Re: [LockedByBD] Locked in a Cage Again
Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2018 7:49 pm
Serious Discussion
Last Saturday morning, lying in bed after we slept in, I started a discussion with my sweetheart about the state of our sex lives. I wanted to know if she really liked having me locked in steel. She does. She likes the control of how and when, and the total lack of pressure to have sex. Like a lot of couples, she has a lot lower sex drive than I do. I told her about how I get to hug her more, kiss her more, snuggle on the couch with her more, all without her shying away because she thinks I just want sex. With her in charge of the key (which I haven't seen for a while) there's no pressure. For me, even though I don't get to make love to my wife anywhere near as often, I get to be closer to her all the time. Even her sexual teasing of me in the morning (practically every morning) is a plus. It's what she defines as sex for me now. The consensus: we both agreed that our sex lives are better than they have been for years.
After our discussion she asked me about plans for this week. I told her what I wanted for this coming weekend and she interrupted me. She said "What was it you said? What were those first two words?" I had said "I want..." I knew what she was getting at, and quickly changed my tune. You see, it's been since September 4 that I've been in almost continual lockup... and the "hearing aid" I'm wearing on my privates is really getting good! So I promptly apologized, took back my suggestions, and proposed a few things she might enjoy more. She smiled, but denied me the little "sex" I usually get (her teasing me around the bars of the cage). She sent me off to warm up the shower instead.
I've been sentenced to a strict LOctober this year. As I mentioned, we started this lockup on September 4, but I had some problems with the old cage. The new one was finally ready on September 28, and since then I've been 24/7 locked, and will be until sometime in November... unless, of course, she prefers me locked longer.
Yesterday morning she asked if it really took me 10 to 14 days after making love to get back to this "head space" of always trying to please her. I had to agree. I think she's considering keeping me locked longer.
Last Saturday morning, lying in bed after we slept in, I started a discussion with my sweetheart about the state of our sex lives. I wanted to know if she really liked having me locked in steel. She does. She likes the control of how and when, and the total lack of pressure to have sex. Like a lot of couples, she has a lot lower sex drive than I do. I told her about how I get to hug her more, kiss her more, snuggle on the couch with her more, all without her shying away because she thinks I just want sex. With her in charge of the key (which I haven't seen for a while) there's no pressure. For me, even though I don't get to make love to my wife anywhere near as often, I get to be closer to her all the time. Even her sexual teasing of me in the morning (practically every morning) is a plus. It's what she defines as sex for me now. The consensus: we both agreed that our sex lives are better than they have been for years.
After our discussion she asked me about plans for this week. I told her what I wanted for this coming weekend and she interrupted me. She said "What was it you said? What were those first two words?" I had said "I want..." I knew what she was getting at, and quickly changed my tune. You see, it's been since September 4 that I've been in almost continual lockup... and the "hearing aid" I'm wearing on my privates is really getting good! So I promptly apologized, took back my suggestions, and proposed a few things she might enjoy more. She smiled, but denied me the little "sex" I usually get (her teasing me around the bars of the cage). She sent me off to warm up the shower instead.
I've been sentenced to a strict LOctober this year. As I mentioned, we started this lockup on September 4, but I had some problems with the old cage. The new one was finally ready on September 28, and since then I've been 24/7 locked, and will be until sometime in November... unless, of course, she prefers me locked longer.
Yesterday morning she asked if it really took me 10 to 14 days after making love to get back to this "head space" of always trying to please her. I had to agree. I think she's considering keeping me locked longer.