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You are so lucky / blessed. I only wish . . .

I gave my wife the same book a month ago and she still has yet to read it. Then Stephen King, her favorite author released a book this month. Chastity book to the back burner.

It may be over. I was unlocked on Sept 10th. It was her choice because she wants to play with my body whenever she wants.

I asked for her to lock me up for Locktober and she said “No”. I miss chastity so much that I’ve been self locking during the week while I’m at work, but taking it off when I get home.

This may be my life from now on after being in full time chastity for over 400 days.

After self locking during work hours only for nearly 1.5 months I couldn’t handle it anymore. I asked my wife if I could lock myself in 24/7 chastity and unlock only when she wanted to play.

Her reply was “sure”. So, while she’s not the enforcer, she still is the keyholder, right?

Right now, it’s working for us.

On we go….

12 days later and I’m still locked and denied. She asked me to shave her bare last night (it’s been awhile) and I happily obliged.

Afterwards, she requested an orgasm. She is still struggling with denial because last night she asked me if it was OK if she didn’t return the favor. I told her it was more than ok, it’s what I wanted.

I created a spreadsheet this morning. Since we’re started full time chastity, I have been locked 353 days out of 457. That is about 70% - not too shabby for our first 14 months!

She’s also had 126 orgasms to my 41. That’s a 3:1 ratio - but the numbers don’t really reflect accurately. For example, in the last 6 months of 2021 I had more (21) than I’ve been allowed all of 2022 (20). The current trend is one or two per month.

On we go….

Just a quick update.

It’s been 42 days since I’ve been unlocked or had an orgasm. She says no more for 2022, but she has also hinted of some possible playtime focused on me. I think she just likes to keep me frustrated!

She is overcoming her guilt of having me please/play with her (10 times in November) and leaving me horny and frustrated.

On we go….

At 9 pm tonight will be the 500th day we have been in “full time” chastity.

It hasn’t been 100% full time. Since July 26, 2021 I have been kept in chastity for a total of 397 days. The longest I’ve been unlocked was 40 days from Sept 11 to October 20, 2022, but have an average of just over 5 free days per month.

I’ve averaged being in chastity 79.24% since beginning. Many months (8) I’ve been locked 100% off the time.

She’s probably not even aware of the milestone. If she was, she probably wouldn’t care anyway.

In the same timeframe, she’s has at least 133 orgasms to my 43. She’s averaging over 7 orgasms a month to my 2.

On we go….

I’ve been locked and orgasm free 55 days total and the keys have been out of the lockbox for 2 weeks!

I’m so incredibly horny. But yet I wait.

On we go….

Currently on day 70 of being locked and denied.

My wife is going in an overnight trip so there won’t be any play time tonight, so I here are the year end numbers for 2022 plus total since we started in July 2021.

For 2022, I was locked a total of 263 days and unlocked 102. For 2022, she had 87 orgasms that I gave her (she MAY have had solo play I’m not aware of) to my 23. She has hinted MAYBE one more on New Year’s Eve. When she hinted at ending the year with a bang, she also said that she likes the way I treat her when I’m locked up for long periods of time. She asked me if she let me orgasm, would I still be nice to her and I told her I would try. We’ll see what happens.

On we go….

2023 is looking up already!

My wife has been sending me pictures and being a general tease - more than usual - over the past week or so.

We had a grandmother volunteer to watch our son for a few days including New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day. We decided to stay home, have a nice dinner, and relax.

We were watched a movie then flipped the channel over to the New Year’s Eve coverage. With 5 minutes left in 2022, she glanced over and asked “I want to unlock you and see if I can have one more orgasm this year.” Of course I said yes! It has been 71 days since I had been free!!

I used her favorite toy as she lightly touched and held me. I instantly got hard. After playing with her a bit she told me to lube myself up - she wanted me inside her. I warned her that it had been 111 days without PIV, and I would likely finish VERY quickly. She said we could do it, but I had to use my fingers and her toy afterwards to finish her off.

And that’s exactly what happened as we brought in the new year.

Afterwards, I asked if I should return to confinement and she said not for now - she would see how nice I was tomorrow.

On we go….