[inchastityat127] She is starting to like it more when I’m locked

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The past few days have been tough. I’ve currently been locked only 12 days and the Jailbird is very comfortable. However, I have been dreaming of her giving me a blowjob every night. Not only does it makes me super horny, but her cage stopping my erection wakes me up. It’s not painful, but uncomfortable enough to wake me up. Blowjobs didn’t happen very often in prechastity life, so I’m not sure why I’m obsessed with it now.

I’ve been locked longer than this before, but this lockup is proving to be difficult already. It could be that I know this period I’ve committed to is for longer than I’ve ever done before (by many days). It could be there is no getting out of the Jailbird. It could be she is into it and just not letting me out as she done in the past. It could be all of those things combined.

We had a conversation yesterday about my current struggle. I simply told her while I am incredibly horny, I’m just not sure 100 days is the right number this time. I was not asking to be unlocked, but talking about the possibility of a shorter lockup period. I did realize my hormones would calm down a little (from experience) and this was just a tough phase. I told her I was even tempted to use the key when I woke up before sunrise - it’s just in the bathroom drawer so I know where it is.

She understood, but told me I was just horny and I wasn’t getting unlocked. She told me I was nicer and more attentive when I was locked, and she liked it. She asked me about my thoughts of doing 50 days instead. After some discussion, I told her honestly that I really didn’t want to go back on my word. I said 100 days to prove I’m serious, so we should do 100 days. It’s just proving to be difficult already, and I will need her to be strict with me.

She asked what would motivate me to last 100 days other than her enforcing it. I told her about my recurring blowjob dream and we agreed that after 100 days, she would give me a blowjob. Actually, she doesn’t like ultimatums, so she said “sometime after 100 days” which means it could be several to many days after the 100th day.

When brushing my teeth before bed, I noticed the key is gone from the bathroom drawer - she hid it somewhere so now I can’t be tempted to use it.

So onward go. I should have listened- Be careful what you ask for!
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Yesterday/last night was an interesting experience that I thought I would share.

I like her to be clean shaven down there and I even volunteer to do it for her. She alternates between keeping it shaved, closely trimmed, and just letting it grow (not my favorite). A few days ago she allowed me to give her a very close trim from several months of growth. Of course, I can't stop thinking about it and how much I would love to kiss and feel it. Yesterday she made a trip to the store for some essentials while I stayed home with little one. While at the store, she called me and asked me about which product she should buy so she could shave herself. Now they make razors and products specifically for the pubic area to help moisturize, exfoliate, and prevent ingrown hairs. As she casually talked about it over the phone in the store, I get excited. She knows what I like!

Several hours later I was in bed while she finished up some work on the computer. I was nearly asleep when she comes to bed, climbed on top of me and started to kiss me. She is an awesome kisser and I could make out with her for hours. Naturally, my hands started to wander and I could tell her body was reacting. As I'm tugged on her pants, I told her I want to kiss her. She said I was kissing her. I told her those were not the lips I was talking about.

So, here's the interesting part (for me) and I'm looking for input from others more experienced in chastity than me. As I kissed and played (mouth, toys, and fingers were also involved), not only was my cock trying to break out of the cage, but it felt like I was "leaking." I have seen this on porn pictures, but it is a real thing? My shorts had a very small moist spot on the front of them, and my balls don't feel as full as they were yesterday. But my backs may just be extra “saggy” today.

Was it my imagination? I mentioned it to her and she just laughed (more of a giggle, actually). Do you/can you really leak when getting really excited in chastity? Does it relieve any "pressure" even if just a little bit comes out? I'm afraid if it's true and she finds out, I may never get unlocked. Her main concern with long term chastity is if it's "healthy" and if it will cause any physical problems.

I have to be honest with her, but I'm not sure what is true and what is just porn stuff. Help, please....

P.S. I leave for work before her. Just as I was logging into my computer at work I get a text message. It simply said "All shaved for you." I can't wait to get home tonight!
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inchastityat127 wrote: Mon Oct 25, 2021 1:11 pm ...not only was my cock trying to break out of the cage, but it felt like I was "leaking." I have seen this on porn pictures, but it is a real thing? My shorts had a very small moist spot on the front of them, and my balls don't feel as full as they were yesterday.
Well, it's a real thing for me. Usually about 10 days or so into a lockup I experience a leak of seminal fluid. It doesn't really give me much relief at all. After the first time it might reoccur every four to six days. But since we're all different... results may vary!
inchastityat127 wrote: Mon Oct 25, 2021 1:11 pm I'm afraid if it's true and she finds out, I may never get unlocked.
Well, be careful what you wish for!
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Last night I got home, took a shower and shaved myself (the best I can while wearing a chastity cage, anyway). She likes me shaved from mid thigh to just below my belly button (front and back). I took care of things, put on some shorts and a t-shirt, and hopped in the bed. She came in a few minutes later wearing pajamas and we starting watching tv as per our usual routine.

When the show was finished, she pulled down her pants and said "Here you go, see what I did?" and showed me her completely hairless vagina. She took my hand and placed it on top of her deliciously smooth skin. Of course, I loved it and started to play with her. I asked if I could kiss it, and she told me "No." She told me to only touch the outside, and warned me not to put my fingers inside of her. At one point, she reached over and grabbed her cage through my shorts and asked me if I liked it. I confirmed what she already knew and asked if she was enjoying teasing me. She smiled and said "yes, and you have a lot more on the way."

After a few excruciating minutes of my cock trying to bust out of my cage (not gonna happen in the Jailbird), she removed my hand, gave me a kiss on the cheek, and told me goodnight. She then pulled up her pants, rolled over, turned off the light, and went to sleep.

She is beginning to ramp up the tease more than usual and really enjoying being a keyholder.
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My wife is as well, except when I asked her to please take off my cage and jerk me off for fun I got the opposite. She punished me for asking her and added 3 more days. She is being really assertive this time with the consequences and her punishments. Nov21 seems like a long ways away right now. That’s my new release date. She then asked me to lick her pussy and came sooo hard! She jokingly said “the way things are going I just might keep you locked up more often,I like this! “ My dick got so hard in its cage… and she noticed
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Luv2belocked wrote: Tue Oct 26, 2021 1:59 pm Nov21 seems like a long ways away right now. That’s my new release date.
At least you know your release date. I’ve just been told it won’t happen before Jan 20th, 2022. I just don’t know how MUCH past that day!

I’ll trade dates with you! LoL
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Curious minds want to know.....What's a release date??????? :roll:
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KittensBoyToy wrote: Wed Oct 27, 2021 7:36 am Curious minds want to know.....What's a release date??????? :roll:
Your point is understood - every relationship is different, so I probably should define what it means for us.

We are pretty new to taking chastity serious and full time, so we’re vanilla at this point. A “release date” is set at some point in the future to motivate me knowing there is an end point. To us (at least me) on the release date, the Jailbird is removed temporarily for my pleasure as a reward for a job well done. It goes right back on afterwards, of course!

It’s also up to her and I have a feeling they will be further apart as we continue this lifestyle. One day (hopefully not TOO soon) I will probably be in the same situation as you, not knowing when (or if) I will be temporarily out of chastity.
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For us… we’ve been playing with chastity for quite few years now and it’s always been just a game… short term. In this last year my wife has really begun to warm up to me being locked and has had fun leaving me locked and denied for longer periods. This time was typical Locktober , she has had me do it every year for the last 3 years. This year she said that she was going to take me past my longest lockup … 41 days. Well that took me into NOvember, I had a couple bad days and there were consequences, so as the days are added I’ve just done the math and that’s when I should be allowed out. (She could change her mind though… she’s done it before). I think she’s actually considering chastity as a lifestyle vs just an on and off game. She’s told me she’s happier when I’m locked and she likes it much more because of the way I pay more attention to her and her needs. We’ll see … hopefully she does! She’s only let me cum 3 times in the last 3 months. I mentioned that to her and she said “ I KNOW isn’t that hot?”
With a wink, she tells me I’m lucky I’ve gotten that…
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The mrs was battling a sinus infection all week so the last thing on her mind was sex.

Last night she must have been feeling better because she suggested we take a shower together after little one went to sleep. I jumped at the chance!

After some light teasing in the shower, we got into the bed and she asked me for her favorite toy. I retrieved it, and as I turned it on, she asked me what number (orgasm) we were on for the month. She hadn’t forgotten! I responded this one would be 10 out of the goal of 15.

She smiled and said that there was always next month! Since it had been awhile for her (around a week) she orgasmed quickly from buzzing her clit (her favorite).

After coming down from the orgasm, she looked at me and said, “Aren’t you supposed to tell me something?” I was caught by surprise because she had never done that before. I gave her a kiss and told her “Thank you for letting me give you an orgasm.”

She said “You’re welcome.” Then she rolled over, turned off the light, and went to sleep. It took me a bit longer to calm down and go to sleep.

As a side note, since I’ve been keeping track (July 2021), 10 orgasms for her in one month is a new record!

Also, if you’re keeping track (or care), today is day 19 of a 100 day lockup - my longest by far period without an orgasm.
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