[bikelock] Not entirely sure where this is going

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Bikelock
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Merry Christmas to all. I certainly had one. My KH unlocked me for a long bike ride delivering Christmas cards and when we got home told me to leave the cage off as she needed me later ;) That night she dressed up sexy then straddled my face and let me pleasure her. When she had enough she put on her cock and fucked me missionary which was awesome. I still haven’t cum although there was plenty of leakage. It looks like it is going to be a very good new year.

After plenty of bumps the road ahead seems to be smoothing out and we are both feeling happier and more secure on this lovely journey
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Bikelock
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Quick funny update. My KH lost her key. Not a joke not a tease she genuinely suddenly realised it wasn’t round her neck and it wasn’t where she keeps it when she isn’t wearing it. This wouldn’t be an absolute disaster as there is a spare but she was pretty worried. It was even funnier that neither of us could properly remember when she last had it.

In some ways it is nice that it has just become normal for her to have it on and we don’t really think about it. On the other hand I certainly wasn’t looking forward to her asking if it had been turned in at the gym. Oh they won’t know it is just a bit of jewellery the key to my heart she said. I reckoned they would probably figure it out :oops: In the end we found it I think she took it off half asleep and shoved it under her pillow. She blames me! I don’t think so but then again she is always right and I wouldn’t want to argue lol. In the end no harm done and sure we will laugh about it
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Re: [bikelock] Not entirely sure where this is going

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Hello again. Just wanted to post about how things are going in general. I am very happy to say that our relationship seems to be moving towards a fairly stable happy state. As my up and down rollercoaster posts indicate this hasn’t always been the case, Like many of the couples on the forum we are mostly vanilla with just a bit of kink thrown in (again typically more from me than my SO) We started this because although we both still loved each other things had gotten a bit stale and I at least felt that we were headed towards benign neglect and that wasn’t a place I wanted to be.

It has taken a while but my wife now seems more comfortable being my KH. We don’t practice strict control and I can unlock pretty much whenever I feel I need to for work or hygiene or even just still getting used to the cage. The point is I generally don’t want to as I really value how I feel more attentive and passionate towards my wife when I stay locked for a while. Long term denial has never really been my goal but on the other hand PIV sex has never really been my biggest turn on even when we first got together. I still remember how in the first week we were sleeping together I pretended not to have any condoms just so I could spend more time going down on her.

My KH has started occasionally spending time cuddling me and being a bit more assertive which is brilliant. I doubt she is ever going to be quire as dominant sexually as I would really like but that is okay. My biggest wish is that she would just be more comfortable asking for what she wants. Relationships are about give and take and as long as you both get enough of what you need even if it isn’t quite as much as you would like I reckon that’s a big win.

Everyone on here has their own wants needs and desires but I believe almost all have started this journey from a desire to build stronger happier relationships. I am feeling really positive about the direction my marriage is heading and just wanted to say to some of the others on here that have struggled with similar issues such as disinterested partners or wildly mismatched libidos that given time and patience things can improve. It is obviously still early days for us but at least for now there seems to be some genuine progress. Maybe 2022 won’t be another awful wasted year.
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