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Re: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

Posted: Sat Sep 19, 2020 12:58 pm
by LockedByBD
FindingFun wrote: Wed Sep 16, 2020 9:55 pm ... but I couldn’t help noticing something about myself tonight. What I noticed was a sense of disinterest in what my wife had to say. Could being un-caged have more to do with this than the other factors?
Wouldn't doubt it. My wife has noticed the difference. I sometimes refer to my device as "the hearing aid."

Re: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:19 pm
by FindingFun
Why can’t I bring myself to locking myself up again?

I actually know the answer. It’s because I don’t know if I can bring myself to ask my wife to be okay with it.

What’s wrong with me.

Re: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2020 5:32 am
by nosaint
FindingFun wrote: Tue Sep 29, 2020 10:19 pm I actually know the answer. It’s because I don’t know if I can bring myself to ask my wife to be okay with it.

What’s wrong with me.
Nothing is wrong with you would be my guess. I've been there. I didn't mention Chastity for somewhere around 20 years. Her prior revulsion and scorn was more than I could risk. I started occasionally wearing ball stretchers, without her knowledge. Then she found out, (ok the weird guy is manifesting himself again) Then she forgot about the stretchers (something I found absolutely inconceivable, but true) rediscovered them, was a bit upset and that led to a mention of chastity devices and somehow here I am locked, she enjoys setting records for denial...So things can change. Good Luck

Re: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

Posted: Wed Sep 30, 2020 9:38 pm
by FindingFun
I really needed and appreciate your reply.
Thank you
Nothing is wrong with you would be my guess. I've been there. I didn't mention Chastity for somewhere around 20 years. Her prior revulsion and scorn was more than I could risk. I started occasionally wearing ball stretchers, without her knowledge. Then she found out, (ok the weird guy is manifesting himself again) Then she forgot about the stretchers (something I found absolutely inconceivable, but true) rediscovered them, was a bit upset and that led to a mention of chastity devices and somehow here I am locked, she enjoys setting records for denial...So things can change. Good Luck

Re: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

Posted: Thu Oct 08, 2020 6:12 pm
by FindingFun
Well, got knocked out of locktober on account of an appendecotomy.

Re: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

Posted: Thu Oct 08, 2020 8:51 pm
by WifeIsVanilla
I am sorry that you had such an unpleasant experience.

Life has a way of getting in the way of fun. :(

Re: [FindingFun] Back at it...not sure where it's going

Posted: Tue Oct 13, 2020 9:06 pm
by FindingFun
Thank you for the sympathy. Definitely feeling better a week later. Starting to think about getting the cage back on, not sure if there are any risks
WifeIsVanilla wrote: Thu Oct 08, 2020 8:51 pm I am sorry that you had such an unpleasant experience.

Life has a way of getting in the way of fun. :(