[snug_tube] My Chastity Odyssey

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[snug_tube] My Chastity Odyssey

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My chastity odyssey began when I discovered Altairboy’s website in the 1990s. The idea of having my penis locked by a secure device and my orgasms strictly rationed proved addictive, and I subsequently attempted to interest my wife. Her reaction was less than enthusiastic. She called it “sick and perverted”, but that was back then.

A lot happened between then and a few years ago when a flood wiped out my favorite cycling route and, unable to conveniently ride, my interest in chastity was once again rekindled. What follows is the abbreviated version of how I got here.

My wife developed some debilitating health issues that, among other things, made penetrative sex too uncomfortable for her. I resorted to masturbating to porn on my laptop and it became habitual. I felt guilty and attempted to break myself of the habit by putting myself back into chastity and using a time lock as a keyholder. I still viewed “chastity tease and denial” videos on xtube though, and one time I forgot to delete my history and my wife discovered my secret.

I suppose this could have ended very badly. The previous times that I’ve attempted to interest her in keeping me locked – and there were many – were short lived and hadn’t had satisfying outcomes. This time, things turned out differently. Maybe it was her reading the “Fifty Shades of Grey” novel and its sequels that one of her best friends loaned to her, but I doubt that’s the only reason. I think that, after all these years of false starts, she’d finally decided to play along with my insistence that this would put the spark back in the bedroom, or maybe she just wanted to teach me a lesson. To this day I’m not sure, but I know that I never would have expected her to embrace the lifestyle to the extent she has.

I remember the event very well. You see, she knew about my chastity tube from our last failed attempt and asked me if I was wearing it. I told her that I was. She stared at me for a long minute and then asked me to give the key to her. (Notice I said “key” because there’s only one, but that’s also ancient history.) I told her it was in my key safe which was secured with my time lock. She repeated her request – make that her demand.

I recall that there was a little over 14 hours left on the timer when I handed the key safe it to her. My heart was pounding in my chest with excitement. In my past attempts I’d had to convince her to take the key, but this time she’d asked for it without coercion. I knew this time was different.

She had me drop my shorts and briefs and examined my chastity tube. She asked me if it was the one that I could wear for a long time and I told her it was. She told me that if we were really going to do this then this time it was going to be by her rules. If I asked to be unlocked, then it would be the end and the chastity tube would go in the trash. I told her that I agreed. She said that I had until the time lock ran out to change my mind.

I didn’t change my mind, and the next time I saw my key safe the key was missing.

Her rules were revealed to me in short order. There would be no more of me attempting to “top from the bottom”. Where had she gotten that? No suggesting, no asking to be let out or allowed to “squirt”. Squirt was her word for me ejaculating. She’d decide when and if I deserved to squirt. I had to please her and not just in the bedroom. If I asked to squirt, then I’d just go longer without one.

Things got steamy in the bedroom again – for her. Lots of me pleasuring her both orally and with her magic wand. Lots of frustration for me, but I refrained from asking her for a squirt even though my balls were aching, and I was oozing pre-cum after two weeks. This was what I’d so desperately wanted, and it had finally come true after all these years. I was living the chastity lifestyle and my wife was my keyholder. I was in heaven!

I desperately need to squirt, though, and my need became increasingly worse. Unfortunately, my custom-made chastity tube thwarted any attempts at stimulation, but that’s what it was intended to do.

Chastity heaven gradually devolved into chastity hell. I’d gone for long periods in chastity, but not with the almost nightly tease and denial that servicing my wife was inflicting upon me. After just shy of a month I was thoroughly miserable and wanted out of my chastity tube. I knew the consequences, but I couldn’t stand it any longer. If her intent had been to teach me a lesson, then she’d succeeded.

I asked to be unlocked. I told her that she’d won and that I was done with chastity for good.

I remember clearly the look on her face when I told her that. Her reaction wasn’t at all what I expected. She laughed and told me that wasn’t going to happen. She’d said that she was loving our lifestyle and that she didn’t want things to go back to the way they were. She said that locking up my naughty penis was the best thing that had ever happened in our marriage and she’d wish she’d given chastity a chance years ago when I’d first suggested it to her.

I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I remember that I started crying and pleading with her to please let me out. She told me to be quiet and lay on my back on our bed. She took her magic wand, pressed it firmly against my shaft at a spot just behind the end of my chastity tube and ahead of my scrotum, and switched it on. I remember that I squirted like a geyser and that some of my semen hit the bedroom wall behind me. I’d never had an orgasm that intense.

She had me clean my squirt off the wall and then told me to go clean up. She joined me in the shower, and we lathered each other then rinsed off. We cuddled together in the bed afterward and dozed off.

Fast forward four years. I’m still locked in my chastity tube 24/7, and the odyssey continues.
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The odyssey continues.

After a few years what was once new and exciting becomes a routine and eventually an obligation. The circumstances that helped to create the lifestyle are still present, but the spice is becoming old. Penetrative sex is still a non-starter due to her health issues, so I stay locked because if she isn’t interested in regular sex then why should I be. I’m the one who wanted chastity in the first place and I got my wish.

We still get frisky in the bedroom, just not as often. She still allows my squirts, but now she just hands me her Magic Wand and times me. I get three minutes. If that isn’t enough time then “too bad”. That much hasn’t changed, so I guess that I should feel lucky.

I don’t know what to do the stoke the fire. I became more involved in this forum recently looking for ideas and inspiration. Maybe I’ll find something here.
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Too bad to hear about this... we use a Wheel of Fortune to really spice things up. You could assign all sorts of devious things to such a wheel. Punishments, rewards, lock-up time... I have to spin a punishment wheel if I forget a chore. Quite exciting!
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We play a dice game. I allow my hubby to roll a pair of dice and certain rolls equate to certain results…could result in an edging, ruined orgasm, stay locked, etc.
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