Re: [cshorts] My (our) journey
Posted: Mon Dec 17, 2018 1:45 am
Another milestone today. Since my wife became my KH 4 weeks ago we've had our regular Sunday morning intercourse as she desired. I told her when she consented to give chastity a try that I hoped she would sometimes deny me orgasms. She's kept me locked 24x7 except for the Sunday morning playtime, but has told me to have an orgasm each time with PIV.
She hasn't seemed very interested or engaged in chastity so far. Tolerant, but hasn't wanted to talk or read about it. I gave her Male Chastity: A Guide For Keyholders but she said she wasn't ready to look at it yet, maybe in January (after she finishes the novels for her annual reading challenge). From my reading here and elsewhere I appreciated te importance of patience -- if I want this to be long-term, I should be willing to wait -- so haven't pushed her at all. Just being attentive around the house, pleasuring her more than she's used to, foot rubs, etc.
This morning, after a long foreplay session (with multiple orgasms for her), she climbed on top of me and rode herself to several more (with the always fun assistance of her Hitachi). A couple of her O's were extra special powerful, and after a bit she just seemed played out. And so she climbed of, snuggled up with me, put on an evil smile and said "not for you today, dear." Swoon! I was extremely turned on by then, my cock throbbing and aching for release, but I was thrilled to realize SL was going to deny me. And was genuinely enjoying it. As we lay there together and I kept twitching and rubbing myself against her leg (hmmm, maybe this is where the expression "horndog" came from?) she laughed at me some, and teased me some more, twisting my nipples and squeezing my ass.
I've been on cloud nine all day. (Also horny as all get out!) She said she had a great time having sex despite my not orgasming, and enjoyed watching the frustration and desire on my face instead of the grimacing and release that she sees when I orgasm. I feel like today was our first day of really being into the T&D part of this together, and that it was a big success on both sides. Really looking forward to seeing where we go now.
She hasn't seemed very interested or engaged in chastity so far. Tolerant, but hasn't wanted to talk or read about it. I gave her Male Chastity: A Guide For Keyholders but she said she wasn't ready to look at it yet, maybe in January (after she finishes the novels for her annual reading challenge). From my reading here and elsewhere I appreciated te importance of patience -- if I want this to be long-term, I should be willing to wait -- so haven't pushed her at all. Just being attentive around the house, pleasuring her more than she's used to, foot rubs, etc.
This morning, after a long foreplay session (with multiple orgasms for her), she climbed on top of me and rode herself to several more (with the always fun assistance of her Hitachi). A couple of her O's were extra special powerful, and after a bit she just seemed played out. And so she climbed of, snuggled up with me, put on an evil smile and said "not for you today, dear." Swoon! I was extremely turned on by then, my cock throbbing and aching for release, but I was thrilled to realize SL was going to deny me. And was genuinely enjoying it. As we lay there together and I kept twitching and rubbing myself against her leg (hmmm, maybe this is where the expression "horndog" came from?) she laughed at me some, and teased me some more, twisting my nipples and squeezing my ass.
I've been on cloud nine all day. (Also horny as all get out!) She said she had a great time having sex despite my not orgasming, and enjoyed watching the frustration and desire on my face instead of the grimacing and release that she sees when I orgasm. I feel like today was our first day of really being into the T&D part of this together, and that it was a big success on both sides. Really looking forward to seeing where we go now.