[LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Post by LockedByBD » Tue May 28, 2019 4:51 pm

Performance Anxiety?

Since the last time I wrote we've talked in bed a couple of times. Usually it's in the morning when I'm snuggled up against her and I say something like "I really want to make love to you. This is driving me crazy!" And then she asks me "And whose idea was this anyway?" I tell the truth and answer that it was my idea. So then she asks "And why did you do this?" And again I tell the truth and say it's because I like her teasing me, but even more because I want her to be happy. And I ask her "Does it make you happy being in total control of our sex life?" And she says "Yes." So I tell her the truth again: that it makes me happy if she is happy. And I thank her for keeping me chaste and preventing me from playing with myself.

She has a rule that I cannot directly ask to be unlocked, unless it's for TSA, doctor's appointment, or something similar. Earlier this week I ventured a question that almost breaks her rule. I asked "Hypothetically, if I were released sometime in the future so I could make love to you, would you have me lock up again immediately afterward?"

She replied "It depends on your performance."

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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Post by LockedByBD » Wed Jun 19, 2019 11:17 pm

Anxious

It's been over 9 weeks now since I was out and had PiV sex. I've never gone this long locked 24x7. I was begging last week. It surprised even me. She was so cool about it. She simply smiled and asked me "Who's idea was this?" I was hoping I'd be out for Father's Day. No such luck. I'm in uncharted territory with no idea of when I'll reach the intended harbor. But I think I'm OK today... getting used to the idea that my formerly vanilla wife might not unlock me for a few more weeks... She really seems to be enjoying my predicament, and the extra housework done.

Maybe, if I'm lucky, it will only be a few more weeks...
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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Post by LockedByBD » Fri Oct 11, 2019 2:47 pm

Back in Again

Well, shortly after the last post I was let out. She wanted PiV. She got it. After being locked up for just over two months having sex was mind blowing. It really felt like my mind almost turned off...

Now here it is, October, and I will remain locked until at least November. This lock-up started on August 27, so I've got six weeks under my belt, with at least another three weeks (from today) to go. The first few weeks I really craved an orgasm. Now I'm more comfortable with the situation. In fact, I think when November comes up I may start a discussion with her about how she feels about having control over me. I would like to let her know that I'm OK with her getting all the benefits she wants as long as I get the denial.

The only time I'm really frustrated is when she plays with my locked equipment almost every morning. She does likes the extra attention I'm giving her. And she allows, and even initiates, the hugs and kisses more these days... since she knows it's not leading up to a request for sex. She's also had quite a few more projects around the house she's thought up for me to attend to, like fixing up shelving in the basement, and installing new lighting fixtures. I believe my vanilla wife has gotten more comfortable with the control she has over me.

Last week we were lying in bed discussing my predicament and possible long-term problems. I told her about prostate health, and that a release of fluid should be done at least every two months... but since I was leaking at least once a week that didn't seem to be a problem. She replied "Well, I guess that means I can keep you locked indefinitely."

Gulp.
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