This is my first, and most likely, my last post in "The Journey." Still I am amazed since I never expected to post here at all.
As my screen name indicates, my otherwise wonderful wife of 40 years simply will not play. In the early years of our marriage, she was somewhat adventurous, but chastity devices were not invented at that time, so that opportunity was lost. She has steadily evolved into pretty much pure vanilla.
She wants nothing to do with male chastity, and believe me, in the 8 years I have been playing with MC, I have tried ALL of the suggestions ever made in these forums. On the other hand, she has let me know that she doesn't care if I use chastity devices, just not to bother her with any aspect of it. Disappointing, but what-a-ya-gonna-do? She is an otherwise wonder wife of 40 years and the love of my life.
The only form of tease and denial I have experienced is perusing porn, using nipple clips, etc while locked with the keys in my Kitchen Safe.
My wife likes to put lotion on her legs after she showers, but as she is getting a little older and less flexible, she was complaining that it was getting harder to do, so I offered to do it for her. She said yes.
We have a large walk in, doorless shower. After her shower, she stood in the doorway while I got on my knees and then slowly applied lotion to her feet and legs, massaging her feet, calves, and thighs as I went, brushing against her pubic hair and vulva as I did her upper thighs
After I did this, still on my knees, I said, "As payment, I would like to kiss your butt." To my amazement, and without saying a word, she turned around presenting me with her still very attractive butt. I slowly planted 3 long, loving kisses on each cheek. My Jail Bird was super tight throughout this process.
This is now firmly entrenched as part of our daily routine, and it works very well as tease and denial since afterward, both of us then go about the rest of our day.
Yes, I know. It's super lame compared to what many of you guys experience, but for me it is a giant leap from where I was and is absolutely wonderful!
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