[Sam3655] I’ve put it out there

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Re: [Sam3655] I’ve put it out there

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My guess is that she is giving it her best shot, to see if maybe she CAN give you what you want, and the conclusion she reaches might determine the future of your marriage. Maybe you should let her know how much you appreciate everything she is doing and not push for anything more. Just my best guess.
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You read my mind. I think after reading the book she was overwhelmed. But I am about taking things real slowly at her pace. Told her I appreciate her and efforts Also that over the last month that I have noticed her growing in confidence and comfort.

So last night. CS worked a little late and by the time we got to the restaurant for bingo it was standing room only so we didn’t stay. Joked with a hint of hope I didn’t get a bingo so need to stay locked up till we come back and try again which is two weeks. She said that wouldn’t be fair as it was her fault for working late that we didn’t get to play. I took her to another restaurant for dinner and a few beers. We got home and she unlocked the cage. I cleaned up and then gave her a nice massage. She reached back and started squeezing and digging nails into my balls. Then rolled her over and had PIV sex. She let me remain uncage for the night to let the nail marks on my testicles a chance to heal but promised to lock back up first thing in the morning. I followed her orders to the letter.
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Took CS out to an early movie last night and then to a Chinese restaurant. As the meal was coming to an end she asked if I had a Viagra in my wallet. Says something about you when you go from carrying a condom to a Viagra. I did and she said I should take it. After I swallowed the pill she said, “ When we get home, gonna make a couple of drinks and thought we would play some cards. If you beat me two out of three , I’ll unlock you. But, I win two out of three you stay locked and I say good night”.

First thought was gonna be a good weekend as when I take a Viagra I get ten-hut in an hour and then major tenting issues in the morning which the wife takes care of. Second thought was we just had PIV sex on Wednesday and been locked for less than 72 hours. I don’t want to top from the bottom and she is still finding her way in chastity so I say nothing.

We get home and she makes me rum and Mountain Dew plus a shot of rum as we play 500 rum. I’m worried as she has been on a winning streak and staying caged on viagra doesn’t seem fun. She wins the first round. I win the second and despite really feeling my drinks, I win the third. She unlocked me and I am feeling long and strong. May not be but feeling long and strong. Just as I am about to enter her, CS stops me and says, “we can either have sex now or in the morning but not both. You decide”. I must have looked dumbfounded cause she then gave me 30 seconds to decide.

Not one to waste a perfectly good erection I do my duty and give her an orgasm quickly followed by my own. In the morning I have strong wood but she says she told me no. We shower with her washing my junk so I don’t touch it. I put back on the cage and she locks it and the key goes back around her neck. I know I will be locked at least a week this time because Tuesday she is off to the Bahamas till next Sunday.
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Good to see this seems to be back on a positive trajectory :P
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Thanks. Been locked for 2 days since our PIV session Saturday night. Heading to the gym, then taking CS to dinner before dropping her at the airport leaving me locked and alone for five days.

Was informed she will also be heading to her mothers on the 29th for at least a week. Her mother is having surgery to remove some screws from her hip. I realized my yearly physical is scheduled for the 30th so told her I would need to be uncaged. She wasn’t thrilled with my being unlocked while she is gone. So at lunch today did a search for lock boxes with timers to hold the key after I lock back up after my physical. Pricey on Amazon. On EBay I found key size lock box that she can open and lock with an app she can download to her phone. I ordered it and hopefully will be here before she leaves again. Told her I will FaceTime locking my cage and putting the key in the box for her to lock. She seems really please with this idea and the control she will have while gone.

I currently use a resin mamba v3 which is very comfy. She saw a gold metal cage with a tiger face and asked that I order that. We’ll see if it is a good fit for long term wear.
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Picked up wife at the airport yesterday. Five days of taking care of her dog and two cats and no teasing what so ever. Just pictures of the ocean, hugging a dolphin and drinking on the beach. At least she had a good time. Yesterday was also to be a release day.

We do the usual how was your trip talk and then she asks how I am doing. I said there were a couple of times if I had access to the key, I would have unlocked, rubbed one out and then relock. She said,” you couldn’t though”and that made her smile. I said it has only been seven days locked and with no teasing I have not yet begun to rollercoaster my feelings to which she replied, “ Good cause I know I told you today was a release day but I am too tired so you will remain locked” I did ask that she unlock me tomorrow just for a thorough cleaning of the cage and myself which she granted. But added I had to lock back up after my shower. Then she asked if the metal cages that look like cat heads arrived and I had to say no, not yet.

We get home and after playing with the animals she wants to go to bed and watch football. But then she says with all the sun, can I rub some vitamin E oil on her back and that I will need to do it the next couple of nights. The rest of the evening is spent with her head on my chest watching football till it’s time for me to go to my room.

This has got me thinking. Though she didn’t take the keys till late October, CS and I have been playing chastity since the beginning of October. Other than being out a day due to the cage breaking and two PIV sessions relocking afterwards, I have been locked 24/7 a month and a half. I think this went very quickly from being a game towards being a lifestyle. That and she said while being in the Bahamas she thought about it and liked that I was locked while she was away.
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Do you have a link to the cat head one you've ordered?? Presumably if she had a say in picking that one (I seem to recall she did?), she'll perhaps taken a more active role given it's a sign of her ownership??
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Here is the description on ebay.

Stainless Steel Male Chastity Cage Device Golden Metal Tiger Men Locking Belt

Hoping it helps which is why I was showing her cages to get something she likes. Currently she has an avoidance to being near the cage. Also having her physically unlock the cage and locking it back on to get her more comfortable around it and a stronger feeling for the level of control she has.
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Yesterday because of the wife’s Bahama trip and her daughter borrowing her car, I realized CS has not seen the grand kids in two weeks. I suggested after work and the gym that I drive her over for a visit. This led to us picking up pizza for everyone and a nice visit.

We walk out to the car and she says thanks for bringing her over to see the grandkids. I joke the cage is to blame. It’s been on long enough, I’m doing nice things. She says, “Careful, I might never let you out”. I wisely let it rest. It’s been 9 days 24/7.

Today the spare key holder comes. It holds the spare key that she can open and close with an app on her phone. She’s charging it to test it. This way if she is traveling and I am at home and need unlocked for a doctor visit, she just pushes a button on her phone. She’ll also know when I lock the key back up.

Lastly, tomorrow is Bingo night. If we go and I get a Bingo, I’ll be released for the night. If not, another seven days locked.
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This morning CS reminded me if we make Bingo and I get a bingo I will get unlocked. We arrived an hour before bingo started and again no tables forcing us to eat at another restaurant. I am locked for another week but looking for a silver lining tomorrow will be the 11th day locked 24/7 tying my longest locked. Each day after that is a new record.
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