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Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2018 3:02 pm
by jfenoffti
Sunday morning – Morning naked, caged, spooning cuddle with limited breast fondlings. Very little cage against KH bottom time, but still wonderful, close intimate time together.

So, KH is standing at the vanity, naked and I pass behind her, pause bend down and kiss the small of her back. Then start to drag my nose south, leaving little kisses… and just as I’m on final approach, KH Traffic Control says “Ah Ah Ahhh” and moves away. :cry:

So close!

Then while she was working at her desk, I came up behind her, and started kissing her neck and then nibbling on her ear – she’s wearing the “lock and key” earrings again! Which means she’s thinking about me in chastity. :)

”Cut that out! STOP!” (She loves it and I know it.)

We're both smiling... Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2018 10:51 am
by jfenoffti
Sunday night

O. M. G. ! :D

KH and I were celebrating her birthday with some very nice wine I’d been saving (for about 10 years) for just such a special occasion. We were really enjoying ourselves, our life together, just being happy together.

Finally, we pour ourselves into bed (instead of another glass of wine) and I proceed to start petting KH’s thigh. KH bends her knee and turns her leg out towards me a little. This allows me to pet the inside of her thigh. It is so smooth and soft and just screams “pet me, stroke me” and

Maria Muldaur’s song “Don’t You Make Me High (Don’t You Feel My Leg)” lyrics come to mind. ;)
“Oh, don't you feel my leg, don't you feel my leg
'Cos if you feel my leg, you'll want to feel my thigh
Don't you feel my thigh, you'll wanna move up high”

“If you want to put your penis anywhere I’ll have to unlock you. Do you want to be unlocked?”

“No, not really. I just want to lick your pussy to orgasm.”

“You do?” She said spreading her legs further apart. :)

After an eye rolling back up into her head, body shaking orgasm, I move up and kiss KH passionately, deeply and long. KeyHolder says “I can smell my musk on you.” (No kidding! Taste it too probably.)

This of course led to more passionate kissing and holding tightly. Very tightly. Might have been some pelvic grinding going on about here too. ;)

It was then I made my move. You’ve seen it in the gifs or videos, the caged man is rubbing his locked cock on his KH’s pussy. Or she's straddling him, getting off by rubbing herself over his cage.

“I’m not going to unlock you. I don’t even remember where the keys are. How badly do you want unlocked? What would you do?”

“What do I have to do?”

(long thoughtful pause -- I’m hoping she will want me to lick her and her girlfriend to orgasms after serving them wine.)

“How long have you been locked – it’s been a few days hasn’t it?”

“It’ll be a week tomorrow.”

KH Laughs.

“Aren’t i supposed to keep you locked for at least a month?”


“I want to retire and not have to work and have fun with you and travel. When we’re financially able to do those things. Now roll off of me and go to sleep. You’ll just have to dream about fucking me then.” :shock:


Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2018 12:14 pm
by jfenoffti
So part of the Vice cage snap-together fittings cracked last week during an unusually significant hydraulic internal pressure due to an erection. Yes, it was, would have been, that good. The crack caused some very uncomfortable pinching and injury. :cry:

That was Friday. So I recover the keys hidden in her purse, unlock the padlock so I could remove the device after she left for work, i do not replace the keys. I remove the cage, identify the cause of the pinching and go cageless for the rest of the weekend.

Saturday, she goes through her purse, in front of me which is unusual, specifically the internal pocket where the keys were. She says she's looking for something else, but I wonder.... I think she may have noticed I wasn’t wearing the cage that morning, but she chose not so say anything until Monday night.

Monday, while we’re getting ready for bed, I’m brushing my teeth at the sink and she pats my cock through my athletic shorts and confirms that I am cageless. :oops:

“What happened to your cage?”

I tell her about the crack in the fitting, the pinching and the removal.

“That’s gonna cost you. There will be a penalty for not telling me.” :shock: (This of course means she's still playing the game.) :)

Ok, so I then chose not to tell her that I had just sent the money for a custom cage earlier that day. That’s probably going to cost me too. Maybe not the best plan.

Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Wed Feb 14, 2018 1:46 pm
by jfenoffti
KH wished me "Happy Valentines Day" this morning and reminded me today is also the beginning of Lent.

I'm not completely sure, but I think the implication was it marks a period of self-denial. Or in this case, a KH determined denial. Currently, I am uncaged due to a structural failure of my cage, and anxiously awaiting a "new" (previously owned) custom cage (JB). Which should be here early next week.

Earlier this week KH discovered I had removed the offending cage without her knowledge or consent and said there would be a penalty for that. And that was on top of her deciding I should remain locked until I create additional income equal to her position so she can retire. I can do this, just not overnight.

This may be a longer Lent than usual.

Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2018 2:35 am
by Nevermore
I'm currently 19 days into a period of abstinence from masturbation and pornographers. Being free from these negative influences has allowed me to focus on the needs and wants of my beloved wife. I can honestly say I couldn't have done it without the inspiration of a true life Female Led Relationship. Her name is Ms Renee Lane and she chronicles her training of her slave in the book, Finding Love Through Female Domination. I invite anyone with a passion for the empowerment of women to read it.

Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2018 10:51 am
by jfenoffti
Earlier this week my "new" used MM JB arrived. Yesterday I was trying it on for the first time and the key was a little tricky and I had some trouble. Took it off once to readjust, re-locked and at the end of the day, before KH arrived home, I was taking it off again. (Better to present it to her, put it on and have her lock it.) and the key broke -- in the lock. :shock:

I was able to grab the protruding end and remove the key. Of course, the lock is still locked, on the cage, on me.

With incredibly careful finesse, I was able to unlock the lock. Before KH arrived.

KH arrives home, we go to bed, all's right with the world. Well, at least our little part of it.

This morning, KH rolls over to kiss me awake and says "I woke up last night and almost had to rape you." :o Well that would have been awkward (if I had still been wearing the cage). That's unusual. Interesting. And potentially lots of fun!

I really want to start wearing this cage 24/7, with KH's knowledge and consent of course. Not sure whether she's going to want sex sooner than usual (typically 6-8 weeks) or not. She has teased me before -- like what we all want, dream about, you know, the "textbook" perfect example of restraints and unmerciful edging, for an extended period of time and then she gets herself off while verbally teasing "You want this, but you can't have it" or something to that effect and then straddles your face and says "Clean me!"

Depending on what kind of day she has at work today, i'll tell her about the new cage and have her lock it tonight. I didn't tell her yesterday because when she got home, she related an issue at work that had her wound up. Timing is everything!

Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2018 7:56 pm
by jfenoffti
Decided to "just do it", "grabbed my balls" and told her about the new cage. (The money for a "toy" might be an issue....)

I had to buy a new lock that fit precisely because that is a key factor in the overall engineering of the Jailbird. If the shackle is too small then the gap is inconsistent and will be larger than specified. Got the calipers out yesterday, measured the original lock shackle, the drilled holes in the ring post and the tube post sleeve, researched the Master and Arbus locks specifications and found a very suitable replacement.

Sent the lovely and charming KH a text with a picture of the new lock and said I have a surprise for you. No response, she was very busy at work today - the keynote speaker at a professional conference. That sort of thing usually has her all keyed up (sorry - I couldn't resist!) in a good way.

KH is not yet home and hasn't seen the new JB. More to come (couldn't stop myself again), but not me!

Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2018 3:40 am
by jfenoffti
On the way home after work I texted and asked if she wanted me to fix dinner. She replied she had eaten but "I'll just!"

Well that's a good sign! She's in a good mood, her presentation went well.

She doesn't ask about her surprise - I'm guessing she didn't see the text. I get in bed first, she hasn't seen it yet, but she probably will in the morning. Which is good. I want her to know and be on board with re-starting the 'game'.

Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Sun Feb 25, 2018 3:28 pm
by jfenoffti
To re-cap and for those of you who just tuned in… The new previously-owned Jailbird arrived and I wore it for the better part of the day. Removed it for the night. Next day – rinse and repeat. On during the day, off at night. JB goes on the next day day, stays on that night, And the next day and night.

That brings us to yesterday, I make certain that KH knows I’m wearing a cage as we cuddle and spoon in the morning. She see it later and says “Oh, you bought another cage.”

“Yes I did.” (Honesty is the best policy.) Subject dropped for now.

So this morning...

OMG. Where to begin. Pay attention here boys and girls, some of the following will be titillating and other, more subtle parts are vitally important for developing that male chastity lifestyle you want.

KeyHolder gets up saying she’ll feed the dog and put him out (I usually do this), do her morning devotionals and will be back to cuddle for half an hour before she has to go to work. Ok! That’s a plan. I’m glad that I shaved (my face) earlier when I first woke up so I will be ready for cuddling and kissing. She does not like a scruffy face. KeyHolder is an extremist – she likes very clean shaven or a nice full, soft, manly beard. She wants smooooth or tickles. Well today, I am ready to provide smoooth for her kissing, and being kissed, enjoyment!

My outrageously sexy KeyHolder walks back into the bedroom, still naked of course, and climbs into bed. (I was temporarily out of bed turning on some soft background music.) KeyHolder lies back in the center of the king size bed, on her back and does not pull the covers up. Looks like an invitation to me!

Yours truly, the locked and chaste one, climbs in on top of her, supporting myself on my elbows and knees. The smiling-and-looking-into-each-others-eyes begins, quickly followed by long, wet, passionate kissing like when we were dating. Lips, ear lobes, neck, shoulders, lips, ear lobes, neck, shoulders again. We are getting worked up over this – it’s great! Did I mention it was long and passionate? And wet? Oh good. Well it was. Enough to mention it again. ; )

Now, in this position, face to face kissing, my caged cock is of course providing some stimulation in the area of KeyHolder’s kitty. And just like dating, we started to “dry hump”. You know, no penetration, just grinding your symphysis pubis against your partner’s. (Told you this was going to be educational.) Yes, it’s a real word. Go look it up in a dictionary or Gray’s Anatomy of the Human Body. (It’s a textbook, not a TV show. They are spelled differently.)

“OUCH!” oops. “There are sharp edges on that thing!”

“Sorry!” I sit up and back on my knees, straddling her with said caged cock just between her legs.
I am well aware that I am leaking profusely on her and look down at the matted mess I’ve created. (I must say, I am rather proud of myself.) This is when and where, I think, the nipple pinching began. That is KeyHolder pinching my nipples. Deep sigh. It hurt SO good! Those endorphin producing glands were working overtime now! Just thinking about it makes me almost unable to think again. It couldn’t have been much better. Unless of course KeyHolder was to restrain me… For you ladies who are reading – yes, I know. 'Typical guy. It’s so good but he still wants something more.' Well remember, **I** have not orgasmed for a couple of weeks now.

Having seen one, or two, of those amateur videos where the caged cock is rubbed on the KeyHolder’s pussy, (I have wanted to do this for SO long) to get her off, I start to take advantage of the opportunity. And KeyHolder is getting into it! I mean really getting into it. I did have to hold onto the lock to prevent it from ruining the moment, but it was so worth it. She was getting closer and more vocal and more active and more flushed and wet. Really, very very wet. Sopping wet. She’s so wet, it’s a good thing I am a certified scuba diver.

“I love you so much” says my aroused, smiling and sexy KeyHolder. “I want to cum with you in me. Maybe I should take it off you…?”

“Well you can have all you want. I am the one that can’t orgasm until later.”


“Remember you said a couple of weeks ago that you were going to leave it on through Lent and then until I make enough extra income to bring you home from work.”

“I said that?”

“Yes, you did.”

Thoughtful pause… KeyHolder makes a facial expression like “Oh reeeaally...”, sort of an evil grin with eyes wide open and trying to hide a huge smile. BCWYWF!

Ok; But what if I want an orgasm?”

“Well I can use my tongue and fingers...” and went down on her. I know just how she likes it (result of communication, not just today but over our time together.) Which led to an intense orgasm for the lovely and now satiated KeyHolder.

"That worked!" She was so grateful.

After coming up for air I move up until we are face to face again and the kissing and teasing and nipple pinching starts again.

I say to her how much I appreciate her “playing” the “game” with me, that it is important to me and means a lot that she will participate. She should see this an a demonstration of just how much I love her, that I am willing to go without and just please her.

KeyHolder replies “Yes, I do and its all just for me!”

“Yes it is – it’s kinda like a wedding ring with a lock!” KeyHolder’s eyes grow wide, she laughs and smiles broadly. Very broadly. She really liked that.

So we are lying there in bed, enjoying the “after glow” and KeyHolder asks when I got it. “It came in the mail earlier this week.”

“How is it compared to your others (cages)?”

“It’s much better! It was custom made for the guy I bought it from and we are almost exactly the same size. The length is 1 3/4”, I’m normally 2” flaccid and they say to subtract a 1/4”, so that works and I measured my width at 1 1/4” but this is 1 3/8” and I’m really glad it is because it fits so well and the base ring is 1 5/8”, which is between 1 1/2” and 1 3/4” which I’ve tried. The gap between the bottom of the cage tube and the base ring is 3/8”. The purple one (Vice) was really good so I could figure out what combination of base ring and gap I need.

(Ok, here it comes….) “What does a custom one cost?”

“Well, The custom made ones require a lot of labor and skill to bend and weld stainless steel, so this one new was about $400, but I got it for ***. I sold...”

“That’s ok, you don’t have to tell me.”

“...So it was only about $16 out of pocket.”

“That’s ok. This one looks more normal, at least as normal as putting your cock in a cage can be, I like it much better than the others. It’s more” (streamlined I think was her word – something like that) “and it doesn’t look so big and bulky.”

“Yes, it’s more comfortable and much easier to wash and stay clean.”

As she is leaving for work today, she reached into her purse to get something and that reminded me, “Oh, the keys are in the side pocket of your purse.”

She fishes around inside and pulls them out. Holding them in front of me she says with a playful lilt in her voice “I am putting them somewhere else!”

---- SCOOOOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRRRRRRRE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you haven’t figured it out, my hot, sexy, lovely KeyHolder/wife of 31 years is all on board with keeping me locked through Lent minimally, and probably until I replace her salary with an equal amount of income from my business. Lent is only a few weeks. Her salary is above average. It may be awhile.

Re: [jfenoffti] Mmm Mmm Mmm Good!

Posted: Wed Feb 28, 2018 11:12 am
by jfenoffti
It’s been a week and a day now in the Jailbird. I’ve determined that I need another 1/16” added to the gap. This is based on a post from Mature Metal on another site, specifically addressing the dreaded “ball burn”. If the burn begins within a few hours, increase gap by and 1/8”. If it takes a day or two, increase the gap by a 1/16”.

As things have evolved, we moved back into the CFNM morning routine today. I really enjoy getting KH’s coffee and breakfast wearing just the cage and a smile. And, judging by the look of KH’s face as she pinched my nipple going out the front door, she does too!

Yesterday, I experimented with adding a second lock (from another device) by locking it through my frenum piercing and one of the bottom bars of the tube. That was fun. I was thinking I would tell KH that with the 2nd lock on, I wouldn’t be able to rub my cage against anyone else’s pussy as I had done with her a few nights ago. (Which, as you will remember, she really enjoyed.) That’s a major part of what she gets out of this, I am hers and hers alone to play with. Even if I had an opportunity and chose to take advantage of it, I am physically unable to. And she controls this. She likes that.

Before she came home, I removed the frenum lock. Didn’t want to “open a can of worms”. (hypothetically): “Why? Do you not trust yourself? Are you thinking about fucking someone else?"

Well, I’ve decided to go fishing. Today, after KH pinched my nipple goodbye at the door, I put the other (keyed alike) lock through my frenum, around one of the cage bars and closed the lock. Commitment. This feeling is similar to what those of you who have PA piercings must experience I’m sure. Even if I wanted to try and pull out the back of the device, I cannot. (In the last four years of practicing chastity, I did this only once just to see if I could.)