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Interesting and fun night Friday night. We are going through a year long mentoring program dealing with the D/s lifestyle. Each month we meet individually with a different mentor to discuss an aspect of the lifestyle. Her focus is on the Dominate side while I meet with mentors on submissive subjects. M'Lady's mentor this month had two areas she liked to teach, rope play and candle/wax play. Because of the Covid situation almost all meetings are being done via Zoom. Last night M'Lady was working with her mentor in the bedroom and I was only allowed in when she needed me as a prop to try something. For the occasion I was told to dress in a pair of sheer breakaway bikini underwear and a see through shirt that is one of M'Lady's favorites. Knowing I would be 'on display' added to the excitement and anticipation. The last time I was summoned I was told to take off my shirt and lie face down. Practicing her newly taught skills I was soon tied spread eagle. Trust me, she learn those knots well! After a brief period with me alone in the room, save Miss Lee watching me via zoom, when my son dropped by to return our steam cleaner the fun continued. Using a candle she had made earlier in the day M'Lady proceeded to cover much of my back, upper arms and thighs with hot wax. Then she reached under me to open the snaps and remove the last vestige of modesty I had on. Now my ass and balls were fair game and she took full advantage. I have pictures from a different angle but I didn't want to post them. My introduction to wax play was erotic as hell and M'Lady promised there will be a next time where she will use colored candles to create patterns with the wax.
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If you have never tried wax play I highly recommend it with a few warnings/suggestions. First, make sure you have the right kind of candles.
Normal household candles have too high a melting point and can cause burns to the skin. Smaller diameter candles work best and there are candles sold specifically for wax play. Cover the area under the recipient with a sheet that you don't care about, wax will get on the surrounding area. Either read up on the subject or find a mentor to take you through it the first time. The candle M'Lady used was pure paraffin and white. The grey color of the wax was from the soot of the flame contaminating the melted wax as she tilted the candle to pour it.

As I said in my last posting, I was uncaged before EMS arrived the night of my heart attack and I am still unlocked. I had finally got the new pool liner installed and filled the day before but I was restricted from getting the catheter entry site soaked for a week. Yesterday afternoon the new pool got 'christened' with Kitten having 2 orgasms and me having none! That was my decision as she had given me permission. Last night, actually about 2:00 this morning, she was snuggled up with me and started to play with my nipples and cock. I was told to get naked (All I had on was a thong.) and take a Viagra. After it had taken effect Kitten broke out her remote control cock ring and proceeded to tease me with it. This went to a modified missionary position with no penetration and the vibrator pressed against her clit. She had two big orgasms this way before I entered her and had then had at least 3 more from PIV. I had to slow down several times to keep from going over the edge, sometimes stopping deep inside her so the vibrator was pressed against her. The combination of her warm pussy wrapped around me and the constant vibration at the base of my cock finally pushed me past the point of no return. I tried to stop again but it was too late and I came harder than I have in a long time! It seemed my cock would never stop throbbing and pulsing.

I fully expect my days of freedom will end today. It is her decision but considering how I have been reacting to thinking and writing about these last few days, she isn't going to have an easy time of getting the cage on.

Damn, I love that woman!
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I fully expect my days of freedom will end today.
After his PIV time last night I wished him a happy anniversary (it's on 9/15) and told him this won't happen again for quite a while. I locked him back up this morning.

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Yep, I was right on both counts. The cage went on yesterday morning AND she had a 'hard' time getting it on! The count starts again...2 days locked, 3 days since my last orgasm. The records stand at 181/190. That would mean skipping past our anniversary, Christmas, New Years, and Valentine's Day. My birthday comes in March....maybe I will too! :o :roll:
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My birthday comes in March....maybe I will too!
Don't count on it my love. 72 is not a milestone event, but 75 is.
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Kitten wrote: Wed Sep 02, 2020 12:55 pm
My birthday comes in March....maybe I will too!
Don't count on it my love. 72 is not a milestone event, but 75 is.
:o :roll: :?
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I had my first follow up with the cardiologist last week. When I first got out of the hospital after the heart attack I felt better than I had in a long time. I have been on oxygen since the flu/pneumonia bout in February but had almost weened myself off it. By the end of last week my breathing had gotten worse than it had ever been. Sometimes just walking halfway across the house had me so winded that I had to sit down and I could forget about trying to lift or carry anything heavier than a glass of water. The only other problem was that I bruised if I even thought about bumping into something. The doctor said both were side effects of the heart medicine he had me on. It is a blood thinner so I knew bruising would be a problem. He changed me to a different blood thinner and the change was almost immediate with my breathing. I have to really exert my self to get short of breath now. A couple of days ago I did some cleaning and rearranging on the back porch that involved moving a universal gym and a recumbent bike. Rocking them over to put sliders under them and the only problem was a little bit with my back. The bruising I'm just going to have to deal with.

Good news is that he said I would probably only need to be on the thinner for about 6 months. :D After that it will just be a low dose aspirin every day. Bad news is that I can't use my breathing as an excuse to avoid my chores. :roll: :(

I'm starting to slowly but surely get the property cleaned up. I'm hoping this last spell of rain was enough for the burn ban to get lifted for a little while. My outside focus this week will be to get a couple of areas cleaned up so I can burn off some brush that is piled up.

To keep in the spirit of the forum, sex was enough to have me breathing hard and not in a good way. Can't wait to give M'Lady some oral service to make sure I can go awhile for her pleasure! :P :twisted:
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It's been a month since my last post and a lot has happened. My cardiologist ordered an abdominal ultra sound as a precaution to check for aneurysms. I got a call yesterday saying everything was negative.

M'Lady's pulmonologist wanted her to see a cardiologist as a precaution due to family history. She had her first appointment at the same time as my follow up and he ordered a couple of tests for her. She goes back on the 15th but, since Dr. Solomon's nurse called me with the results of my test, I feel certain that if there was a problem they would have called to bring her in sooner.

We are still plugging away at the clean up of the house and property with a little help. My boys are helping when they can and I ran a couple of ads on Fetlife for some assistance. We've had 4 responses of offers of help. One was going to help me replace the deck on my shop but thought I was in Austin and said it was to far for him to drive. Of the other 3, one came to the house to talk with us but his work schedule has stopped him from helping so far. Another one is having similar problems with his schedule but both of them seem sincere in the offers and will help us out as time allows. The last one showed up a few days ago with his chain saws and spent several hours cutting up the Ash that blew down a couple of years ago, did a lot of trimming on the other Ash and felled a Mimosa that was dying.

A week or so ago two of the 'boys' that live down the street came by asking if we had seen their dog. I called them boys but they are probably both in their mid 30's. Talking to them they said they would be glad to help us anytime we needed them. Yesterday they came over , cleaned up and stacked the cuttings from the Mimosa nd all the trimmings from the Ash so I can burn them dry stuff or run the green trimmings through the chipper. That brings up another good thing that happened. I bought the chipper/shredder before I retired so it has been sitting without being started for over 6 years. I was planning on having to do some tune up work to get it running but with one shot of starter fluid it fired up with the bit of old gas still in the tank. I gassed it up and it's running like a new machine!


Now to get off the mundane crap and something more interesting. Mistress unlocked me the day before our anniversary. We got a room in a local motel just to get away from all the mess around here for a couple of days. We still came by the house to take care of the animals but it was a chance to spend some quiet time away from all the mess, soak in the in room jacuzzi and play. I was given permission to climax on our anniversary during PIV and she surprised me again with PIV and allowing me to finish on the 20th before I was locked back up on the 21st. A bigger surprise was that during the last time I at one point was holding her arms pinned above her head and Mistress tole me I could restrain her if I wanted to. She doesn't like being bound and I only thought about it for a few seconds before deciding against it. A week free from the Jail Bird, allowed to cum twice but now back under M'Lady's lock and key. How could life get any better?
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I thought that last post was getting a bit too long winded. Let me continue for your entertainment...

As I said, my Mistress locked her property up on the 21st of September after allowing a week of freedom. I suspect this time freedom is going to be a loooonnnngggg time coming, pun intended. The reason I think so is as follows.

In a thread asking for advice strap on sex I talked about how she hasn't really been enthusiastic about the idea. That has changed. Last week she said she wanted to try again. This time I warmed the dildo up in hot water and used plenty of lube as everyone suggested. She loved it and came multiple times between me giving her oral and using the warmed up dildo. That was done with the dildo in my hand but we have a good harness that I'm sure is soon to see some extensive use. I also told Kitten that almost everyone, men and women, said the VixSkin models are the best made. After some looking at their website she has decided my next major purchase will be a Goodffella model. I believe sex as I know it is about to change drastically!

One more new surprise from my wonderful wife. after the responses to the ads I put on Fetlife she has been considering taking on a second slave. Of the 2 men she has met so far one is brand new to the kink world, still trying to figure out what he wants and she doesn't feel the right connection to him. She did offer to help mentor him as he explores. The other one that we met neither of us got the impression he is really sub. He said he is a switch but we both got the impression he is much more dominate. we haven't had a chance to meet the last of the volunteers so he may be a possibility.

Writing in my journal that she has me keep I suggested she might write an ad on one of the local Femdom groups detailing what she wants and would expect from a sub. I don't know how serious she is or how it will play out if she follows through. It could be just a way of teasing me but, if not, things could be interesting. Like I have said before, M'Lady never ceases to surprise me!

God I love that woman!
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Another significant event has happened in the last month. Kitten has extreme pain from back problems. Bad enough that she can't walk more than a few feet without using a walker or, at the minimum, a cane and she has to take morphine to control the pain. Not to long ago she asked her pain management doctor about spinal cord stimulators. he told her she was a perfect candidate for it and last month insurance approved the procedure. A temporary implant is done for 5 days to test the results. The doctor told her the average is about 80% relief. She puts the relief at between 90% qne 95%, almost completely pain free. She was able to move and do things she hadn't been able to do in several years. She is scheduled to have a permanent stimulator implant done on the 14th.

Clear the dance floor kids, We're back! :D
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Things are quiet on the home front these days. M'Lady had the spinal cord stimulator implant done last Wednesday as scheduled. On the up side she should be almost pain free after the recovery period. We are already talking about being able to dance more than just the slow songs. We cleared more than a few dance floors with a jitterbug when we were younger. Doubt we will do it now but it will be wonderful to dance that way again. Bad part is the recovery is 4-6 weeks with severe limits on bending, twisting or lifting. That also eliminates all sexual activities just when she decided she liked the use of a dildo and harness. It also looks like this lock up period will be a minimum of 7 1/2 weeks or, at the full 6 weeks for recovery, 9 1/2 weeks. I'll save all the readers the math...that's 66.5 days, nowhere near my longest but there's also no guarantee of my wonderful Mistress showing me any compassion or mercy when that time comes. We will have the new Vixskin by then and, along with other ways of satisfaction she likes, it may be that my being unlocked for her pleasure isn't necessary.
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