[sexy_cheese] The wife loves the idea...
Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2015 7:16 am
I'd experimented with a chastity device for a few weeks now, and could really feel some positive benefits to a life of denial, restraint and so forth. However, I still had one major hurdle to overcome: Mrs sexy_cheese.
She's a very vanilla lady, fantastic to be with but things had become mundane. There are many complex reasons for this, and some of it was down to my more wayward nature. So I wrote down my thoughts, ideas and eventually proposing the idea of chastity. To say I was nervous when I handed her the lengthy letter was an understatement. (For those curious, I tend to fumble my words when I speak, so we always communicate big things with letters, and then discussion - I find it easier)
She loved the idea. Not a gushing, expressive love the idea, but a 'this is a good step forward for us' kind of thing. She asked lots of questions, realised the connection between my changed demeanour and the time I'd been using the cage, so lots of positives.
After a cleanup later today, she will become my keyholder. This makes me both excited and nervous. It's exactly what I wanted, and exactly what she needed at this stage of our marriage.
She's a very vanilla lady, fantastic to be with but things had become mundane. There are many complex reasons for this, and some of it was down to my more wayward nature. So I wrote down my thoughts, ideas and eventually proposing the idea of chastity. To say I was nervous when I handed her the lengthy letter was an understatement. (For those curious, I tend to fumble my words when I speak, so we always communicate big things with letters, and then discussion - I find it easier)
She loved the idea. Not a gushing, expressive love the idea, but a 'this is a good step forward for us' kind of thing. She asked lots of questions, realised the connection between my changed demeanour and the time I'd been using the cage, so lots of positives.
After a cleanup later today, she will become my keyholder. This makes me both excited and nervous. It's exactly what I wanted, and exactly what she needed at this stage of our marriage.