[Forest] Journal

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[Forest] Journal

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I've been interested in chastity for years. About 5 years ago my (then) fiance and I bought a device that didn't really work. We forgot about it until about 6 months ago. I came across a website by a keyholder extolling the values of chastity (mostly for keyholders). I brought it up with my (now) wife and she was not at all interested. We're switches, and she didn't like the idea of having a 24/7 power exchange with her in charge. About a month ago I started fantasizing about it again and told her I was going to buy one and try it and if she didn't want to be the keyholder she didn't have to. She decided to support me with the experiment and is my keyholder. I wear it basically from when I wake to when I sleep. I've had three overnights (two didn't go well). She prefers I take it off at night because my body needs a break. Thus far, the farthest I've gone without orgasm is 1 week and 5 days. We're working towards a month.
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I had some irritation over the weekend and got sick of hair getting caught so I asked my wife (KH) to shave me. I've only shaved there once before. She did a great job, it didn't hurt at all. I use the biggest ring size and middle-sized spacer. The fit seems to be more comfortable now. Putting it on is also less traumatic.
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This weekend was going to be my cum weekend. I would have been locked for two weeks. Prior to this the longest I had gone was 1 week. I was really stressed Wednesday so my wife and I negotiated an early release. We had sex and I came inside her. We agreed that rather than have a cum weekend it would just be a day due to the early release. When Saturday arrived she had her period and was sad she couldn't/wouldn't have sex. I negotiated setting my release to next weekend but that it would be a full weekend. She said she might want me to cum earlier, so we agreed that could happen as a surprise.
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Right now my wife is more of a coach than a domme. She controls when I'm locked and punishes me if I fail to meet our sexual agreements. Thus far I have been punished twice, once for masturbating in the cage (to see if I could edge . . . which I could not) and once for misplacing the key (she keeps it in the house where I have access to it and usually has me remove it at night).

We have talked about FLR, but she doesn't like any of the food groups accept sex and money.
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The only time I call her mistress is during a punishment. I have to ask for the punishment and thank her for every paddling/spanking. I have to thank her again. At the end and ask her for forgiveness.
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A couple of months ago I started seeing a chiropractor. After the first adjustment I had the best sex of the year with my wife. I went from cumming twice a week to daily. Her libido stayed the same and she was only cumming during sex with me. I spent lots of time watching porn. I didn't like how the increased libido was changing me so I started researching MC. I ordered the CB-3000 on a Friday from Extreme Restraints with next day shipping. On Monday I hadn't heard anything so I called them. The women who answered was very nice (it's kind of embarrassing to talk to a woman from a store about the status of a male chastity device). She said the order would be processed that afternoon and I should get it the following day. The first time I wore it I masturbated in order to cum so I'd fit. I used the manufacturers directions to lube. My wife had me switch to a natural oil, which is great for chafing. Since I had stopped masturbating w/o permission I switched to the sock method to get in. The sock method works even when erect, but is traumatic. Eventually she bought me nylons. I was afraid nylons would make it worse since I have a nylon fetish, but I find they make it far easier and less traumatic to put on.
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The reasons I want to limit my orgasms:
  1. To reduce dependency on porn
  2. To reduce my objectifying women (other than my wife)
  3. To form a deeper bond with my wife
So far, all of these have been successful.
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The main issues I've had since starting ML:
  1. Getting my wife to be open to having sex be initiated by her. She grew up believing men should initiate sex. I think we've come a long way with this issue.
  2. Chafing - It chafes under my balls. Pre-cum and oil make it feel better. I think that shaving helped.
  3. Getting hair caught - this stopped being a problem after she shaved me.
  4. Sitting in small cars - sometimes I got to lunch with co-workers and it's really uncomfortable to sit in their tiny cars.
  5. Sleeping - Sleeping naked is a challenge because I'm uncaged and my body thinks it's time for sex. Sleeping with underwear is a little better but can be uncomfortable after a day in chastity. The first overnight I had in chastity ended around 1 because my wife felt disconnected and wanted it off. I also had a burning feeling when I peed. The second night was fairly good, I slept until 5 am. I woke up a little early, was unlocked until after I showered, and was locked the rest of the day. The last time I tried I had reached a record days without cumming and wanted to wear it because I was scared of having a wet dream. I woke around 2am very uncomfortable and decided to take it off.
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The things my wife and I are enjoying about ML:
  1. I'm learning to be a better lover
  2. I'm less demanding of sex
  3. I'm not looking at other people as potential sex partners
  4. I'm more cuddly then ever
  5. She says I listen better
  6. Peeing sitting down and not having sexual stimulation during her period is improving my empathy
  7. We've had some deep discussions about sex and our relationship. These discussions have gone far deeper than any of our former conversations in the 6 - 7 years we've been together.
  8. I've been more helpful around the house.
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The rules my wife/KH and I agreed on:
  1. No solo/unpermitted masturbating
  2. No orgasms except on cum weekend. Wet dreams or accidents during PIV are not counted as rule violations.
  3. No solo/unpermitted viewing of porn.
  4. No unpermitted escaping (unless medically necessary)
  5. If I feel unsafe or in danger I must free myself.
  6. Except for cum weekend I must be caged from soon after a wake to within an hour of sleep.
  7. I must ask permission to unlock myself (unless she is out when I go to bed or it is an emergency)
  8. I must let her know within 15 minutes of releasing myself that I have removed the cage.
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