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Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2018 7:01 pm
by LockedByBD
She Left Me Locked

About two weeks ago I asked my wife if she enjoyed having me locked in chastity. Of course she said yes. When I then asked if she wanted to play again she was reluctant to play until after the holidays. She's worried that our game might interfere with my relatives who will be coming to our house this year. So, remembering a post someone wrote about slightly altering what she said in a positive manner I began to agree with her... but with a twist. A few days later I mentioned being prohibited by her from wearing the cage before Christmas, but putting it on sometime afterwards. A few days after that, telling her I knew she strictly prohibited me from wearing the cage before Christmas, but I had to put it on after. Then it became she required me to put it on right after.

Well yesterday, after the relatives had left, I was unceremoniously locked in. Today I dropped her off at the airport so she could visit her relatives. She took the key. So far I got what I wanted, however... last time she kept me locked for two months.

I wonder what I started.

Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Thu Jan 03, 2019 8:50 am
by LockedByBD
She's Cool With It

It's been over a week now locked 24/7. Twice since she's been back from her trip I've asked her if she's enjoying our game. She smiles and says yes.

I haven't told her yet, but this year I actually made a New Year's resolution: in 2019 I will not directly ask her to be unlocked... unless, of course, she requires me to beg for it! The closest I can come to asking is to tell her when I have a doctor's appointment, airline flight, or similar. I will probably tell her of my resolution this Saturday morning.

Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2019 5:32 pm
by LockedByBD
New Year's Resolution

My wonderful wife has made a lot of progress in the last three years, from being turned off by my chastity fantasy, to putting up with it, to now. It had been a couple of weeks since I came PiV, and 10 days since I was locked 24/7. I have no idea how long she will keep me locked this year. The last time I was locked it was two months long. Now I have no way of finding out how long...

So the other night after we went to bed I went and told her of my New Year's Resolution. Here it is from my last post:
I will not directly ask her to be unlocked... unless, of course, she requires me to beg for it! The closest I can come to asking is to tell her when I have a doctor's appointment, airline flight, or similar.
She thought about it for a few seconds and then said "Good!" rolled over and went to sleep!

Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Fri Jan 11, 2019 12:22 am
by LockedByBD
Our Wives Put Up With A Lot!

So it's over two weeks now that I've been locked 24/7 and it's starting to get to me. I want to cuddle much more now. So the other night as I came to bed I jokingly asked my wife if I could sleep next to her.

She replied "As long as there's no inappropriate groping."

I told her I would only grope appropriately!
We had a good laugh... then she took my hands off her body!

Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2019 3:39 pm
by LockedByBD
Where is this going?

Yesterday morning, lying in bed, the denial was starting to get to me. But I remembered something I'd heard about sales: always get the customer to say yes, thus reinforcing your sale. I thought I'd use the opposite tack and see if she might say no to me. The conversation with my wife, as she woke up, went something like this...

"Do you realize it's been three weeks today since I've had any sexual satisfaction? I'm really frustrated. The only satisfaction I get now is doing nice things to make you happy. Don't you think that foolishness needs to stop?"
"Not really."
"But you're probably dying for hot passionate sex!"
"Wait a minute... you mean to say you don't have any date, any plan in mind to unlock me?"
She laughs and smiles.

I thought I'd use a little reverse psychology to pull a mind game on her. Yesterday I thought somehow I "won" that conversation.

But... maybe that's what she already thought.
But maybe she's been enjoying this all along and just hadn't told me.
Maybe she's finally enjoying teasing me, making me groan, wrapping me around her little finger.

Yesterday I was pretty proud of myself. I got what I wanted.
Today I'm thinking she really doesn't want to unlock me. I really am stuck in this thing!
The mind game was on me... I've been played! Congratulations sucker: you got what you wanted!

Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Fri Feb 01, 2019 10:08 am
by LockedByBD
Unlimited Denial

It's been 40 days of no orgasm for me, most of that locked 24/7. This is how the conversation went this morning when we woke up and I held her in my arms:

Me: "This is driving me crazy beyond my limit."
Her: "And what limits are there?"
Me, reluctantly: "There are no limits."
Her: "And who set that condition?"
Me: "I did."
Her: "Live with it."


Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Sun Feb 03, 2019 2:33 pm
by LockedByBD
My Big Mouth

It's been 6 weeks with no sex. Still, we've been having a great weekend: shopping, dinner out last night, saw a play, generally just enjoying each other's company. She teased me a bit this morning before we got out of bed. Later in the day I was verbally teasing her. After a short while she got quiet and said "You know, some guys are just slow to learn and get a week added to their lockup time!" Then she smiled at me.

It's amazing what a few choice words can do to one's attitude. I apologized. I admitted that I'm a slow learner. We laughed together, but she made it clear: the extra week stays. She has really taken to this "game" we play.

Later in the day we discussed time off from work we both may have and my upcoming yearly checkup. She wondered what it would be like if I went to my doctor caged, "It wouldn't do any harm. The doctor isn't supposed to shame you ... professional ethics and all that. But you would have a very dark shade of red on your face." She obviously liked the idea: she was smiling as she told me this.

I have to wonder how much of a game this really is! Her suggestions are going beyond my comfort zone.

Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2019 10:49 am
by LockedByBD
Her Pleasure

So it's been two weeks since I've posted and nothing much has changed for me. I'm still locked 24/7. She still teases me most mornings while I'm locked and tells me that's all the sex I'm getting. The only thing that's changed is her work schedule. She has a huge project going that has her working some on weekends. She says that if and when she gets her final project approval we might celebrate. She's not telling me what "celebrate" means though. She also says that final approval might come from the higher ups "any day now!" She's been telling me that for two weeks.

My record is 61 days without. This Thursday morning it will be 61 days again.
She's enjoying my frustration. She's telling me to "live with it." :shock:
What choice do I have?! I choose to keep her happy: that's my choice. :P

Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Fri Apr 19, 2019 11:32 pm
by LockedByBD
Here we go again...

Well, my last post was two months ago. As it turned out I was again locked for exactly 61 days. Her big project finally finished and she could go in late for a few days. That Thursday morning she unlocked me and demanded sex. Wow. After two months the feeling blows your mind.

Now, after coming home from a business trip, she agreed I could lock up again. Monday morning the cage went back on. By Thursday morning I was craving her. I now get plenty of hugs, and maybe in the morning she will play with my equipment: her definition of sex for me. The other day before heading off to work she held the cage and its contents in her hand and said "That's a nice little package." She is happy, so I am happy too!

Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again

Posted: Thu May 16, 2019 12:24 pm
by LockedByBD

Today marks 31 days I've been locked in chastity 24/7. A little longer than that since my last orgasm.

I'm not allowed to ask when I'll be let out, and she has responded to all my hints with comments like "I think you can last another day." She likes my attentiveness. She likes having control of all aspects of our sex: who, when, and how. She seems very content with the way things are. She smiles a lot.

The last two times we played with chastity it lasted for 61 days each time. That would seem to indicate I'm at the halfway mark. But this time it feels different: not a single question or concern about how I'm handling it. She knows how I'm handling it... her teasing is driving me crazy. She occasionally reminds me that this was my idea, and then she smiles. She gives me all the hugs and kisses and snuggles in bed I want. She enjoys that attention now. For her everything is simple: all she has to do is keep the key hidden.

We're scheduled to talk about how things are going this weekend. Basically we will make sure we are both comfortable with the current arrangement. Or, more correctly, if she is comfortable and if I am not physically or mentally harmed. (I'm not, I'm just obsessed with my beautiful wife and the possibility I will be allowed to have sex with her in the next month or two... or three.) It is possible that my being locked 24/7 will be my/our new normal. If she likes that idea I'll probably be able to count on one hand the number of orgasms I'll be allowed in the next 12 months.

I think she understands now that I want her to have this control, to be able to frustrate me. I think she knows I'll let her push this as far as she wants. When I tell her I want to throw her on the bed and take her clothes off, she replies "And then what would you do? What could you do? So sad!"