her control... she loves PIV, but also loves the control, and the benefits of my improved attitude, behavior etc that she loves... she would not want to do with sex, even after a week max she wants PIV, even though I'm not allowed to cum for weeks/months has nothing to do with her need... and if she wants it.. she wants it, there is NO denying her!!!