It's been almost a month since my last update here. We took a small break in early Jan due to my KH having a small elective operation that laid her up for a week or so. But aside from that we're still very much on board with chastity. While I was unlocked for most of her recovery time I tried to maintain my no cum without permission pledge. She encouraged me to masturbate should I require to do so. Which I did a couple of times alright.
During this time I also ordered a second smaller steel cage. It's an a273-1 device. Very comfortable and does not really allow much room for growth but its a lot lighter than my jailbird clone and it looks good too.
We've also began using a wheel of fortune type app to decide on the length of lock ups. My wife likes this as it takes the pressure off her to decide on a length of time for lock up and it's more exact than the dice rolling game we had been using. At the moment I'm 2 days into a possible 10 day lock up. She has said she may allow me out at her discretion. I'm cool with that!
We've been having lots of fun and our play has started getting really kinky. I used a dildo on her for the first time last weekend and while I think she prefers the real deal inside her she came quiet loudly with it in her. Our wand is getting lots of use too. It's out almost every night now. She's also taken to basically torturing my nipples when we're in bed or when I'm pleasuring her. Which she knows drives me wild. She has begun to like sitting on my face and grinding until she cums. This drives me absolutely insane. I suggested this morning that I use a strap on on her sometime. While she didn't jump around with delight, she didn't come out and say no either. One for the future
We went away for a night last weekend and stayed in a fancy hotel. Lots of fun during the night!
It was also the first time that I was consistently naked around her while locked. I found this very horny. She gave me lots of little glances and smiled frequently
Outside of the bedroom she has started writing me up a list of chores that she requires to be done. At present it's happening maybe twice a week but it's a fantastic start. I get hard when I get home from work and there's a list pinned to the fridge.
We've also began discussing rules and regulations around my behaviour and what she expects from me. We've complied a verbal list at the moment that consists of
1. Always do as she says
2. No back answering
3. A minimum of 5 orgasms a week for her
4. A minimum of 2 full body massages a week for her
5. I have to compliment her at least once a day
Failure to do any of the above will result in me being punished. The punishment hasn't been specified yet but spanking has been mentioned. Although she said I'd probably enjoy that too much. I'm hoping we can get these rules written down and develop some kind of a contract.
I've gently suggested this but she's a bit hesitant to go to that level. I'll just let it sit with her now and hopefully she can take ownership of it in time.
She must be taking on board a lot of what Lucy Fairbourne has wrote in her book as when I said I might try a few runs with the cage on she swiftly said no way was she allowing that and that Lucy Fairbourne explicitly says not to exercise with a device on. Who am I too argue with that.
My main issue at the moment is ball burn at night. At this point I'm waking at least 3 times a night with a sharp pain at the base of my scrotum. A quick trip to the loo solves it but it's just the inconvenience of it really that's annoying.
Apart from that the device is extremely comfortable. For the most part I don't even know I have it on and when I do realise it I find myself straining to get hard.
Another issue is finding the right underwear. I had traditionally been a tight boxer shorts man but with a 150 gram piece of steel hanging off my cock I needed some support so I have been wearing regular briefs. While these are better than boxers I still need some more support down there. Any advice appreciated here?
What a whirlwind few months!