I am enjoying this. It may turn into a case of "be careful what you wish for" for my husband. I was leery of this game getting into it again because of J's tendency to try and top from the bottom. But he's been excellent, just letting me run this how I like. At first I was thinking a week was pretty long, but given this punishment he's currently been in chastity for six weeks and going strong.
Biggest surprises for me:
1) We are having a lot more sex than before, and the sex is really good. I figured he'd be on a hair trigger, but actually he's better able to control himself since he knows he will not be ejaculating at all.
2) And aside from stamina, he's more patient and more creative in sex.
Less surprising, but good:
3) He's very attentive and affectionate
4) He's having fun with it, and genuinely seems to enjoy the angst. That's good because I enjoy the feeling that I can take or leave sex as I wish and I don't have to feel guilty about him.
I'm now recognizing that letting him come once a week was too often. Once he gets past this punishment, we will see what kind of pattern works for me.