[Herkees] "Living the dream" - Is what she tells me...
Posted: Wed Feb 10, 2016 9:56 am
Damn! She is getting so good at this!
We started out as most do - lots of discussions, lots of trial game-play, a few let downs and disappointments, but over a period of time, things evolved, lessons got learnt and things generally just get better and better.
We have played on and off for the last seven years, and every time, I never really could remember why it stopped - it just did, sometimes for months without a word to each other about it. Each time though, it appeared that I was locked for a longer period each time. I will never know how long I am going to be locked for. That's her thing. (We have tried early on playing with set times / due dates etc, but my wife quite rightly said one day, "I might not be in the mood that night, and I definitely won't be, if I have expectational pressure on me".)
But every now and then, my wife will just come out with it - almost at random. "I'm going to lock you up now". My heart always skips a beat or two, and I normally have a goose-bump rush in anticipation.
That happened this last time on January 9th 2016. I haven't been locked this long before - three and half weeks had been my longest - now it's been just over a month! But to be fair, My KH did let me orgasm two and a half weeks ago, (as she keeps reminding me) so I'm not to say another word about it.
Suffice to say - there seems to be no end in sight yet. In fact, she seems to be enjoying this time more than ever, teasing me about how long she has in mind by mentioning things like "Weeks to come yet - may be months!" She is getting so good at this, in every way. (And yes - She is so good at the wordplay, such as "weeks to come yet") - all done on purpose!
A big part of her enjoyment of our "game play" as we call it, is her involvement. Even when she is at work, she wants to be involved. This has evolved over the years too, in how we can find new ways to interact and share the experience as much as possible. She often sets tasks to keep me thinking and working hard all day at home, requiring regular texts about my progress. (I am housebound with a disability so I really enjoy never being bored!). I will write in more detail about some of the tasks she has dreamt up a bit later, but some involve me divulging my deepest darkest fantasies in a written form, so that she can learn from them. I always thought that was a clever move.
Up until this time playing, I (and she) always knew that I could "pull out". I have written in great detail about this (on this forum), and how it spoils the whole thing for both of us in previous game play sessions. That was my first task this time - to find a way of being securely locked up whereby I would need to key to "get things back in order". I thought I found a way last time (which I have written about) but it didn't work out. This time though, I seem to have found a solution that we are both happy with and have (by order!) written about this morning on the members forum. This has changed everything. I am spending most of my time in a head spin, and as the days are passing, things are elevating way higher that I could have imagined. It just feels much more serious now, not in a token sort of way like every time before. It really is mind boggling to me now.
Each time we play, my wife seems to be more confident with it. It has taken a lot of patience and a hell of a lot of conversation to get this far. She is a powerful, respected, "not to be messed with" kind of woman at work and the last thing she wants to do when she gets home is more of the same. Couple that with not ever wanting to "hurt, shame or torture" the one she loves so dearly, it became very clear in the beginning that she was never going to be a dominatrix wielding, whip cracking kind of key holder. This was what she imagined she would have to be like, to be a good key holder back at the start of this journey, as I'm sure most women who have just been asked to hold a key feels. That does seem a long time ago now, but the journey to today wasn't as hard as she thought is going to be. It just took a great deal of patience and mutual understanding.
My wife's confidence now, ironically, seems to have surpassed the whip wielding dominatrix vision. Sometimes I am genuinely aghast at her imagination and ingenuity of some of the things she has set as tasks. Some of them neigh on impossible, and she knows it, but she also knows because of past writings of mine, that I love an impossible task. (I have spent a lot of time on the "write for me" website since she discovered it!)
Well that's enough for now - phew!
Thanks for getting this far, and please check back soon as I will keep working on getting this page up to date.
For Mykeys - Herkees
We started out as most do - lots of discussions, lots of trial game-play, a few let downs and disappointments, but over a period of time, things evolved, lessons got learnt and things generally just get better and better.
We have played on and off for the last seven years, and every time, I never really could remember why it stopped - it just did, sometimes for months without a word to each other about it. Each time though, it appeared that I was locked for a longer period each time. I will never know how long I am going to be locked for. That's her thing. (We have tried early on playing with set times / due dates etc, but my wife quite rightly said one day, "I might not be in the mood that night, and I definitely won't be, if I have expectational pressure on me".)
But every now and then, my wife will just come out with it - almost at random. "I'm going to lock you up now". My heart always skips a beat or two, and I normally have a goose-bump rush in anticipation.
That happened this last time on January 9th 2016. I haven't been locked this long before - three and half weeks had been my longest - now it's been just over a month! But to be fair, My KH did let me orgasm two and a half weeks ago, (as she keeps reminding me) so I'm not to say another word about it.
Suffice to say - there seems to be no end in sight yet. In fact, she seems to be enjoying this time more than ever, teasing me about how long she has in mind by mentioning things like "Weeks to come yet - may be months!" She is getting so good at this, in every way. (And yes - She is so good at the wordplay, such as "weeks to come yet") - all done on purpose!
A big part of her enjoyment of our "game play" as we call it, is her involvement. Even when she is at work, she wants to be involved. This has evolved over the years too, in how we can find new ways to interact and share the experience as much as possible. She often sets tasks to keep me thinking and working hard all day at home, requiring regular texts about my progress. (I am housebound with a disability so I really enjoy never being bored!). I will write in more detail about some of the tasks she has dreamt up a bit later, but some involve me divulging my deepest darkest fantasies in a written form, so that she can learn from them. I always thought that was a clever move.
Up until this time playing, I (and she) always knew that I could "pull out". I have written in great detail about this (on this forum), and how it spoils the whole thing for both of us in previous game play sessions. That was my first task this time - to find a way of being securely locked up whereby I would need to key to "get things back in order". I thought I found a way last time (which I have written about) but it didn't work out. This time though, I seem to have found a solution that we are both happy with and have (by order!) written about this morning on the members forum. This has changed everything. I am spending most of my time in a head spin, and as the days are passing, things are elevating way higher that I could have imagined. It just feels much more serious now, not in a token sort of way like every time before. It really is mind boggling to me now.
Each time we play, my wife seems to be more confident with it. It has taken a lot of patience and a hell of a lot of conversation to get this far. She is a powerful, respected, "not to be messed with" kind of woman at work and the last thing she wants to do when she gets home is more of the same. Couple that with not ever wanting to "hurt, shame or torture" the one she loves so dearly, it became very clear in the beginning that she was never going to be a dominatrix wielding, whip cracking kind of key holder. This was what she imagined she would have to be like, to be a good key holder back at the start of this journey, as I'm sure most women who have just been asked to hold a key feels. That does seem a long time ago now, but the journey to today wasn't as hard as she thought is going to be. It just took a great deal of patience and mutual understanding.
My wife's confidence now, ironically, seems to have surpassed the whip wielding dominatrix vision. Sometimes I am genuinely aghast at her imagination and ingenuity of some of the things she has set as tasks. Some of them neigh on impossible, and she knows it, but she also knows because of past writings of mine, that I love an impossible task. (I have spent a lot of time on the "write for me" website since she discovered it!)
Well that's enough for now - phew!
Thanks for getting this far, and please check back soon as I will keep working on getting this page up to date.
For Mykeys - Herkees