[LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

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Performance Anxiety?

Since the last time I wrote we've talked in bed a couple of times. Usually it's in the morning when I'm snuggled up against her and I say something like "I really want to make love to you. This is driving me crazy!" And then she asks me "And whose idea was this anyway?" I tell the truth and answer that it was my idea. So then she asks "And why did you do this?" And again I tell the truth and say it's because I like her teasing me, but even more because I want her to be happy. And I ask her "Does it make you happy being in total control of our sex life?" And she says "Yes." So I tell her the truth again: that it makes me happy if she is happy. And I thank her for keeping me chaste and preventing me from playing with myself.

She has a rule that I cannot directly ask to be unlocked, unless it's for TSA, doctor's appointment, or something similar. Earlier this week I ventured a question that almost breaks her rule. I asked "Hypothetically, if I were released sometime in the future so I could make love to you, would you have me lock up again immediately afterward?"

She replied "It depends on your performance."

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Anxious

It's been over 9 weeks now since I was out and had PiV sex. I've never gone this long locked 24x7. I was begging last week. It surprised even me. She was so cool about it. She simply smiled and asked me "Who's idea was this?" I was hoping I'd be out for Father's Day. No such luck. I'm in uncharted territory with no idea of when I'll reach the intended harbor. But I think I'm OK today... getting used to the idea that my formerly vanilla wife might not unlock me for a few more weeks... She really seems to be enjoying my predicament, and the extra housework done.

Maybe, if I'm lucky, it will only be a few more weeks...
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Back in Again

Well, shortly after the last post I was let out. She wanted PiV. She got it. After being locked up for just over two months having sex was mind blowing. It really felt like my mind almost turned off...

Now here it is, October, and I will remain locked until at least November. This lock-up started on August 27, so I've got six weeks under my belt, with at least another three weeks (from today) to go. The first few weeks I really craved an orgasm. Now I'm more comfortable with the situation. In fact, I think when November comes up I may start a discussion with her about how she feels about having control over me. I would like to let her know that I'm OK with her getting all the benefits she wants as long as I get the denial.

The only time I'm really frustrated is when she plays with my locked equipment almost every morning. She does likes the extra attention I'm giving her. And she allows, and even initiates, the hugs and kisses more these days... since she knows it's not leading up to a request for sex. She's also had quite a few more projects around the house she's thought up for me to attend to, like fixing up shelving in the basement, and installing new lighting fixtures. I believe my vanilla wife has gotten more comfortable with the control she has over me.

Last week we were lying in bed discussing my predicament and possible long-term problems. I told her about prostate health, and that a release of fluid should be done at least every two months... but since I was leaking at least once a week that didn't seem to be a problem. She replied "Well, I guess that means I can keep you locked indefinitely."

Gulp.
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Prediction Becomes Predicament

The last four times I've been locked in the cage it's been 24/7 for weeks, specifically: 8+ weeks, 8+ weeks, 9+ weeks, and 9+ weeks. She has sole discretion of when I'm unlocked, and it has always been because she wants me. Well this week, because of a trip I was on that got extended, I went 10+ weeks. My wife and keyholder very rarely wants PiV on a weekday; it's almost always Saturday morning. The last couple of days I got the definite feeling that this morning would be my lucky day. I was expecting it so much that when I woke up before dawn I went ahead and took a Viagra. Sure enough, when she awoke she started feeling my thigh, feeling higher up, ticking my scrotum, and finally teasing the flesh that squeezed out between the bars of my cage. This went on for a while, driving me crazy.

Then she said "Who asked for this?"

I replied "I did... I did, because now you're never afraid I'm going press you into having sex, so you give me more hugs and kisses. And it always keeps me a little horny, so I always want to please you... You're smiling now, aren't you?"

She "Yes. Now get up and let's get going!"

I thanked her later for giving me "all the sex I'm likely to get for a while."

She just smiled!

So much for my prediction. Instead it's become my predicament.
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Indefinite Future

I totally misjudged my wife. I thought for sure she'd be about "due" for a roll in the hay. She showed no interest at all this three-day weekend. As my last post detailed, previously the longest I've been locked 24/7 has been just over 9 weeks. Today I hit the 11 week mark. What she is now comfortable with is a) my being helpful around the house, b) hugs and kisses, c) teasing my naughty bits through the bars of its cage about 4 times a week, and d) me staying securely locked 24/7.

I guess I really am locked indefinitely... :?
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Maybe!

Today is November 27, which means that I've been locked 24/7 for three months! No release. No erection. No orgasm. This is a month beyond any lock time my formerly vanilla wife has previously given me.

When I hint about possible sex with her on the weekend she replies "Maybe!"
But weekends come and go.
When I ask about sex before Christmas she replies "Maybe!"
Before New Years? "Maybe!"
Valentine's Day? "Maybe!"
You haven't misplaced the keys, have you? "Maybe!"

But she has told me she likes this change in attitude of mine...

BCWYWF
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Finally!

She surprised me last Saturday morning by asking me "would you like to be let out for some fun?"
My answer was a resounding "Yes!"
It didn't take me too long to get completely stiff... we had fun.

Completely locked since the morning of August 27 - 95 days straight - it really changed my attitude towards her.
In addition I was hoping that the lock hadn't gotten gummed up or anything.

Next day I told her she could lock me back up anytime she liked.
She smiled and told me she knew!

So now I'm out for at least a few days. I wonder when, and for how long, I'll be locked next time. :?: BCWYWF
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wondering how things are going with you guys! 100+ days???
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timmyboy38 wrote: Tue Jan 19, 2021 1:08 pm wondering how things are going with you guys! 100+ days???
Thanks for asking timmyboy38.

Wow, haven't followed up for more than an year! Well, just after my last post things got hectic, in a good way. My wife had a great job offer. Since I'm semi-retired and do consulting, I can go anywhere. So we moved back to the Boston area where we first met, or I should say she moved and I spent time getting our house ready for sale. The sale went OK and in February we were together in corporate-paid housing downtown. It was fun, but cramped with both of us and a dog in about 300 square feet. And then Covid really hit. Didn't really do much with chastity since we had so much to do, her with her new job and me trying to find us a place to live.

Once we found a place things settled down a little. I did a couple of short lockups in the late spring and early summer. Then, again in late August one day, I have her the key. That turned out to be a problem a month later. You see, I'd been wearing the same steel cage for a couple of years and I guess I adjusted to it. One day I tried some of my wife's body wash in the shower. That stuff is slick! One of my testicles slipped through the ring... and it hurt! So I had to dry off and ask my wife for the key. I happened to have a smaller ring from an older cage that would fit, so I was unlocked and switched into the smaller ring. After locking back up I returned the key to her and finished getting dressed. That's when she surprised me:

Her: Well, we'll just have to reset the clock.
Me: What do you mean?
Her: Well, if you're going for a record you have to start over.
Me: But that was 30 days!
Her: Awww! Too bad!

Long story short, in early December (again) at around 95 days she let me out. That's 95 days without the 30 I lost, because... she's the boss! So no, I haven't made 100+ yet, but I'm not complaining. She had a lot of fun during Covid having me do the laundry, vacuuming, making the bed, bringing her snacks during the day, and teasing me at night. I've got a doctor's appointment coming up in a month... and I expect after that I'll be back under lock and key: she misses my obedience!
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Wow, thanks for the nice update! I hope both of you will enjoy your new home. And that she will lock you for even longer periods :-).
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