[mozes74] life changing - scared but overly excited

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Just wanted to update. So I went 2 more weeks in chastity. Which was 24/7 locked, and just getting her off, doing all the choirs and nothing for me. Then we had a vacation so i was out a week and actually she let me out for another week after. Then I was back on 24/7 again . I noticed that the cage and ring are really loose now. I'm kinda worried that things are shrinking. I know when i was out that it did appear to be a smaller erection but IDk. I probably need a smaller ring and cage. But i dont want to make everything smaller. so some advise please....
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I noticed that must people on here are talking about the juicy stories and I usually ask questions about things im worried about. So this update I will try to just concentrate on the good stuff.

To recap , my wife and I had evolved into a FLR about 3 years ago. Then about six months ago my wife came up with the idea of chastity she saw it somewhere and sent me a link on where to buy the cage and told me to order it. I have mostly been in cage 24/7 since.

The last time i was out and we were on vacation. I forgot to mention that we got to actually have piv sex. We were in a hot tub in our room and she saw I was hard and climbed on me. She got off and I tried my hardest not to comb. I thought she would be mad. Then she got up and bent over and told me to get her from behind. She has the hottest azz. But I wasn't quite hard enough and with the water i couldn't get in. She got upset after a minute and told me forget it. I was out for another week after. I got her off once by going down on her. She did not let me get mine. Then one morning in the shower, she got upset that I was hard and "poking her". So she told me that I didn't ask to get hard and she didn't want me poking her when we were trying to shower, so she told me to put the cage back on. I wore it for about a week. Then one night i got her off by using the toy and licking. Afterwards I was lying there in pain from the cage and she told me i could take it off. I did so quickly and laid back down with her. I thought she would want to do more. but she told me to rub her back and paid no attention to my erection. It is so hot when she does that , i mean she just gets hers and gives no thought to me getting anything. I love it but i hate it. The next day i was free and had to relive myself. I was watching porn and when i went it was a ton and all over the place. It was pretty impressive i think. i dint let her know of course. Then a day later back locked up. Its been about 2 weeks now.
A while back I found a key from an old chastity that happened to work in the new cage. I saved it in a vehicle about 10 miles from our house. I kept it because I wanted to be able to get out if she was keeping me in a long time. About a week ago I decided to get rid of the extra key that i hid from her. I had never used it , but i was always a little less under her control, because i knew i had away out. I woke up that day just hurting from the pain of the cage but longing to be more under her control. So its been about a week since then and i gotta say the feeling of her total control is back. I cant help but do whatever she tells me too. I have been totally under her control waiting on her hand and foot.
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On about the 1st of the month we were having the usually or our normal sex - which is toys for her. ("home wrecker" & "rabbit") then when we were done i was laying there in pain from the pressure on the cage. She told me to take it off. So off it came. She started actually playing with my penis??/ yeah stroking and slapping it around. then she climbed on and she got off. I almost did but she stopped and said that was enough. rolled over and told me to start with the back rub. The next day she got upset that i hadn't vacuumed the floors. I told her i hadn't got a chance to yet but she knew i was playing around on the computer. She got pissed and told me to come in the bedroom grabbed the cage and said put it on now! I did what i was told, it was not easy because i haven't came in a month and i was close the night before so i was somewhat hard. So its been on for over a week that im back in cage. I have got her off twice and of course nothing for me. She says it is my job to get her off and clean her up when she's done, then of course rub her back. She says that the toy is better because it goes deeper and it vibrates. She knows I enjoy it. She did let me lick her while the toy was in. That is my reward for being good for a week. She also does not want me to cum until my birthday in October. But if im good,she will let me give her oral more often. :) :D . So that's where were at now. I'm just trying to be good so I get my treat.
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She sounds like a hard taskmaster!!

Hope things develop for you...she at least watches the cuck porn so you know it's a turn on for her...

In terms of your limited ejaculations... suggest telling her that you've read up on it and it's not healthy for you to go without for a prolonged period...say you're ok to keep the cage on but she needs to milk you to reduce the 'backing up'...a strong vibrator on your cage for a few minutes should clear any blockages!
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update: Its been about a year of chastity now. Everything has progressed how I thought it would. Still 24/7 lock up. We have moved on to a more secure & smaller cage. Our sex is still her watching porn & me working toys under the blanket. I still wait on her hand and foot like a servant would. These days everything is just the norm and expected. She was letting me out once every 2 weeks for a hand job. Then she switched to making me jerk myself in the shower with her watching and making fun. I liked it, but it was frustrating. The last month she has starting calling me her cuckold. And she says cuckolds dont get to cum. She doesn't necessarily want to cuckold me with another man, really just with the toy. But she does treat me as such. My rewards now are: She comes home from the gym and stuffs her sweaty underwear in my face, or she makes me clean her up with my tongue after she cums. Well actually she only lets me do this if im good. I do miss the piv or even the hand jobs, but i know this is what she wants, and she is happier. Or we are happier. We do get along way better and im still almost always at arousal state. I do leak cum alot now, When i asked her what I should do about that. She gave me one of her pads and told me to start wearing them and that "i guess you dont need to jerk off anymore."
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update"
My new cage allows for good cleaning so its about 3 weeks of solid 24/7 then I am let out for grooming and then straight back in.
My wife is happier with this. Chastity was her idea, but she has always hated the cleaning part of it.
I have learned to not ask to get out, and that it is just a permanent fixture. As far as sex goes i think it has changed i have learned that it is 100% for her and nothing for me other then the arousal from doing what im told. Now we just use toys/porn or sometimes she will let me use my fingers to get her off. She has gotten away from me giving her oral because she thought i enjoyed it to much. The other new thing is we bought a whip set. She loves to whip me on a routine basis, to let off steam & stress. It is also for when i talk back, then its bigger whip & harder blows. Don't know why this turn me on , but it does. But everything she does turns me on now. Just waiting on her hand and foot. bathing her, dressing her, getting her off then cuddling after. Cleaning her up after she comes( she bends over the dresser with her awesome ass towards me and i only use wipes, but so awesome). She doesn't even acknowledge my cage and i love that too. :D
Forgot - no hand jobs anymore. total denial. except she will slap my dick around when it is out for grooming every 3 weeks.
I think it was around Christmas that she last let me come, but she is pretty sure we are done with that.
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Funny how its the "little things" that turn me on now. Yesterday my wife and I had just got out of the shower, we were naked and I was brushing her hair. She normally doesn't even acknowledge that the penis and cage are there. Which is hot itself, that we have got to the point were it is just locked away and not even a thing any more. Out of the blue she grabbed it. She grabbed it with her thumb and finger, like she was grabbing a little pinch of something. She shook it around and then said huh. We both went on to work. I couldn't stop thinking about it. She had grabbed it like it was tiny and defiantly not a penis she would use for sex or anything. I text her and asked her about it. She replied that she didn't noticed that she had grabbed it that way. Later that night we were laying in bed. We both have just sweats on. I was wiggling it around and she told me to take down the sweats so she could see. So I did and wiggled it more. She then said yeah it has gotten smaller. (Why was that such a turn on ?) So i asked is that ok? She said yeah that's fine. I said we don't use it anyway right? and i thought you wanted the toys to get bigger and the cages to get smaller. She said yeah that's what I want. damn that's hot to me!

I just have to say. I don't get it. Chastity was her idea and i didn't want it at first. Now i love it. Getting smaller was something that was a "hard" no for me. Now i love that too.
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