[locked_husband] The letter that started it
Posted: Mon Jun 01, 2020 5:59 am
This is the letter I wrote to me wife, about doing it long term.
Dear wife.
Let me start by say how much I love and adore you.
It has taken me a while to give you thia letter. I have always come up with a fairly rubbish excuse to my self, not to give it to you. I was wondering if we could try this again. By this I'm talking about chastity. Please don't stop reading now.
The way for this to work is to change it from a one off. To something a little long. Say a couple of weeks. If it doesn't work it doesn't work.
I want to use it to build a stronger relationship. One where I show you the attention you deserve. Such as not sitting on my phone in the evenings. Its a bad habit I have got into and have thought that maybe this is what is needed to break that habit. Also I am hoping that maybe it will mean we will talk more, with out a argument or me taking something in the wrong way.
Let's shift my focus from me. To we. And prepare for our son. X
It not about a game, that's only for my satisfaction. For me it's about us bonding together as a couple. I want to move away from. Us being playful means sex. Or me doing stuff to gain sex. Let's use it to open up more to each other emotionally listen to each other.
I also don't really like masturbating behind your back. Its disrespectful to you. So this will rid the temptation to do that.
I would rather have sex come second to itamacy with you, rather than have post sex itamacy. This goes with me not bugging you for sex or getting annoyed because we haven't had sex. Moving my focus from me to we and you. To your emotions and supporting you during pregnancy. Also I have noticed and get annoyed at myself that, sex doesn't seem the same. I'm not thinking of your needs. Getting you in the mood. Making sure your comfortable, making sure you feel special and loved. Instead it's just a quick few pumps and it's all over. I want to use to break that cycle and change from just have sex to sharing a itmat3 and special connection.
Maybe in 2 weeks, we will be a stronger couple, able to connect more emotionally with each other.
If you would like to try this then keep the key in the envelope. If not give me the key when I get home from work.
Now 8 days in and going stong
Dear wife.
Let me start by say how much I love and adore you.
It has taken me a while to give you thia letter. I have always come up with a fairly rubbish excuse to my self, not to give it to you. I was wondering if we could try this again. By this I'm talking about chastity. Please don't stop reading now.
The way for this to work is to change it from a one off. To something a little long. Say a couple of weeks. If it doesn't work it doesn't work.
I want to use it to build a stronger relationship. One where I show you the attention you deserve. Such as not sitting on my phone in the evenings. Its a bad habit I have got into and have thought that maybe this is what is needed to break that habit. Also I am hoping that maybe it will mean we will talk more, with out a argument or me taking something in the wrong way.
Let's shift my focus from me. To we. And prepare for our son. X
It not about a game, that's only for my satisfaction. For me it's about us bonding together as a couple. I want to move away from. Us being playful means sex. Or me doing stuff to gain sex. Let's use it to open up more to each other emotionally listen to each other.
I also don't really like masturbating behind your back. Its disrespectful to you. So this will rid the temptation to do that.
I would rather have sex come second to itamacy with you, rather than have post sex itamacy. This goes with me not bugging you for sex or getting annoyed because we haven't had sex. Moving my focus from me to we and you. To your emotions and supporting you during pregnancy. Also I have noticed and get annoyed at myself that, sex doesn't seem the same. I'm not thinking of your needs. Getting you in the mood. Making sure your comfortable, making sure you feel special and loved. Instead it's just a quick few pumps and it's all over. I want to use to break that cycle and change from just have sex to sharing a itmat3 and special connection.
Maybe in 2 weeks, we will be a stronger couple, able to connect more emotionally with each other.
If you would like to try this then keep the key in the envelope. If not give me the key when I get home from work.
Now 8 days in and going stong