[Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
Posted: Tue Nov 19, 2019 4:05 pm
[Mr Pickle] one step forwards, two steps back
Changed my intro. Too much information.
This journey covers four years (so far) from a kink in my head to an insanely better life for the whole family.
Yes it's about cock cages and sex and how it comes about etc. But more importantly how C my wife changes, and how it enables her to make these changes to a much better life (as a result of the cage).
married with kids.
now married 19 years to a most wonderful wonderful woman whom due to religious upbringing was a bit wary about this stuff or kinks in general,
but seemed to catch on pretty fast once things got going.
I on the other hand had a different background.
Lots of one night stands. Short relationships and so on. By twenty I'd dated a woman twice my age, danced on tables for hen parties and danced on stage naked (comedy chipedale/balloon dance type of thing)
I was lucky enough to be fit and decently proportioned so my first paying job was a kiss a gram. party entertainer and table dancer.
I had a bit of history.
Now after 15 years of marriage sex was still good. always. on tap. my wife wants me to feel satisfied and seems happier if we have sex regular. even if it's a hand job.
but I'm starting to not rise to the occasion. or lose it while in the act. my usual answer is to try to spice it up a bit. new toy. new kink ect.
my wife does not like me having toys or gadgets at all.
She doesnt like anything new.
its competition or an alternative to her. Although she does have a few toys of her own that I've introduced over the years and she likes them. . oh yes. a lot more now.
I dont mind obviously. I'm pretty lucky in the erection catagory at just under 8" so I'm not at all intimidated by them. in fact I introduced them as a part of spicing up.
Saying C was strictly vanilla wouldn't be fair. Its more bound by our lifestyle (yes we have kids) so as much as we would.. spontaneous over the table isn't an option. Spontaneity isn't an option at all.
And. Yes it becomes a bit tedious. No matter what you do. Do it often and it just isn't as exciting.
My wife.. she is My exciting! My porn. My pasion. My mision. I want to keep it that way
My wife thinks everything is perfect and there is no need for change.
As a rule any attempt to introduce a sexual topic is cut off abruptly and will not be tolerated.
So new games for the bedroom is usually my goal.
And I have to be inventive. I also have to do a whole lot of shit shovelling.
Thank God she loves me regardless.
This is the intro to my journey. Its back dated as I started my notes in june 2019 but will eventually got up to date.
Yes I've fucked up. Yes advice was needed. But what is done cannot be undone.
Feel free to be outraged. At this time my apologies have already been made and debts being paid.
So here we go. Down the rabbit hole.
2019. in sunny Wales. everyone is happy and weekend holidays have begun. A perfect time to bring up a new idea
so I start with.. " hey honey. Ive seen this interesting thing thst might help me in certain ways...and I'm cut off with "if it's anything about your penis or kinky wierd stuff the answer is NO! I don't want to know"
ok. expected I supose so now I know where I stand.
Over the years I've added all sorts of minor kinks which are now just normal but I've always had to use the back door or a round about way to get them in. so I figured I'll get one anyway figure it out and then find a way to introduce it.
Changed my intro. Too much information.
This journey covers four years (so far) from a kink in my head to an insanely better life for the whole family.
Yes it's about cock cages and sex and how it comes about etc. But more importantly how C my wife changes, and how it enables her to make these changes to a much better life (as a result of the cage).
married with kids.
now married 19 years to a most wonderful wonderful woman whom due to religious upbringing was a bit wary about this stuff or kinks in general,
but seemed to catch on pretty fast once things got going.
I on the other hand had a different background.
Lots of one night stands. Short relationships and so on. By twenty I'd dated a woman twice my age, danced on tables for hen parties and danced on stage naked (comedy chipedale/balloon dance type of thing)
I was lucky enough to be fit and decently proportioned so my first paying job was a kiss a gram. party entertainer and table dancer.
I had a bit of history.
Now after 15 years of marriage sex was still good. always. on tap. my wife wants me to feel satisfied and seems happier if we have sex regular. even if it's a hand job.
but I'm starting to not rise to the occasion. or lose it while in the act. my usual answer is to try to spice it up a bit. new toy. new kink ect.
my wife does not like me having toys or gadgets at all.
She doesnt like anything new.
its competition or an alternative to her. Although she does have a few toys of her own that I've introduced over the years and she likes them. . oh yes. a lot more now.
I dont mind obviously. I'm pretty lucky in the erection catagory at just under 8" so I'm not at all intimidated by them. in fact I introduced them as a part of spicing up.
Saying C was strictly vanilla wouldn't be fair. Its more bound by our lifestyle (yes we have kids) so as much as we would.. spontaneous over the table isn't an option. Spontaneity isn't an option at all.
And. Yes it becomes a bit tedious. No matter what you do. Do it often and it just isn't as exciting.
My wife.. she is My exciting! My porn. My pasion. My mision. I want to keep it that way
My wife thinks everything is perfect and there is no need for change.
As a rule any attempt to introduce a sexual topic is cut off abruptly and will not be tolerated.
So new games for the bedroom is usually my goal.
And I have to be inventive. I also have to do a whole lot of shit shovelling.
Thank God she loves me regardless.
This is the intro to my journey. Its back dated as I started my notes in june 2019 but will eventually got up to date.
Yes I've fucked up. Yes advice was needed. But what is done cannot be undone.
Feel free to be outraged. At this time my apologies have already been made and debts being paid.
So here we go. Down the rabbit hole.
2019. in sunny Wales. everyone is happy and weekend holidays have begun. A perfect time to bring up a new idea
so I start with.. " hey honey. Ive seen this interesting thing thst might help me in certain ways...and I'm cut off with "if it's anything about your penis or kinky wierd stuff the answer is NO! I don't want to know"
ok. expected I supose so now I know where I stand.
Over the years I've added all sorts of minor kinks which are now just normal but I've always had to use the back door or a round about way to get them in. so I figured I'll get one anyway figure it out and then find a way to introduce it.