[gayinmate] A longer sentence
Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2015 12:13 pm
In November 2013, I got my first chastity device, a CB-6000S, with my partner's blessing. He had actually been interested in having me in a chastity device for a while, but something I said--I don't know what--made him think I wouldn't be into it.
I experimented with rings and spacers, and I got to a point where I could sleep for one night without being in serious pain. After self-locking during my experiments, I let my partner lock me up for a couple of days. It was a good experience...having sex with him while I was locked up was hot. But I didn't let him keep me locked for more than 48 hours for a couple of reasons. One, the device interfered with my sleep. Two, I didn't feel comfortable wearing the device to work, partly because I often need to speak in front of an audience.
To my disappointment, my partner has only locked me up a couple of times. Recently, he told me that having me in chastity for just a day or two doesn't do much for him. It takes a long time to get me locked, and it's not worth it to him if I'm not going to be locked for a week or more. Last week, I realized that one of my reasons against medium-term chastity doesn't apply. For the next few weeks, I don't have any public speaking responsibilities at work.
So yesterday, I asked my partner if he was interested in having me locked in chastity for a longer period of time. I told him that for the next two weeks, he can decide when I'm locked up, with two conditions. (1) If the ring or spacer needs changing for comfort, we will do it. (2) If my partner decides to keep me locked for more than a week, he will let me take the device off for a supervised cleaning after seven days.
My partner immediately told me to put the device on. While locking me, he said something about possibly getting me a metal device, which suggests that he's definitely into it.
Right now, I am a little bit sleep deprived but still very excited about the experience. I wonder whether I will start to regret my decision soon. I wonder how long my partner will decide to keep me locked...will it be for the full two weeks? I wonder how being locked for more than a couple of days will affect my emotions. And I wonder whether there will be even longer, more serious experiences with chastity in my future.
I experimented with rings and spacers, and I got to a point where I could sleep for one night without being in serious pain. After self-locking during my experiments, I let my partner lock me up for a couple of days. It was a good experience...having sex with him while I was locked up was hot. But I didn't let him keep me locked for more than 48 hours for a couple of reasons. One, the device interfered with my sleep. Two, I didn't feel comfortable wearing the device to work, partly because I often need to speak in front of an audience.
To my disappointment, my partner has only locked me up a couple of times. Recently, he told me that having me in chastity for just a day or two doesn't do much for him. It takes a long time to get me locked, and it's not worth it to him if I'm not going to be locked for a week or more. Last week, I realized that one of my reasons against medium-term chastity doesn't apply. For the next few weeks, I don't have any public speaking responsibilities at work.
So yesterday, I asked my partner if he was interested in having me locked in chastity for a longer period of time. I told him that for the next two weeks, he can decide when I'm locked up, with two conditions. (1) If the ring or spacer needs changing for comfort, we will do it. (2) If my partner decides to keep me locked for more than a week, he will let me take the device off for a supervised cleaning after seven days.
My partner immediately told me to put the device on. While locking me, he said something about possibly getting me a metal device, which suggests that he's definitely into it.
Right now, I am a little bit sleep deprived but still very excited about the experience. I wonder whether I will start to regret my decision soon. I wonder how long my partner will decide to keep me locked...will it be for the full two weeks? I wonder how being locked for more than a couple of days will affect my emotions. And I wonder whether there will be even longer, more serious experiences with chastity in my future.