[newbie] Starting again

[newbie]

One thing I did definitely notice after our session on Saturday night was that on Sunday I was just as horny as I was before I came. It had been over a month since I had last cum so it happened pretty quickly when my was giving me the hand job, and I was limp the entire time, so maybe my body reacted to it more like a ruined orgasm since I really didn't get any satisfaction from it. All day Sunday I was horny and actually contemplated trying to cum in my device, but I couldn't cheat on my wife like that. Since the beginning of the year (or longer) she has controlled when I cum and I wouldn't change that for the world.

The only bummer to this whole thing is now the clock has reset and I am looking at another long stretch. On the plus side I imagine that my wife feels better now that she made me cum since I know she still feels some level of guilt or more specifically wanting to make sure I'm enjoying myself. It will be interesting to see how things go now that I've cum and she knows I can last a long time without the need to cum again. If I were to venture a guess I would say that she'll continue with the way things are.

One thing I forgot to mention was on Friday night I tried to start a little foreplay in bed and was quickly shut down by her physically, without her saying anything. Essentially she just sort of made herself inaccessible in a very subtle way.

[newbie]

I've been trying once again to wear my device full time but I'm still not liking the way the HT V2 locking mechanism makes this weird bulge in the front of my pants. I'm really not sure why it has to be such a large lump on the device, but I suppose it has to do with the material and has to be that large for strength. I'm seriously considering going with a stainless device because I feel it would be more discrete.

I also think that going with a stainless device would show my wife that I am more serious about this and am willing to make a more substantial investment in my equipment. I sometimes get the feeling that she views my current device with almost a 'it's just a piece of plastic" way, although she has never come out and said that. I'm fine with wearing a device 24/7 as far as comfort goes but need it to be discrete to those around me.

Since I've been locked in it since Sunday that means that it has stayed on in the shower as opposed to taking it off for cleaning and putting it up on top of the shower door like usual. I'm not sure if my wife has noticed the change, but this morning she was in the bathroom blow drying her hair as I finished up and stepped out. She has long hair and she was busy with that so I don't think she noticed. She very well may have, but either way she didn't react or say anything. I really feel like she has become so used to it that I could parade around in only my HT and she probably wouldn't say anything. That's a level of acceptance that she has never gotten to before. Back this morning when we were still sleeping and the alarm went off, she was the one to hit the snooze and climb back in bed. In fact she did it twice, and each time when she climbed back in she did so that her backside was facing me and I snuggled in tight in the old spooning position. We played footsie with each other and I was wrapped against her tightly with my device pressed into her backside. It felt great and I started to get turned on, so I instinctively started playing with her a little, to which she shut me down and pretty much decided it was best for both of us if we just get out of bed.

It was a great feeling, and I really like how she senses when I'm starting to get turned on and stops it before it really gets started. She does it in a very nice and subtle way instead of getting irritated, which is more in line with how she used to be. Again, a pleasant morning with her in a good mood and no sign of being bothered by any of my chastity pursuits.

[newbie]

Ever since the last time we had sex where she told me to unlock and then proceeded to give me a quick limp hand job I've been in a sort of blah mood as far as continuing with chastity goes. I was making myself wear it on a daily basis like before, but found that it was starting to preoccupy my daily activities and thoughts. It had become the focus of my thoughts and I was was spending too much time wondering where the whole thing was going to end up or simply if I should wear it in the evenings with the chance of being discovered or something by one of the kids. I eventually realized that at the very least I needed to take a break from all of this for my own sanity. I guess the final straw was me becoming so keyed up and turned on that I resorted to looking at porn for hours and ended up cumming in my device.

Since that time I have had very little if any sexual thoughts and have not looked at anything even the slightest erotic since.

So today is Monday and I've been free since Friday afternoon and right now I'm not sure when I will go back to being locked. We had a busy weekend and there are other things going on in our personal lives to where being locked in chastity isn't even on the radar right now.

I'm not saying that I'm giving it up completely, but I guess it's time for me to take a hiatus for the time being.

I'll post occasionally to give updates, but right now I don't have a whole lot to report.

[Shepherdsflock]

We just had a similar experience last night. After quite a while of playing around, my wife was getting close to orgasm and decided she wanted me unlocked. This has only happened one other time. So, I got the key and unlocked, and got towels and Kleenex (she's a neat freak, she doesn't want any mess on the sheets). When I came back in the room I was already losing my erection a little bit. She wanted me to play with her clit some more. So I did that for 10 minutes or so. I didn't even notice it, but I went completely limp while I was playing with her clit.

She got to the point where she wanted me to get inside her, and when I went to put myself in, I couldn't. I was too soft. I thrusted several times against her vagina, but my cock was too soft and just flexed away.

Unlike your wife, my wife was surprisingly turned on by this. I guess something about watching me want badly to penetrate her and be completely unable to got her pretty revved up. She let me keep thrusting with my limp dick and little by little it came back.

The only problem for me was I could still feel everything just like I was erect. By the time I got hard enough, I was near climax. I just barely managed to get the head of my penis in her when I couldn't hold out any longer and orgasmed.

My wife again was turned on by the fact that I couldn't even get all the way in before I was done. I didn't even get to feel the inside of her vagina before it was over for me and I was locked back up.

So, I guess the difference is all in how each person feels about an experience like this. My wife was turned on by it, and I didn't feel bad about it. But it sounds like you aren't as happy with it.

[newbie]

So it's been almost 6 months since I last wrote anything here, and primarily that's because I essentially quit doing anything chastity wise. It seemed like it was getting to be too much work for the reward and my wife was still not into it at all so I essentially gave up and put everything away.

But, as most of you know, it's something that doesn't just "go away" and after some time I found myself wearing it again from time to time. So now I find myself once again self locked but this time I'm really not involving my wife in any of this. I'm not asking her to be the keyholder or wanting to be denied orgasms from her or any of that. This time I'm wearing the HT because I want to, because it feels good, and because it keeps me in a slightly aroused state. I know this sounds selfish ("what's in it for her?") but that's where I'm at right now.

Most recently I started wearing it pretty much every day and I must say it's becoming more natural to wear it again. I don't think about what people can see or not see, and have basically adopted the "who cares" mentality toward wearing it. Along with that I've decided to not be sneaky about it regarding my wife seeing it or knowing I have it on. I've started getting dressed in front of her while wearing it, wearing to to the shower, in bed, etc.. I have to say it's been somewhat of a liberating feeling, and is different than what I've felt in the past. I feel like if I don't make a big deal about it and instead treat it like an everyday thing it will become more natural for both of us. I have to say that so far (very early yet) she hasn't been put-off by it or reacted negatively in any way. She's seen it again in the bathroom and has felt it in bed.

I was wearing it this past week and on Saturday night we went out. We got home late and she stayed up while I went to bed. In the morning we were sleeping in when I started feeling horny. She was facing away from me sleeping so I settled in behind her, pressing my body against her and my cage against her rear end. She stirred a little and moved around, and I could feel my HT moving with her body. We continued this while I began playing with her breasts and touching her body. She began to respond, and before I knew it she had rolled over on her back to give me access to her breasts. She pulled up her top and I went to work. All the while I kept thinking she must have felt my device this whole time because it was still against her, and her leg had bumped into it several times. Once thing led to another and soon her pj pants were off and I was playing with her getting her increasingly more and more wet. As things progressed I could tell she was nearing climax so I went down on her and finished her off to a very intense orgasm. While all this was going on I had remained clothes so she would understand that there would be no penis involved in any of this. She never questioned any of it and instead drew me close to her as she basked in her relaxed state. We gently layed there until it was time to get up and start the day. I was incredibly turned on but knew there wasn't anything I could do about it. It was great.

Over the course of the weekend she saw the device a time or two but never commented. The key was left laying on my nightstand in plain view letting her know that I was still locked.

These last few days have been fun and I am anxious to see how things go from here. It's good to be back.

[newbie]

Last night my wife and I were watching tv, I was still locked from Sunday, when she told me that she was going to bed at 9:30. This was a little odd as she normally doesn't announce what time she's going to bed out of the blue. I told her I was heading to bed shortly as well, and before long we were both heading to the bedroom. By the time I got there after making coffee for the morning, closing up the house, etc she was already asleep. I wasn't real surprised at this, but there was a little twinge of disappointment because I figured there was a 1/2 percent chance she meant "something" by her comments. Regardless, I went to bed and fell asleep quickly.

Morning came and I woke up before the alarm with about the biggest nocturnal erection I had ever had. I was still locked in my HT so the erection had pushed everything away from my body. My scrotum was stretched tight and the base of my shaft was exposed enough to allow my whole fist to wrap around it. It filled my grip and felt very firm and full. About that time the alarm went off and my wife got up, hit the snooze, and went into the bathroom. I figured she was up for the day, but soon she returned back to our bedroom and climbed back in bed. She was facing me so there was not much opportunity to spoon, and we both layed there until the alarm went off again. I hit the snooze this time and returned to bed. Eventually she was facing away from me and we both settled into a very close spooning position. I could feel my cage pressing into her rear end as I wrapped my arm over her and pulled her close. Within my cage I could feel an erection trying to grow and every once in a while she would reposition and wiggle her rear against it. It felt great and I wanted it to last all day, but eventually we had to get up and she admitted that it felt really nice being in bed like that.

It's funny, we don't normally cuddle like that unless I'm caged, then I have this great urge to do so. I'm not sure if she has made the connection yet, but I know she really enjoys it too.

[newbie]

Well, it's Thursday and I've been locked up since Sunday afternoon. So far so good for just getting back into wearing my device more regularly. I have noticed that I have been getting more morning hard-ons than I have remembered having before I started this. Obviously it might be because it's uncomfortable to have one as it stretches my sack skin and might be waking me up, but I've also found that as I lay there after the swelling has gone down I can start to get hard again just feeling the device embrace my penis. It feels so good to wear it and the restrictive nature is a turn on all it's own, so I can lay there relaxed and feel myself becoming more aroused and full. It happened again this morning and by the time I got out of bed I was semi-hard and had pushed the HT toward the end of my sack again. Eventually it all goes away in a while, but the main thing is that this isn't caused by having to go to the bathroom or anything like that. I'm actually enjoying it.

As a side note, I've been much more relaxed wearing it this week due to the mindset that I'm not going to hide it from my wife anymore and just act naturally. I'm not going out of my way to be in situations where she'll see it, but am not doing the opposite either. So far there really hasn't been a time where she blatantly saw it in full view, but this morning she and I were talking and all I was wearing was my underwear (boxer brief) so it was pretty obvious I was wearing it. I feel pretty confident that she knows and accepts that I'm wearing it alot now, so this shouldn't be an issue for us. Again, I'm not asking her to participate in any way, just to accept that I am wearing it. When we're in bed together I'm trying not to do anything out of the ordinary so that she'll feel it against her or inadvertantly touch it in any way. While this isn't as fun for me I think she appreciates not always having it pressed against her like I tended to do in the past. There will be plenty of real cuddling opportunities I'm sure coming, so I look forward to those.

We are going away this weekend as a family, staying in the same hotel room and all that, so I may just leave my HT home for that. I might want to take it off for a while as I should probably give it a break for a couple of days. I may ask my wife what she thinks, but I don't think I would feel comfortable having it around (either wearing it or in my suitcase) with our kids around anyway.

Once again, I'm not doing this to try and make my wife my keyholder, or to see how long I can wear it, but as more of a fetish toy that I can wear and maybe add something to our relationship.. We'll see where this goes. Again.

[newbie]

So things have been going pretty smooth lately, so I haven't written a post in a while but figured I would type one out this morning.

I've been locked for the week since we got back from out long weekend away, and it's been fine. I don't think I've been so relaxed at wearing it before, I sometimes forget I have it on. It's so comfortable, and I feel that it's discrete enough to wear on a constant basis where as before I would be paranoid that people would notice it or whatever but those fears seem to be unfounded. My wife and I go out with me locked and I wear it around her when we are getting changed in the morning, etc.

Obviously my wife knows I wear it, and it seems that she has come to accept it without an issue. She is just as loving and caring as ever, and doesn't even bat an eye when she sees me wearing it or whatever. We've been playing in bed the last few weekends and she seems to be having a good time with that. When I say playing it generally involves making out and then me playing with her breasts and rubbing her crotch before she strips down naked and I proceed on going down on her until she reaches climax. All the while I of course remain locked without ever having an orgasm, which she really doesn't seem to worry about anymore. She fully enjoys the attention she receives and I can tell there's no guilt toward me for being locked and unable to orgasm. This is one of the hottest things that has evolved.

This past Saturday night we went out and she was wearing some tight jeans, boots, and a sexy top that she knows always drives me wild. When we got home she wanted to stay up and watch tv while I just wanted to go to bed. I headed to the bedroom and waited for her but quickly fell asleep. When I felt her climbing into bed I awoke and became instantly aroused. I proceeded to start foreplay with her to which she responded in a very positive way. I could tell she was getting more and more turned on and it wasn't long before she stripped down on bed and lay there naked with me. I felt it was only fitting that I do the same so I also stripped, even though I was still obviously locked in my HT so being naked wouldn't benefit me in any way except that now we could feel each others body against the other. It felt great to be nude and locked and I'm not sure if this was the first time we did this or not. Our bodies pressed together and I could feel my cage press against her. I proceeded to go down on her and she reached a powerful orgasm. When it was over she pulled me up to her and we held each other until we fell asleep. She was completely satisfied and that was all she needed. Later toward morning I awoke and started to pick up where I started earlier, but this time she wanted no part of it and sweetly told me to just let her sleep in. She wasn't annoyed and she told me that in a gentle voice, so I did as she wanted and left her alone. Horny but also grateful for her calm honesty. The rest of the weekend was busy and she was in a good mood all weekend. She was fun and pleasant to be around and didn't show any hint that she would have wanted me unlocked for PIV sex the night before. I know at some point she will need that, and I will be more than happy to oblige, I just have to figure out how to uncage myself when that happens since she tend to get frustrated if she wants it and I'm locked.

I guess I'll cross that bridge when we get there. Right now I feel more like this is something she is getting used to in a positive way.

[newbie]

Just as a little side note from today. My wife has never been one to send any kind of seductive instant message or email before, and this is probably nothing either, but I did receive a sort of interesting email from her this afternoon as she was working from home instead of going into the office. It came out of the blue at about 1 o'clock this afternoon and the subject line was "Boots every day, all day" which if you know anything about me then you know boots are my number one favorite thing that she wears. I immediately opened the email and it was an advertisement from JCPenney stating that they have all their boots on sale right now. It sounds boring enough, but what I noticed was she typed in the sentence "I figured you would like this ad." at the beginning of the email. I was a little shocked because she never sends me anything even remotely like this let alone an ad for all kinds of boots "..every day, all day" along with a cute note that she figured I would like it.

Of course I had to respond saying "Thanks. A nice little diversion. Pick out what you want....."

I didn't get a response back, but I know she was busy this afternoon, so we'll have to wait and see if she takes me up on the offer. I might have to pick out a couple of pairs for her.

Still locked and feeling very relaxed about it.

[locked4her55]

"Boots every day, all day"

This could cost ya.