[timmyboy38] Well, it seems I'll get what I wished for!

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Re: [timmyboy38] Well, it seems I'll get what I wished for!

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Hardly any play for us during the last six weeks. My wife has health issues and her libido is below freezing level. Today, I locked myself just to see what happens. As my wife has expressed near zero interest in chastity or anything BDSM related, I'm not keeping my hopes up.
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Dabbled a bit with chastity lately. Just ordered a titanium BA-28 with PA lock from Badass workroom. 330 dollars, not too bad. Hope it fits well. The cherry keeper is not so comfortable with the custom external PA lock. Now, the PA lock will be integrated in the tube. Plus, it is nearly escape-proof being made of metal.
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Still waiting for the BA-28. I have been out of chastity for a while now. But just now, my wife's voice casually floated across the hall: "Shouldn't you be locking up again?" She told me that I was chickening out again, even though I mentioned it to her yesterday. I told her I needed someone strict to help me along. She understood me perfectly well :D .

Tomorrow, I get to do a coin flip again, and see if I can have sex with her. If I flip tails, I will be locked for several days but I do get to use our strapon on her. Interesting times again...

The BA-28 is set to arrive about two weeks from now, so I still use the cherry keeper with external third-party PA lock.
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Still no BA-28. After emailing yesterday, it has been dispatched. Will arrive within a week.
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Wow, it's been 9 months since I last updated my journal. We have only dabbled in chastity in the meantime. I have a BA-28, but again this device is no good for me. Like any ball-trap device, it slowly devours my scrotum and I cannot handle it. I also bike every other day. I bought a new saddle which has been suggested on this forum several times. It does not work with my cage. Instant pain. So, as a last resort, today I purchased a Penicap with PA-lock. I have a foreskin, but it's loose, so theoretically it should work. I would be a great solution if this thing did the job, since I would be able to exercise without having to unlock every 48 hours. Time will tell..

I will update you about the Penicap soon.
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timmyboy38 wrote: Sat Nov 19, 2022 8:56 am Like any ball-trap device, it slowly devours my scrotum.
In what way?
I think many of us have had ball burn or in my case nocturnal trying to tear my balls off. What's happening exactly? May be a problem others have dealt with?
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Hi, the ring chafes badly. Even with lots of petroleum jelly. And exercise is not possible. I suspect a ring is not required with a PA.
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I've only had this chafing problem with a round narrow ring. Every device since has an ergonomic ring and they are wider as in tripple ring width. I make my own now on the 3D printer so they are lighter and wide. My balls hang really low so I had to go wider on ring and shorter on cage.
It doesn't move at all so no chafing.
It seems 90% of problems are due to sizing and half a mil can make all the difference. In my case, dropping from a 3" cage to 2" solved everything, and it's a birdcage type, less metal so less weight overall. I hang at around 5" and am near 8" erect so started longer. Now it's just scrunched up into 2" (3" with ring) with nowhere to go and I don't get the pendulum effect or any other issues. My cage is wider than should be, I wanted breathing room, ability to wash and dry while locked, and I sweat down there when working (builder/roofer). Its held in place with a steel urethral tube so mainly isn't in in contact with the bars unless aroused.
Maybe try wrapping the ring with soft surgical tape until it grips enough that it isn't easy to turn or slide, but not so tight it turns your balls purple when not aroused.
Im sure there are lots of answers. Snug worked for me. Locked 24/7 apart from play.
Good luck.
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Thanks for your input, mr pickle! Today, my penicap will arrive. Let's see if this is the mouse trap I've been looking for.
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And the answer seems to be... yes. I cannot escape the penicap and it is quite comfortable. Pleasured my wife today, including strapon. Wow, how frustrating this is. I can now deal with the frustration of being locked for several days in this thing. The first days are hard... pun intended.
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Locked 24/7 in a cherry.. no a PA-28.. I mean a Penica.. well, I don't know.
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