[Lockedupinlove] Patience (3 weeks in)

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lockedupinlove
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[Lockedupinlove] Patience (3 weeks in)

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Long story short: I brush her hair and massage her every night. This lock-up is different and my love for my wife has grown enormously.

I start this by saying that this journey I have gone down has been amazing, frustrating, but I believe has made my marriage so amazing in the past few weeks that I must tell others.

3 weeks ago to this day I locked up. I didn't tell my wife but just decided I needed it. I was masturbating daily and didn't really hang out with my wife after dinner. I would just seperate from her, play computer games, then come to bed. I would kiss her good night and that would be the end of our day. Sex came once a month.

My wife has had me locked up before, rather I have locked myself up and she has held the key. She has never demanded that I lock up and she does not play the "controlling mistress" like we all fantasize about. However, she is overwhelmingly supportive of my "alternate lifestyles and bedroom fun"; for the most part.

Back to the meat and potatoes. 3 weeks... Right. I locked up and it must have been that night or the next night that she noticed. Sometimes when I'm clothed, she will tug on my penis or tap my crotch when she is in a playful mood. This time her fingers met plastic. She tugged on it, smiled, and told me to put the key on the dresser so she could hide it. I instantly filled my plastic confines when she said those words.

*This part of the story is great for newcomers/curious wives to the chastity realm. The first week was rough but I knew this time I was going to act different around my wife so that she doesn't associate me being in chastity with being an annoying hornball. In past times, I would constantly be feeling her up and down. Stopping her in the hallway and kissing her, or just taking it too far. She would then unlock me just to give herself a freaking break. I annoyed her especially when she wasn't in the mood. Don't think she liked me calling her mistress and myself slave either when she would tell me to do something. I took it too far. I was a testosterone riddled horny locked up child that watched loads of porn at night and propelled my horniness to ridiculous levels. I locked my cock up this time with one word in mind, patience

My wife was already into her menstal cycle so my "patience" had to really hold out. I was extremely horny for the first week but I held back all moves on her as best as I could. I helped with chores more and asked her if she needed anything all the time.

*This is where things got really awesome. By week two I stopped gaming most of the time. I started massaging her feet, legs, arms, and back every night. I listened to her as she spoke about things or she completely ignored me as she was sucked into her iPad. That last part I enjoyed greatly because I was starting to become her bitch or tool where my job was to shut up and massage her and where I was becoming more of a slave to her. She started calling me a bitch too and saying "tonight you're going to be my bitch"; referencing my services I would render to her later. She even once attached a collar to me when I was gaming. I turned the game off promptly, she attached the leash and led me to the back Bedroom where I massaged her whole body.

I brush her hair every night and painted her toe nails two nights ago.

In the last two weeks I have gotten her off 4-5 times. It's like we are newly-weds again! I haven't gotten off in any way since my initial lock-up, and that is the most frustrating. She once stated she would unlock me so I could masturbate but I told her I didn't want that. The only way I wanted to be unlocked was for cleaning or if she truly wanted to "use" my penis. Otherwise, I asked to remain locked until that time came, even if it were for months.

After these 3 weeks, I have found a new love for my wife. It has grown so deep. I don't see flaws or weaknesses when I look at her or argue as much and don't get stressed out when she does. All I see when I look at her is love; deep and insurmountable. At night in bed I can't stand being even a meter apart and must hold her tight. Everything I do now is for her, well, almost everything... I am truly infatuated with her and all I care about is pleasing her and making her life easier.

I love what we have become and hope to truly be her slave for the rest of our lives together. Now to get her to make me suck a dildo, put me in bondage occasionally, make me dress up, or milk my prostate...

Patience...
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Re: [Lockedupinlove] Patience (3 weeks in)

Post by Shepherdsflock »

This is a very important lesson I had to learn, too. Some women love the extra attention, but my wife felt smothered by my constant desire. I was touching her way too much and making advances too often. She loved everything else about chastity, but made it clear I needed to dial it back a bit.

Being unemployed for four months didn't help things any. I was horny all the time and had nothing to distract me. Now that I'm working again, I find it a lot easier to not irritate her.
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